Do you miss the old mylotterS?

@ronaldinu (12422)
Malta
September 16, 2008 4:15am CST
I have a few old inactive friends on my list that have contributed in several of my discussions that I have started in the past. Some of them really gave their positive feedback and I always looked forward to read their contribution. Despite that we have never met in real, you start looking forward to hear from them every now and then. Suddenly they disappear. Do you miss your old my lotterS?
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18 responses
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Good day.. Yes in fact I do. I joined in about 4 months ago and had meet those seniors and some issues that caused them to quit. These were members that made mylot interesting and contributed so much in the discussions here. I just wish that they would return and add some luster back in the community.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
16 Sep 08
Thanks for your feedback. I wish that the old mylotters return back too.
• United States
16 Sep 08
Yeah, I do, too. I guess I can't expect much, I took off for a few months; it seems to happen when I do that. A lot of the people that I remember talking to are gone, just like it always happens. I've been with myLot since February 2007 and have seen my share of people come and go. I am sure there are people that I've interacted with who noticed that I left (at least I like to think so) and I notice their absence being back now. It's just the nature of the beast, I know it... it's a bummer a lot of the times, but it's still cool to get to know new people here!
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@avonrep1 (1862)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I think what has happen is a mix of two things. The first being, that a while back there were some mylot stalkers, that would report post, that shouldn't have been reported, because they disagreed with that person's beliefs. The second thing, is that life happens, and sometimes even if you want to be on here posting, it can be hard to find the time. I have been a member since the first month Mylot became a site. I have been very active at time, alot in the beginning. Then I started being stalked because I don't believe in organized religion. And post I would contribute to, or I would start, suddenly was removed. I took a break from the site for a couple of months. Since being back I am not as active as I once was. But that has to do with life and finding my free time is less and less. But I try to log on a couple of times a week to post. I think you will find, that though they are inactive, its just a period they are going through, and we'll see them around again. I miss a lot of people, and one person I really miss, if he was posting actively, then I would make sure, I was on here more. Guess I need to find someone else as interesting as he is. LOL Happy mylotting.
• United States
16 Sep 08
Hey you remember me :) I was stalked after I started a discussion support Gay Marriages and I was banned with no explanation I had over 10,000 post and was not planning on returning but I missed some of ya! Hugs rachel!
@avonrep1 (1862)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I remember you. Guess what, after responding to this post earlier, the person I was referring to, I found again. He had to create a new screen name because of the BS that was happening. Today has been a good day. Nice to see you again. Michelle
@Mitraa (3183)
• India
13 Feb 09
Yes, I miss many old mylotters! wooitsMolly, Bhubaneshwar, Sibananda, Parklife, mohan60 and many in the list of missing! Most of them are missing or inactive! Thanks and have a good day!
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
17 Sep 08
don,t worry about the old mylotter focus on the lotters that here so you can reach your goals there are plenty mylotter that will answer your question reach out in touch some of them.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
17 Sep 08
Thanks ann for your advice. Well it would be nice to see some of the old timers returning back
• United States
16 Sep 08
Hi, I am one of your missing Mylotters and yes in the past I have messed some and hoped they would pop in. But in my case Mylot froze my account one day for no apparent reason and when I sent messages to administration asking for a reason they refused! Keep in mind I had been on hear for 2 years and was in the top 20 so I was a little frustrated and refused to come back for awhile. So that may be the case with other inactive friends. Starting over after you have gotten to a certain point kinda sucks!
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
17 Sep 08
And you never got any response why did your account got blocked?
• United States
17 Sep 08
Nope, and I emailed several times they would not return my inquirys I was pretty irratated!
• Ireland
16 Sep 08
I certainly miss some my old friend who were here before I took a long break. I correspond with a few of them by email and I am trying to persuade them to come back to myLot but I guess they have just got tired of it. Still, you never know, they may put in an appearance before Christmas.
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Hi there ronaldinu! I have started here more than a year ago. Since then, I have met a lot of great myLotters. Some of them are no longer active. I miss them so much. I miss their wisdom. I also miss the sensible responses they give to my discussions. Moreover, I miss the very interesting topics that they regularly post here at myLot. I hope to see them here again soon.
@chrislotz (8136)
• Canada
13 Feb 09
I did for awhile there but not anymore. I just replace them now with some new friends and go on. I know that we make some friends here but since we don't really know them and have never met them offline, it is not really a friendship so I don't miss them when they are gone. Sometimes I don't even notice a person has been gone till someone else mentions them. Then I think about it and realize they haven't been around for awhile so then I will go and check out their profile to see when they were last active. Some of my friends have been active, just not to my discussions, so I think about deleting them and I watch their activity for awhile and make a decission. Alrighty then, talk to you later my friend, Have a good mylotting day, Chris
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Sep 08
hi ronaldinu yes I surely do. there are three or four whom I have really come to respect and I miss their indept discussiones, their sense of humor and their personalities for one. One was our top user there, she was hounded off here by some mean hearted users who if not trolls were very close to it. All I can say is if they are still here they should well be damned ashamed of themselves. It is nothing to be proud of to harrass a fellow mylotter to the point she quits in tears. You have not won at all.anyway yes I really do miss these people, names I will not be able to mention.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
17 Sep 08
yes i have few i miss in mylott.most of them who was given me a BR when i first join here in mylot.
@zhaosonghan (1039)
• China
16 Sep 08
I miss them like my friends in real live,their response is very good,but now i met them less on mylot,i do not know where is them,as you said they disappear suddenly.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
16 Sep 08
Well I am still new here in MyLot friend and i never encounter or even recognize on who among of them are an older Mylotter but I do hope to be with them as well......
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
hmm, i dont have much friend here, just pop up. hope to make some friends to be missed ^_^
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
16 Sep 08
There are a number of members that I used to interact with a lot when I first joined that have now left. I do miss their comments and wish that they were still around but I guess other priorities take over for all of us eventually! I do know some of them ended up jaded and upset for one reason or antoher as well which is quite sad actually. I have a number of close friends on here now that I definitely enjoy interacting with on a regular basis and I hope they will remain for some time to come.
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Yes. I have to say I miss Raijin, he was the first friend I have ever met in mylot (in the mylot world). It's been months since I have not read anything that is related to him. Maybe he is busy or so.
@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
16 Sep 08
I too have some inactives on my list here. Some just leave and some lose their internet connection or for health or other rasons are not here but then return. When I have a 'real' friendship here we exchnage contacts and this has happened with several of the users who are no longer here. We are in contact through email or even on the phone if our friendship got to that stage I feel even MyLot is like everything in nature, it has its cycles. Some go and new ones arrive. Many of the new users are adding a valuable contribution and there are some great folks that will take the places of those who are missing with styles of their own. So, to answer your question, no there is no-one I miss as those who I might miss here I am in contact with away from here Happy posting!
@NrgDfenZ (1810)
• Belgium
16 Sep 08
I also have a few friends that haven't been online for a while.. I do miss them :D They always had fun answers :p Well nothing to do about it I guess.. Have a good day..