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myLot reputation of 95/100. chingbeem (408)   ranked 303 out of 12,298 in friend1 year ago

I was I think in 5th grade when our english teacher required us to have penpals to improve our communication skills. We were still using snail mail. My penpals were from Ohio and Japan...Oh I wish I could remember their names so maybe I can look for them now. That was a long long time ago. I would use my cuty cuty Hello Kitty stationeries my grandma brought from the US.
With our advanced technologies now, who would still rely on snail mails. gone are the handwritten letters and pictures with dedications. Letters were even perfumed. Have you had an experience as this?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9499)   ranked 43 out of 12,298 in friend   1 year ago

I had pen pals in Brazil, Australia, Germany, Austria, Finland, Turkey, I think that's it. I met the Austrian one in 1979 when I was in Germany. The Brazilian one found me on the internet back in the 90's. I have since lost his e-mail address unfortunately. But I remember we sent pictures, tape cassettes with our voices, money (which never got thru to Brazil lol) and lots of things. It was fun!


myLot reputation of 95/100. chingbeem (408)   ranked 303 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

LOL-money never get through the mail. they end up in somebody else's pocket.LOL.Alas, I never got to exchange tokens with my penpals. They were both girls. I had by the way a male penpal when I was around 19. He was from washington. He got mad at me because I didnt want to be intimate or something. I never replied back ever again.LOL


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9499)   ranked 43 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

I think the Brazilian guy was looking for something too when he contacted me. He had just gone through a divorce!


palito (1)   ranked 11,109 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

yeah i had a few some time,some where really good & Some where a Disater:(

hope i find a few more good ones!!

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. m0rnings (481)   ranked 3,340 out of 12,298 in friend   1 year ago

I remember having one from another country when I was in elementary school as well; I think they were from Brazil, i want to say. However, then I got one on my own. I used to read this scholastic magazine for school and they had an option for penpals. You filled out your information and sent it off to the magazine and they paired you with another kid. Well, I got a weirdo for a penpal lol. I was in 5th or 6th grade and so handwriting skills were already pretty well developed. Well the girl I was paired with was my age, a few months older maybe. Her handwriting was ATROCIOUS, she couldn't spell to save her life and she was clingy - THROUGH THE MAIL lol. If I didn't write back immediately, she'd write AGAIN in a huge huff about how I was ignoring her and why wasn't i writing back, blah blah... It was then that I decided to START ignoring her, LOL w00t.

I like snail mail, personally. it feels more... intimate to me. my boyfriend and i talk on the phone all the time and chat on IM, but last year I sent him a handwritten letter on his birthday and he liked it:] i liked writing it. I wish the surge in snail mail would come back, but its so darn expensive these days for a STAMP! thumbdown


myLot reputation of 95/100. chingbeem (408)   ranked 303 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

My...and you were just writing. What more if you were together...maybe you could get strangle by not replying right away!LOL
It's not only the stamp's of issue in snail mail---themajorone is whether you'd get it on time or not.sigh.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. wadeys (1170)   ranked 543 out of 12,298 in friend   1 year ago

i used to have a pen pal but one day i just stoped getting letter but i know that i moved a lot so there was a chance that it was my fault and the letter just got lost in the mail but i never bothered to try and wright back again i never really thought of it because i was young i did not understand how she would not have gotten it or anything like that i was too young to understand how mail worked.


myLot reputation of 95/100. chingbeem (408)   ranked 303 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

yes,everything will just be part of our memories. we were to young then to treasure the friendship...

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9499)   ranked 43 out of 12,298 in friend   1 year ago

Actually I have a pen pal story. My husband's cousin, East German, saw an Austrian girl was looking for a pen pal in a newspaper that had gotten smuggled in. They got in contact and ended up getting married. He was allowed to move to Austria (Austria was neutral) without a lot of hassle actually. Sadly the marriage did not survive.


myLot reputation of 95/100. chingbeem (408)   ranked 303 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

there was time in my country that Filipinas became mail ordered brides. I think it still goes on now. Our nanny before married a guy from norway. I would really like to know if they are still together. I have a neighbor here who married a German. i think they met through e-pal. Well, snail mail have been replaced! They are doing fine but could not agree where to settle. My Filipina friend wants to settle in Germany. Her German husband wantsto settle in the Philippines.LOL!really funny. I also have an Australian, another German and korean neighbors. They are staying for good here. They all met their wives through e-pal.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9499)   ranked 43 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

That's funny....

