you are not the bride.
By qiao522
@qiao522 (449)
China
September 23, 2008 5:17am CST
what would you do if the one you have been in love with for years said to you one day that he was going to get married.
-_- ....obviously,the bride is not you.
maybe you will ask,"why I am in love with a person who's not gonna marry me?"
well,here is the deal.
He is my best friend and we're really close(maybe beyond friends but not lovers),I love him and he doesn't love me back and he has a girlfriend,but I cannot let go and move on.I enjoy spending time with him and I do believe he feels the same way.
BUT yesterday,he said he's going to get married.
That really broke my heart.
I feel terrible all day and can't concentrate on anything.
I CAN'T LET GO.
would you guys do me a favor to give me some tips to let it go and move on?
Any advice is appreciated.Thanx guys.
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@rainmark (4302)
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23 Sep 08
Oh Dear that's really frustrating. I do experienced how to be broken hearted. All you need is to accept the truth that he's going to marry. You can't let go, coz you are still holding him inside your heart, let him go and free your hear from anything that hurts you.Keep your life busy, stop thinking of him,go out with ur girl-friends and try to cry it at once it ease the pain inside. Then enjoy life and one day you will having the man of your life too.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Oct 08
quaio hi well just imagine how repulsive you would feel if you were to sort of tag along as an unwanted guest at your best' friends honeymoon now think about how angry your friend would feel, and now tell yourself youfriend is goingto be married and you must let him go. He cannot have two wives and you were just his best friend,you were never engaged to him. now leave him, and dont look back. find yourself a nice young man you can love and get married yourself.
