Do you feel responsible for solving the problems of your family members?
By ram_cv
@ram_cv (16513)
India
August 31, 2008 6:43am CST
As members of a family do you feel responsible for solving other members problems? For e.g. as a parent do you feel that you are responsible to solve your son/daughter's problems? OR as a husband do you feel responsible to solve your wife's problems?
OR
You just let the family member face his/her own problem and help out if he/she asks for your help?
Cheers!
Ram
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3 responses
@anujain75 (1059)
• India
31 Aug 08
If the problem is based on financial level then I try to solve out the problem as much as I can or any of my family member suffering from health related issue then also try to help them.
But if the problem is based on personal levelor between two members of myfamily then I do not take any initiative but if somebody told me that he/she are suffering with problem then only I tried to solve.
@goldenapple951 (455)
• United States
31 Aug 08
If they are of age..I dont try to solve them because it inhabits their emotional growth. Its part of life to learn so by me trying to "fix" everything I not letting
them live in a real world. Of course it there abuse, physical or what ever yes you bet I will intervene and help...otherwise I let them spread their wings and learn.
@asiatic_r10 (265)
• Indonesia
31 Aug 08
Of course I am. We are part of one family, anyone problem becomes problem of the whole family. That's what family is for, to support you when you are in trouble. However, there is a certain limit where the decision should still be made by the person itself but at least all members of family give their full support.
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