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myLot reputation of 64/100. Milanovich (235)   ranked 1,293 out of 32,957 in life 4 years ago

hello every one;)
i have to introduce the meanning of the above three words first..

Win-Win:it is a method in life where you can win and make other people win too..it has no selfish or bad manner but instead all parts which participate will get benfits and win..no one will lose here..

Win-Lose:it is another method or charachter in life where some one want to be the only winner and no other one else can win..he has in his mind that it is unacceptable to be more than one winner..it may be somewhat selfish but in some cases it is the only way to win..

Win-Lose:here is a strange character where if someone feels that he is losing noway then no one will win..we have to lose all if i am not the winner!
the Win-Lose is considered to be the most selfish where you got no profit if you make others lose to so why?!

another case wich is Lose-Win where someone is offering to lose inorder for another one to win..it is rarely to be found so i have removed it from the choices..

so what type of person are you?!
do you think Win-Win ?
do you sometime need to apply Win-Lose?!
or do you always want to be the only winner and if not then all of us have to lose (Lose-Lose) ?!

 

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SaviourV (190) response was accepted on 9/30/2008.
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tags:  lose-lose, tactics in life, win-lose, win-win
 
1. myLot reputation of 100/100. HiLia2008 (2197)   4 years ago

Hello milanovich, it's obvious that everyone who join mylot has the win win type, the system here was arranged for that. But it's only virtual life here. As for me, in my real life I also choose the win win solution. How about yourself? enjoy your weekend happy.


myLot reputation of 64/100. Milanovich (235)   ranked 1,293 out of 32,957 in life  4 years ago

yes for sure i will choose the win-win if nothing will let me apply the win-lose..
as in a match for example there must be 1 winner so i wich i be this one and in this case i could apply the win-lose ;)
BTW i have misstyped writing Lose-Lose in it's description and i wrote win-lose instead so i hope members could notice that as there is no edit option:(
so i was meanning by selfish the Lose-Lose one and not the Win-Lose

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2. myLot reputation of 33/100. vmksvmks (410)   ranked 11,520 out of 32,957 in life   4 years ago

I am becoming somewhat concerned that you have many discussions that are talking about money money and more money. Please understand that I am only trying to be a grand, but it is a dream that so many have that can make a fortune on line trust me. After losing thousands and thousands of dollars over 10 years of surfing. I am now or I should say, a monkey is off my back, and the Internet will not stand me him anymore of my hard earned money. Take my lot. I have not had to pay one cent. Yet they pay monthly, and they have done this for years. Now that's more like a site that appeals to me. Good luck, and I hope you use your hard energy for other things that money making schemes. Once more. I'm not being critical. I'm trying to be helpful and supportive of one of my friends at my lot


myLot reputation of 64/100. Milanovich (235)   ranked 1,293 out of 32,957 in life  4 years ago

hello mate:)
i wasn't talking here about any money and i thought it was abvoius;)
i just talked about the character any person can be..these 3 terms are exist in evry one..and every one have to choose which of them resembles his personality..
it is something you are doing every day..it is something related to life not money..
you can say win when you gain a friend and say lose when you lose someone you loved..so win and lose are terms that aren't applied only to money!
money not evry thing that can be won or lost..i hope you got what i mean ;)

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. dragon54u (15689)   ranked 232 out of 32,957 in life   4 years ago

I prefer the win-win. I don't like to profit (and in fact I won't if I can help it) if someone else loses. I will try my best to be sure that everyone gets something from a deal. I buy groceries, the employees have a job, the farmers can sell their goods, etc. However, if I steal music from the internet, I "win" because I have something free but (as well as risking a lawsuit) the artist is robbed of his profit, his children have that much less security, I've set a bad example for my children if they would find out and I will have a guilty conscience that I'll pay for in other ways.


myLot reputation of 97/100. dragon54u (15689)   ranked 232 out of 32,957 in life  4 years ago

I just got to read the above comment--I get my notifications through email so I don't see other comments until I make my own. I thought you were talking about money, too.

My position hasn't changed. I still prefer to do things that profit others than myself and treasure my friends and family more than all the wealth in the world. I often say that I'm a very wealthy woman, because I have everything that material riches can't buy. happy


myLot reputation of 64/100. Milanovich (235)   ranked 1,293 out of 32,957 in life  4 years ago

so you are applying win-win method:)
haven't you tried ever win-lose?


myLot reputation of 97/100. dragon54u (15689)   ranked 232 out of 32,957 in life  4 years ago

Not intentionally. Win-lose is just wrong, it means someone suffers for my happiness. sad My parents raised us to not intentionally hurt anyone and explore all the options before making a decision so that we could do the most good for ourselves and for everyone around us. It's our family way.


myLot reputation of 64/100. Milanovich (235)   ranked 1,293 out of 32,957 in life  4 years ago

so what if you are in a situation where there must be 1 winner only?!
would you apply win-lose then or lose-win ?!
an example for that is a tennis match or whatever


myLot reputation of 97/100. dragon54u (15689)   ranked 232 out of 32,957 in life  4 years ago

Everyone knows that competitions like sports have to have winners and losers, silly. lol I was think more people situations after I learned you weren't talking about money.

Now, if I was playing tennis with a small child I would not let them win but I would certainly make it competitive and perhaps try a little less hard if they weren't as good as I was. I wouldn't let them win but I would let them try their best and let them believe in the end that if they try just a little harder, they could beat me. That's a win-win even though it's a win-lose. Inspiring people through defeat, I guess.


myLot reputation of 64/100. Milanovich (235)   ranked 1,293 out of 32,957 in life  4 years ago

you are right then ;)

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4. myLot reputation of 77/100. SaviourV (190)   ranked 5,657 out of 32,957 in life   4 years ago

That depends on the situation.

Milanovich wheels round to find the familiar figure of Saviour-V, who has just teleported in...

With some people I get along with, I try my level best to ensure a win-win situation; a situation where all parties benefit. That makes up half the reason why I do my fair share of asking people to assist me in my money-making efforts.

I mean, not only do I get enough money to pay for possible weapon upgrades (read: a new laptop, a PSP, and then some), I also get to help people make the money they need, and convince them that money can be made from practically anywhere.

When I get very angry with someone, however (and you don't see me get really angry too often), I go into win-lose mode, also known as my "destroy everything" mode. In that mode, every thing I do is to ensure that I come out with an evil grin on my face, and the opposing party is either humiliated or destroyed completely. Thankfully, that doesn't happen too often - I usually am very patient, unless I am considerably disturbed by that person's actions.

Saviour-V pauses to catch his breath, before continuing...

The lose-win reflex kicks in when I believe that the outcome of something is not immediately in my favour. At that point, I swallow my words, eat humble pie, and accede to the other party's wishes. Of course, this is in preparation for a possible win-lose or win-win situation, depending on how things turn out in the future.

So, these reflexes can be quite versatile, if you know how to use them.

Of course, I've yet to encounter a lose-lose situation....unless Death is staring me in the face and there's no way out at all. Thankfully, that hasn't occurred yet...^_^;;

Saviour-V grins at Milanovich, before teleporting out of myLot as usual...


myLot reputation of 64/100. Milanovich (235)   ranked 1,293 out of 32,957 in life  4 years ago

what a great character are you!
i haven't found any one till now that can use all the 4 terms!
you are a special one mate ;)

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