how many times have you been betrayed in love?

@sang2k2 (1833)
India
August 27, 2008 2:57am CST
after being betrayed in love do you forgive your partner and react as if nothing has happened or you juz leave that person and never look back to them... here betrayal means any thing ....
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BigBadWolf_aus
@BigBadWolf_aus (140)
• Australia
27 Aug 08
one chance and if the trust is burnt again i leave
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metschica25
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
27 Aug 08
yes we all make mistakes ! i forgive once too for the most part . something are just too crazy , or big to just get over and try to make peace
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
28 Aug 08
Sang! First of all where were you hiding. Appears were busy in 'love'. What happened .........? Did anybody betray you or you betrayed anyone..........LOL! (Just kidding, please do not mind). Betrayel is really painful. There is no question of forgiving the person, who betrays you, because, he/she played with your emotions and betrayed your trust, which is not at all good for healthy realations.
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
28 Aug 08
hey yeh was bzee..now im back!! feels good...im ok with my friends comments...thanks dpak for the concern imhappy n lucky to have friends like u around me. yeh i wish god would have made human's emotional.
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
29 Aug 08
What prompted you to start this discussion?????
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
29 Aug 08
juz causally yaar...
cupid74
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
27 Aug 08
Well, if u love then u forgive
cupid74
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
27 Aug 08
and did i say that if u r betrayed then it wsas not Love but Lust, Illusion Love is uncoditioonal liking not looking for returns
cupid74
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
30 Aug 08
Hi dear its just my comeents Take care
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
29 Aug 08
thanks for enligtening
Verity
@Verity (851)
•
28 Aug 08
Betrayal happens when the person does not keep you and does not love you. For me, if I am betrayed, I would no longer push myself to that person for a single betrayal is enough and I am not going to tolerate it.
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
28 Aug 08
but wht if you cant stop missing him?
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
29 Aug 08
i agree that a new hope for genuine love awaits..but at times it cud go other way round as well....it cud be like u wait for nthng and one starts not trusting evrything.
Verity
@Verity (851)
•
28 Aug 08
Probably, at the start misses are still there but when time goes by and when you will realized that you're just being trickily played by your deceitful husband, then the same misses will be vanished and buried forever and a new hope for a genuine love awaits you.
@mayka123
@mayka123 (17083)
• India
27 Aug 08
A friend can betray you, love cannot. If there is betrayal that means there was no love but just friendship and disloyalty.
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
29 Aug 08
or may be some1 was juz using you , or palying with your emotions...doing timepass
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Aug 08
but dont you think these days the number of these kind of people have increased due to which it has become difficult to trust any body so easily... and these people should be punished by the GOD, to hurt others.
@mayka123
@mayka123 (17083)
• India
30 Aug 08
Yes you do meet these kind of people sometimes who dont care for others feelings.
nupats
@nupats (3564)
• India
28 Aug 08
hi dear i loved one guy and am now married to him for 8 years ...and i am thankful to God that i have never been betrayed in love he is still as loving and caring
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
28 Aug 08
lucky you..touch wood
subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
27 Aug 08
i have not been in love. but i was betrayed by a so called BF. i thought him and believed him. but he betrayed me big time. it has given me a lesson and so i do not believe people easily.
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
28 Aug 08
hi thts good that you leanrt it in one go....
metschica25
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
27 Aug 08
for most people in depends on what they did and how big it is . somethings you just cant forget , or move pass . it could be something so big that it could chaneg your whole life .
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
29 Aug 08
but time is a healer so as time passes one can forget and should forget....
pkraj111
@pkraj111 (2458)
• India
27 Aug 08
No. I am not betrayed in love, a friend betrayed me but not love
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
29 Aug 08
r u in touch with that friend still.
rocker21
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
27 Aug 08
I've been betrayed once in love and i never forgave her and left her.
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
29 Aug 08
have u been in love after that...wht did u feel after being betrayed..did u feel like god should teach that person (betrayed) a lesson in life.
glay22
@glay22 (512)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
hmm.. been netrayed a couple of times already.. and i have left the relationship at once..there's no more trust and love after that but, that doesn'tmean i have to stop loving.. i am so much inlove now because of the experience of being betrayed, i am more mature and watchful now i give my best so that i wont have no regrets that i didnt do something for the relationship..its hard to react as if nothing has happened, when you have been hurt much, it just means, you have loved much
sang2k2
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
29 Aug 08
oh betrayal as a lesson to learn..