forgive and forget?

I hardly forgive.. and I don't forget bad things.. I'm have a character.. I'm not neither the forgiving nor forgetting person.. When someone do something bad to me I'll remember it forever..

I can normally forgive easily, but it's hard for me to forget. What's done is done and will be engraved in my head/heart usually, forever..

Hello,Monte! Neither it is possible to forgive nor is it easy to forget.But to live a peaceful life it is essential.You may not forgive but try at least to forget the enmity.Don't have the feeling of enmity in your mind as it would burn you inside.So develop the culture of forgiveness and stay in peace.I am a person who never forget but forgive.Thanx.

Growing up persons always say that it is good to forgive. I usually forgive and forget but then I realized that the same things keep happening to me by the same persons. So I forgive but I stored the events in my mind so that I don't have it happen back to me. You see there are alot of persons who loves to take disadvantage of you if they know that they will always be forgiven by you so I started to learn to forgive but not forget. When one forgive it makes the heart lighter but if you don't you will become bitter and recluse.

For me it jsut depends on the situation on why im forgive and forgetting. However there are times where i do hold a grudge against someone but u'd really have to do something really wrong for me to do that. Now i do forgive but i never forget ever.