baby momma/ex-wife drama
@hardworkingmom (1130)
United States
August 17, 2008 10:44pm CST
I’m been married for a year now. My hubby and I been together for 6years. We both came into the relationship with a child a piece. I have a son who is now 124 years and his son(our son) who is 9 years old, we had a little girl together who is now 4 years old.
This is my 1st marriage but my hubby 2nd marriage.
But now that we are married and moved to another state with our children. WAIT BEFORE I GET INTO THAT, my hubby have physical and sole custody of his son for over 7 years. His mom is an addict ( who is in denial and won’t give up realize she lost everything. She also think no one knows she gets HIGH). NOW BACK TO HE DRAMA.
Now we move to another state with the permission from our former state where we lived(Our birth home)
His ex wife is mad because they are no longer together and she have to pay child support(what she don’t pay), help pay for traveling expense(she pays every other month) because we have o bring our middle child to his mother every month for a visit plus for the summer.
Now she had him this summer and my mother n law was going to bring him back home for us so we won’t have to do the traveling especially being that we just left from up there like the end of June. So when my mother n law and sister n law went to go and pick up my stepson from his mom’s place she stated with the drama, calling police and stating my husband is the only person that can pick their son and no one else. So the police called us at home where we live 8 hours away from where my stepson was at. Anyway the cop told my hubby that he have to travel and come get his son if he wants him to come home. Mind you there’s no where in the court papers stating that he is the only one that can do drop offs and/or pick ups. OH YES THERE IS A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST HER(HIS EX WIFE). So we had to call our jobs and call out. This was no a planned visit especially under the circumstances. We had to pack clothes and was out of our house and everything in like a hour from hanging up with EO finest(bullcrap) Now you know once we arrive about 4:30am EST we had to get police escort due to the fact she(ex wife) love to run here mouth and the way I’m feeling for her right now I’ll beat the Sugar Honey Ice Tea(PG-13 version) out of here. I just hope I can caught her in a dark alley because it’ll be a wrap.
THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME VENT.
DO ANYONE ELSE GO THERE ANY TYPE OF DRAMA WITH EXS WIFE, BOYFRIEND, GIRLFRIEND, BABY MOMMA, AND/OR BABY DADDY?
2 responses
@Chevee (5905)
• United States
28 Apr 09
I hope thing have turned out fine for you your husband and the children. I also see that this discussion was posted 9 months ago.
My question is school will be out for the summer months. Is your stepson planning on spending the summer vacation with his mother? If so do you think she will start her drama all over again when time for him to come back home?
@hardworkingmom (1130)
• United States
28 Apr 09
He is suppose to go up there for the summer and yes I do know for a fact that the drama is going to start all over again. I'm about so tired of the s**t. Because I feel he is older enough to know what is going on and plus I've been in his life since he was 3 years old and hes now 10. Plus i sometimes feel like his gather is always making excused for him and his behavior and I don't think its fair to me but his father(my husband) always make it seem like I need to fell into the bull crap and reprogram him when I don't feel that way nor will I particapte in that crap. Its been to long and too strssful. Do you think I'm wrong because I won't baby the issue like everyone else plus we must not forget that me and husband have a little girl together and I feel like he favor his precious son more then his daughter. thank you for responsing
@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
18 Aug 08
Fortunately, my children were in high school when my divorce happened so I didn't have to see my ex's new wife, the one who broke up our marriage. But while it would feel really good to smack her upside her head, I still work on forgiving them both and I'm almost there. Feels much better than hating them.
I really feel for your situation, it's not fair! You go right ahead and vent anytime you want, we all need that sometimes!



