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Which is harder to do? To forgive or ask for forgiveness? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 98/100. divinegwapa (374)   ranked 551 out of 38,129 in life1 year ago

If everyone who has been wronged by a friend and offended by a loved one would decide to forgive...

If everyone who has wronged a friend and offended a loved one would decide to ask for forgiveness...

Then the world would be a better place to live in. But it's so much easier said than done.

I have been wronged by other people and I have offended other people countless times. I realized that for me, it is harder to forgive than ask for forgiveness especially when I was hurt badly by someone really special to me. I guess it really takes time for a wounded heart to get mended.

How about you? Which harder to do for you?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 81/100. headbanger21 (1094)   ranked 1,810 out of 38,129 in life   1 year ago

im not sure i they are both pretty hard...


myLot reputation of 90/100. catfish57 (1146)   ranked 3,987 out of 38,129 in life  1 year ago

you are right,they are hard. but with some good thought it should not be to much of a problem.


myLot reputation of 98/100. divinegwapa (374)   ranked 551 out of 38,129 in life  1 year ago

Forgetting is even harder to do.;D I guess only time can make it easier.

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. samtaylorskykierajen (5847)   ranked 3 out of 38,129 in life   1 year ago

I would say it is harder to ask for forgiveness then to give it only because when you are asking someone to forgive you, it is because you know you did something wrong and not only was it wrong but you got caught!!

Forgiving someone is something that comes from the heart and will take time depending on how bad the hurt was so although this is hard because you are hurting inside you are not the one who is asking to be forgiven for what you did . Not sure if I made any sence or not but I think asking for forgiveness would be much harder to do . I have never found it hard to forgive . I either do or I don't and then try to move on with my life.


myLot reputation of 98/100. divinegwapa (374)   ranked 551 out of 38,129 in life  1 year ago

Hi there!
I get your point.;D Good for you that you don't find it hard to forgive.
If everyone has the same disposition as yours, this world will be a better place.
;D

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. Lakota12 (16945)   ranked 284 out of 38,129 in life   1 year ago

HArd for me to forgive and I have never asked them to forgive me for what they have done after awile I just as soon for get is all!


myLot reputation of 90/100. catfish57 (1146)   ranked 3,987 out of 38,129 in life  1 year ago

sometimes forgetting is good,sometimes not.depending on the situation.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Lakota12 (16945)   ranked 284 out of 38,129 in life  1 year ago

sometimes it to is hard to forget for it can pop up years later and ya feel the hate building again!


myLot reputation of 98/100. divinegwapa (374)   ranked 551 out of 38,129 in life  1 year ago

For me, forgetting is a lot harder than forgiving. Oh well, only time can tell.

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4. myLot reputation of 73/100. everlasting (9961)   ranked 3,552 out of 38,129 in life   1 year ago

It will depend on who to forgive or to ask forgiveness to. If I consciously erred, I ask forgiveness right away. If I realized it later, I tend to clam up. For those who did me wrong, and I was really hurt, it takes a long time for me to forgive. There are cases that I will never forgive until I die.


myLot reputation of 98/100. divinegwapa (374)   ranked 551 out of 38,129 in life  1 year ago

Not forgiving until you die is sad but I guess that happens. As for me, I just hope that time would heal all the unforgiveness in my heart.

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. modstar (4960)   ranked 1,974 out of 38,129 in life   1 year ago

To ask for forgiveness and be successful is a lot harder than forgiving. Unlike when we forgive, it is easier because we have control over it and it's just within us to find in our heart to forgive. To ask for it is another story. We don't know what's going with the minds and hearts of those we have wronged.


myLot reputation of 98/100. divinegwapa (374)   ranked 551 out of 38,129 in life  1 year ago

Can you really forgive someone who has hurt you badly that easily? Good for you! As for me, I can forgive but it'll take time.

When I know that I'm the one who is wrong it's easier to ask for forgiveness. It doesn't matter if the person forgives me or not. I've done my part and that takes the burden off me.

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6. myLot reputation of 90/100. catfish57 (1146)   ranked 3,987 out of 38,129 in life   1 year ago

to answer that question,talk to god. he can really help you on that situation.or speak to your priest.also look in your bible.


myLot reputation of 98/100. divinegwapa (374)   ranked 551 out of 38,129 in life  1 year ago

Hi catfish! I know what the Bible says about forgiveness and I know to forgive and forget is the right thing to do. But as I said, it's easier said and done. I don't plan to withhold forgiveness to anyone. Sometimes it just takes time to forgive.

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7. myLot reputation of 94/100. austere (1626)   ranked 611 out of 38,129 in life   1 year ago

i think both are hard if your heart is still not willing to forgive or to ask for forgiveness.. happy well, in the forgiving somebody kind of situation, it would only be easy to forgive if the person asking for an apology is really sincere and if your heart has opened up and accepted the apology. and in asking for forgiveness, the person must be really sorry about what he or she has done and that there is acceptance in his or her part that he or she has hurt the person or did something really wrong for the other person to feel bad about him or her. so, it really depends. rasp

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. carmela0210 (837)   ranked 2,723 out of 38,129 in life   1 year ago

i think to ask forgiveness, cause before you ask forgiveness you should accept it from yourself that that is was your fault, but some of us or mostly of us doesnt accept or its hard for them to accept what they have done was wrong.

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9. myLot reputation of 91/100. mimico (3257)   ranked 9,087 out of 38,129 in life   1 year ago

In my case, I think it's much harder to ask for forgiveness. That would mean admitting that I was wrong first. I don't really hold grudges, but I can't forgive and forget. I'll always remember what someone did to me if it was hurtful. But I can movie on and still be friends with that person.

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10. myLot reputation of 54/100. Abhinavmishra19 (139)   ranked 13,986 out of 38,129 in life   1 year ago

DEpends on the kind of a person you are and the person you are dealign with.

Someone good at heart will be forgiven by someone else who is good @ heart, but this might not be the same in all situations!

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