advice of older people

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@skenthal (1020)
Turkey
August 18, 2008 5:07am CST
i was thinking my mom`s advice when i wake up she said that i should be marrying before 30 to have a good family, well i couldnt know what to say, but what i think is world is changing there wasnt same situations like 22 years before, so i dont think she was completely right, so i wanted to ask you people that do you feel that advice from older people carries special weight because of their greater experience? for me in that subject it wasnt true however i can say completely yes to that question i always listen someone who has greater experience than me because even though that advice may not be completely right but there might be some tips that i can take from that advice, anyway happy mylottings
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@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
18 Aug 08
Funny one this one! Mothers generally do not care about their male son marrying early or not. I think you have to decide by yourself not let others decide that for you. The day you find the love of your life just marry, simple like that! Marriage is not easy so you should be very aware of what you are getting into! LOL
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@skenthal (1020)
• Turkey
18 Aug 08
yea she still says that thats your decision but she also said me if you wanna be in a good family you have to marry early
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• Malaysia
18 Aug 08
Got few 1) Listen to elders advise, it totally depends on you on accepting them or not as you are able to diffrenciate right and wrong ~ maybe when you were younger than that is the only thing you know 2) Listen to elders advise, but they may not be suitable with current life style ~ i cant wear long skirts and cover my self top to toe, i am in service industry 3)About marrying at 30 yes i agree ~ a man is at his prime from 20 ~ 5o years old ~ when you have children, you have added responsibility and you are still able to cope with them during this stage 4) About marrying at 30 yes i agree ~ if you marry at age of 40, your child is only 10 when you are 50, what if you end up having heart attack at this age ~ what will happen to the kid Cheers
• China
18 Aug 08
ya i believe in older's advise..!! sometime we dont wanna complete it..but many times they all say is true..!! keep lotting..!!
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
18 Aug 08
I do think that taking some advice from an older generation would be a good idea. It could be beneficial to listen to someone who has more experience and has been through life's struggles and difficulties. I graduated from high school 22 years ago, which makes me forty. I have had some experiences in my life time that could prove inspirational or helpful to the younger generation I believe. You could take some advice from the older people and I wish you luck.
• Malaysia
19 Aug 08
that was a good one .. you have the experiences in your life time that could prove inspirational or helpful to younger generation ... i fell the same way but did not know how to structure the sentence
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
22 Aug 08
Thank you for enjoying my response. I hope it can help others. With age does come a little wisdom. That's for sure!