when is when?

wedding - wedding so soon
Philippines
August 20, 2008 8:18pm CST
i am 22 years old now. and many of my classmates were pregnant and some were married, legally.. and some were living in together.. but somehow, there are people who would want me to get or to think about it. i am still young, but i need your advice of when is when....thanks!
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4 responses
@chechuva (1275)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
getting married is not a simple decision to do. there are lots of things to consider before getting married. this is my opinion! im already 24 years old. i think i know what you are feeling right now. in my case my siblings are already married. at my age, they already have their own family. im also thinking that im left behind. but looking into their situation, they also advice me not to get married as long i have done what i want and explore life as single. i think you are still young like me! we still have lots of things to understand and learn. learn to be responsible and flexible in life. it will be a great adjustment if we hurry up things.. enjoy life, while we are still single! but let's not forget to live and be mature in preparation of the married life thing! have a nice day!
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
i like your response.. it suites to my needs right now.. marriage is far beyond me.. hehe.. i still have a lot of time to enjoy, right?.. there are lots of time..hehe..you too, enjoy being single right now.. and we still have more discussions to discuss..
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• United States
21 Aug 08
No one can tell you when is right, it should be up to you completely. If you feel like you are not ready, then wait a while, marry someone and have a family when you feel like you can have one, when you feel comfortable having a wife then you should. Fall in love with a girl and see how it goes, then it is all up to you and her. You're still very young, twenty-two is still early yet, you have a whole lifetime to make the decision, no rush at all! Don't get pressured into it if it does not feel right, you don't want to regret one of the most important decisions in your life! Happy mylotting!
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• Philippines
21 Aug 08
thank you for the advice.. yeah , you have a big point over there.. and it is really striking to me.. well, i am still not ready for it though...
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@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Aug 08
Im 32 years old.... ten years older than you are. I have the same questions, but Im living the task I have at hand, giving my all and the rest will take care of itself. When will I get married? I also dont know. My word to you is that, what you have tasks today give it your best coz tomorrow will come and God has planned it for us. All we have to do is seek him and give Him all our best.
• Philippines
24 Aug 08
hehe.. you are 32 years old?..hmm.. i wonder what it would be like when i am at your age. and the question, hehe, i will surely be questioning it a lot of time i guess. and as you said, you are ten years older, so it is for me, i will be waiting for 10 years too...hehe.. thanks for the reminder. to give God the best of what i have right now. the same to you..!
@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
23 Aug 08
Everyone that wants to get married is ready at a different time. Some couples are ready to marry in their early twenties and most people are ready to get married by age thirty. Some people choose to live together and have children and in my home country this is acceptable. I got married at twenty two years old, then we got divorced at twenty eight years old. Divorce is painful especially for children. Being sure that you are truly compatible with your life partner is what really matters. Hopefully you will know when your dream partner for life comes along. Good luck and remember there is now need to rush.
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• Philippines
24 Aug 08
that is something to learn from your experience my friend. there is really no need to rush right now. and there is no need to worry. what to think as of this moment is to cherish this time. thanks for sharing your experience.. hope that you are doing well right now.. thanks..