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. corngrass (675)   ranked 2,233 out of 12,298 in friend   1 year ago

I used to have pen pal when I'm in primary school. My pen pal is from my country but different town. However, we had lost contact for years and we didn't find ways to connect it back.
I still remember when we write to each other, we will always attach card or bookmarks with the letter. I spend most of my pocket $$ on cute and beautiful letters, bookmarks and cards. And yes, they're perfumed too.
Everytime i came back from school the first thing i do is rush to the mail box to search for my letters.


myLot reputation of 95/100. chingbeem (408)   ranked 303 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

the best part in having pen pals was the arrival of the much anticipated mails...tnx

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6. KingDaevid (32)   ranked 4,434 out of 12,298 in friend   1 year ago

...had a bunch of 'em when I was in high school...Germany, England, New Zealand, India, Sweden, France, Canada, United States, South Korea. One is still a good friend after 30 years...


myLot reputation of 95/100. chingbeem (408)   ranked 303 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

oh good for you, you are still in touch with your penpals...I wished I continued communications with mine, but Im not sure if it was me who stopped writting.


KingDaevid (32)   ranked 4,434 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

...well, I'm only in contact with one. Was with another but that lapsed a few years back...

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. bestisyettocome (1092)   ranked 992 out of 12,298 in friend   1 year ago

I had two pen pals. One was from Germany and the other from near Cleveland, OH. I had more contact with the one near Cleveland and I remember her name was Nancy from Middleburg Heights. I couldn't WAIT to get the mail, after I had sent a letter back. If I looked back in my things, perhaps I could find their names...I am a packrat!


myLot reputation of 95/100. chingbeem (408)   ranked 303 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

try looking for them...it would really be great to keep in touch with someone you used to write with.

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8. myLot reputation of 90/100. SaintAnne (1695)   ranked 243 out of 12,298 in friend   1 year ago

I think I've had at least three, one from Australia or New Zealand (I can't remember now), one from the UK then another one from the US. I know she's from Sebastopol, CA and I wish I can still remember her name because Sebastopol is actually about 15 miles from where I live.


myLot reputation of 95/100. chingbeem (408)   ranked 303 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

it could have been nice to see her...tnx

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. kun2349 (7229)   ranked 1,421 out of 12,298 in friend   1 year ago

MAybe my ex gf should be considered as my one and only penpal^_^ I got to know her thru MIRc when i was just 16yrs old, and initially we were chatting online for most of the time, and slowly, she started to send me snail mails and we corresponded from there, even though we are in the same country.. lol

AFter 3-4 yrs, we became a couple and we still write to each other.. lol=D Till the day we broke up, we are still writing till one day, i din contact her anymore and the writing also stopped at that very moment..


myLot reputation of 95/100. chingbeem (408)   ranked 303 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

oh, thats so sad. I mean it was an interesting start. You were together for a long while...then it just faded away. let me know if you get back writing once again.tnx


myLot reputation of 97/100. kun2349 (7229)   ranked 1,421 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

I also dunno if i will ever go back to writing again, because my interest in writing starts from her, and it ends with her too.. Plus, she's the one whom teaches me how to write and express myself too^_^ So i cant say for sure, if i can go back to that again, but writing in mylot, i can do that.. lol

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10. myLot reputation of 93/100. MariaD (2325)   ranked 970 out of 12,298 in friend   1 year ago

Yes, I have. I was fond of writing letters since I was a kid. It was my way of keeping in touch with family and friends from afar. I have had pen pals from another country. They were my classmates for a little while. I have kept in touch with them since we parted. We were using the traditional letters back then, snail mail. Now, we still keep in touch but have been using more of the high-technology ways, such as email and messenger services.


myLot reputation of 95/100. chingbeem (408)   ranked 303 out of 12,298 in friend  1 year ago

Yes, I kept in touch with former classmates too the way you did.tnx

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