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myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people 4 years ago

hi mylotters do any of you believe like i do in love'at first sight or am I just a hopeless romantic? I had just listened to'some old cole porter songs and it made me remember the day I met'my husband to be. I looked at his grinning face, and thought oh myg this man is who I am going to marry. This scared me as I didnt really know him at all yet. but still I knew he was the one.Ten years earlier a fortune teller told me I would marry a man with the initals G.H. and that we would have two children, a boy first then a girl. We would lose one child. well all that has come to pass, our daughter died at age eight.So when he told me his named was G arland Hatley I almost fainted. So my questions do any of you believe in love at first sight, and in someone being the one and only one who is slated for you as a soul mate? I know one can love more than one person, but I feel that for all of us God has picked one particular person.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. bombshell (5392)   ranked 1,157 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

yes i believe love at a first sight thats why i married him and soon we are 9 yrs of our marriage.we call it "destiny" in our situation back then.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

hi bombshell me too. I married him and we had 34 great years, oh we had our ups and downs but we always loved each other and had only wished we had met ten years before.


myLot reputation of 91/100. bombshell (5392)   ranked 1,157 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

i seehappy,but the ups and downs also good.thats the way we meausred or love, how truly we arehappy.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people  3 years ago

hi bombshell so right without the downs we could not appreciate
the ups at all.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. DonnaLawson (2806)   ranked 4,553 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

I believe in love at first sight, because 43 years ago, I met my husband.. There were no fortune tellers involved but we have stayed together for 43 years, 3 dating and 40 married.. We were very different from each other, he was an immature 15 year old and I was a more mature 17 year old.. We didn't marry for 3 years but we did date, break up and date again, this went on for 3 years, until he finally started acting a bit more grown up.. It isn't easy being married, especially when you are still very young, 18 and 19 is still too young to be getting married.. It just seemed right even when we were arguing, because we always made up and started seeing each other again, we couldn't stay away from each other.. So, it has been 43 years now that we have been together and I do believe we will be together until we die of old age.. I don't think anyone else would have either of us, we are so set in our ways, so we are stuck with each other and don't seem to mind it.. I still love him as I did when I met him and he does me also..


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

hi donna glad I am not alone. wish only that I had met my husband ten years earlier when we were in our twenties he told me he had come very close to my hometown when I was eighten and he was twenty four, had he known where i lived we met have met sooner. lol.

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. Opal26 (14496)   ranked 223 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

Wow Hatley, that is an interesting love story. If it is true
about love at first sight then I haven't found it and I don't
believe I was destined to. I thought I had found it once or
twice, but I was wrong and now I no longer believe that it
is my destiny and maybe ever was. I'm not sure how I truly
feel about it. I guess I feel like I was kind of dealt a
lousy hand when it came to my entire life. Maybe that was just
the way that it was destined to be. I can't exactly see it
really being any other way. I could have been married, but
it wouldn't have been right and it wouldn't have ever worked.
So I do believe that I was destined to do exactly what I did
and stay single. I believe that the choices I made were for
the best. I don't think that God picked a person for me.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Rosekitty (4785)   ranked 1,064 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Opalkitty..I Luvs youwub


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Opal hi you have my love too if you are happy fine, but if not hope you meet the right person for you. I think my husband and me were sort of the odd ones in our families because we seemed to mesh from the moment we met eachother. he was one of six kids but se emed like a very lonely man.

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. Rosekitty (4785)   ranked 1,064 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

Patsy..that was such a sweet story and for it to come true!
I'm so sorry you had to lose your little girl..What was her name?
I can just see you looking into his eyes and feeling so in love..thats what everyone should have and experience...
I lost one at 25 who i felt that way about and he did too but after all these years i still miss him and have wonderful memories to carry with me always..


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

hi rosekitty her name was Lisa Rose and she was a little sweethear, her favorite saying was pick baby up. she loved every'one and they all loved her back. she did not look
'brain damaged at all but sadly she was. I am widowed now since 1991 so have some wonderful memories too.

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5. myLot reputation of 74/100. everlasting (9950)   4 years ago

I did not see a harbinger! Too bad, isn't it, dear friend?

It is not a love at first sight. I have known him as a friend with common interest. I was still hurting when he came into my life and threw caution to the wind.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people  3 years ago

hi everlasting no matter as long as you two loved
each other and he was there for you. does not have
'to be love at first sight at all. all love is pretty
wonderful.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)   4 years ago

Hello Hatley
Yes, I do believe.
No doubt about it to me.
Only time will tell if it is true for me. Bless you Hatley Dear and I am so happy that you got to stay with your soulmate in life. Hugs xooxoxxo


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people  3 years ago

oceantiara please if you read this after this past year. let me knowpm me. thanks I got to stay with him for 43 years. I miss
'you and wonder about you

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. gabs8513 (23375)   ranked 696 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

Yes Hatley I do believe in it and I am happy that you where able to experience it
It happens and I know it happens
But I do have to say I am sorry about your Daughter I know you have told me this but it is something that no one ever expects to happen that you loose one of your Babies
I was also told that I would marry not be happy I would have 2 Children and one Miscarriage, I would be diagnosed with an Illness and my Life would totally change but I would meet the Man that will make me happy and respect me for who I am
All this has come true as well and to this Day it amazes me how People can tell that far ahead


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people  3 years ago

hi gabs finally got back to work on these old discussions. odd'
how someone you never knew could predict so accurately all the
things that would happen to you and evento the initals of the man I would marry. so bizarre.

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8. myLot reputation of 88/100. JayJashG (228)   ranked 5,027 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

I am not yet married. But I happened to meet my guy very well before a year and a half.. It was more like love at first sight.But it was our sweet little secret. SO we had to keep it glowing for some more time and it so happened that we told our love for each other at almost the same time. Its surely the best moment in my life.. I never had a second thought after meeting my guy.. I am quite happy to share it with all here..


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people  3 years ago

hi Jayjashg I am so glad for you,sorry it has taken me so long to answer these, I bet you are now happily married. good luck.

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9. myLot reputation of 86/100. razcal2267 (9670)   4 years ago

Bear with me as I try to explain please. I do not believe in love at first sight. I do believe that there is lust at first sight. I also believe that you can see/meet someone and once you look at them you feel as if you are "home" I guess some would call that love but I cant say that when I was less then 5 years old when I had that feeling.

I met my soul mate when I was just about three years old. He was two years to the day older then me. We were inseparable. I knew I was going to spend my life with him but at that age I didn't know what that really meant. We were together for a tad bit less then seven years and were engaged when he was killed by a drunk driver on our birthday.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people  3 years ago

oh razcal2267 I am so sorry and I imagine this discussion brought
up some painful memories, that is so tragic. I hope you are now
'once more a bit happier. sorry that this may have stirred some
unpleasant memories.

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10. wehomy (7)   4 years ago

lol i know what you mean i once saw him and i thought i was scary i felt like i didnt look good i was so terrified off him i was freakin out like i was kreep out lol


myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 437 out of 26,920 in people  3 years ago

hi wehomy but I got over the scary feeling as I knew I was inlove and he loved me too. we had 43 years together so it
was really quite wonderful

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