Still Married...After Thinking She Was Divorced...  

She told me that she and her husband had the same lawyer and for some reason that lawyer didn't show up on the last day of court. I don't know why she didn't get papers of any kind..maybe because the judge didn't sign them and therefore they weren't finalized. I'm not sure what the relationship was between him and the other lady. It would seem she had some sort of suspicions about him for her to look up his background. It took a long time for he and my friend to work things out but I'm glad they did cause they are now both happy.

I agree with you. I don't think she realized the divorce wasn't final. She had moved quite a few times and if there were any sort of papers, they could of gotten lost somewhere along the way. But if the judge didn't sign them, there probably wasn't any papers. I think she just assumed they were divorced. And I agree with you,I would never lie to my husband about being unfaithful...seems like an awfully low blow to me.

Not only it is a low blow but kinda dsumb to me. And it did not solve anything.
I am not sure what he say this time around that make your friend belive he was faithful after all.
I would still suggest to look for the truth by herself.

I agree with ya..I sure would want to know. I don't know why she didn't follow up on that. I know I would of. When I divorced my first husband, I made sure I had the decree in my hands. I even made a copy of it to be sure and in case I lost it for some reason.

I didn't make this up if that's what you are insinuating. This really did happen to my friend. And, no,they are not living happily ever after but they are happy. They have their ups and downs just like any other normal couple.