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myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting1 year ago

I have read in the book, the Baby Whisperer, that we can start potty training at 9 months since the baby can sit on their own and not later than 2 years old since the baby will be harder to manage at this age. You also need to be consistent since babies rely on routines.
I started when she was 8 months since I have a yaya back then. But her yaya was like, No! You wait till she's 1 year old".. so we argue everytime about it. I stopped training her since she cries when I put her in the potty (the one that you put on top of the toilet bowl cover). I tried again after a week, but she's anxious about sitting on it. Whenever I pee or poop, I bring her in the toilet so she'll feel comfortable and get the idea.
When she turned 1 year, she got used to sitting on it, but never peed. When I carry her and put her in the bath area, that's the time that she pees. it's funny and frustrating at the same time.
I tried again, after a month or two, she was really peeing. She started talking straight then, but when she says, uh-uh, sometimes she already peed or pooped. So i put her in the potty every 20 or 30 minutes, and every time she wakes up.
so I have two potty trainers. One is the small one that looks like a small chair, and the potty that you put in the toilet.


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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. heaven11 (507)   ranked 1,047 out of 14,957 in parenting   1 year ago

Hi babyfuzz
I started with both of mine at about 15 months my daughter was comoletly trained by 18 months and my son by 2
the thing you have to look for is the signs is she pulling or taking her diaper off after using the bathroom does she go 2 hours with a dry diaper ect
Its really no rush yes its more convient for us as parents but doctors say they are fin up until 3 they say if there not potty trained by 3 then it will be very diffucult from 3-4 not sure why
just give her time shell get there
goodluck


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

Yeah, everyday is a challenge. The first few days that she actually pees in her potty, we are really excited. She calls, "daddy!" as if boasting (hey, look at me! I'm actually using my potty!) I'm not really in a hurry. My mom told me she potty trained us when I was 3. Imagine? I think that's all right during those times because there's not much interruptions. Unlike now, the baby wants to play and don't want to be bothered. So potty train is not on her list. Unless you make it fun for them.

She already talks. She tells me, "mommy, uh-uh!" sometimes I don't wait for her to say that. At least now, she gets the idea and knows that feeling in her tummy that she needs to eliminate.^^v

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. sunshine4 (6288)   ranked 38 out of 14,957 in parenting   1 year ago

I think that 9 months old is way too young to start potty training. My oldest son trained at 16 months and that was early (I thought). Most parents in my area start trying to train them when they turn 2 in hopes that they are completely trained by the age of 21/2. All of my other children were trained when they were 2, but I started at about 1 1/2 because they were interested in it due to having an older brother who went on the potty. I always used potty chairs that didn't go on the toilet...I had to empty it into the potty.


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

Yes, I think so, too. That's a good sign that they are ready to be trained. At least they are the ones who are interested. You don't need to pull them into the bathroom/potty chair just to eliminate.^^v They say it's also about the kid's development. I'm not in a hurry though, I want her to learn at her own pace. It's funny and challenging, and at the same time it gives me fulfillment.

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3. jccjr5 (29)   ranked 837 out of 14,957 in parenting   1 year ago

The problem with trying to train so young is that they just don't understand what you are doing so in turn they are getting frustrated. There is no reason to push these things. Girls tend to train faster than boys. My daughter was 18 mo old when I first started and she understood what was going on but was just not ready. I waited a month or so and tried again. By the time she was two she was completely done and had very few accidents. My sons on the other hand were different. My middle son was 2 1/2 and my youngest was nearly 3. I was very ready for him to be done, I had been changing diapers for 5 years straight without a break!! Whatever you do don't force her or it will be more frustrating and more work for the both of you. Taking her to the potty every 20-30 minutes will start to wear on the both of you and may turn her off of the potty. When it is time, you will be surprised how easily it happens. I would keep the potty chair in your bathroom and let her come in with you if she follows.


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

yeah, you have a point there, jccjr5. As for now, she's getting used to it and she knows the tingling feeling and tells me if she's gonna go. I am proud of her at times, and yeah, I get frustrated when she already peed on her panty/diaper. No harm done, though. Soon I know she'll do it the right way.^^v

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4. myLot reputation of 91/100. LisaHW (1511)   ranked 1,942 out of 14,957 in parenting   1 year ago

I tried each of my three kids on the potty at about fifteen months, and they were delighted to sit there - forever!! I would be sitting on the edge of the bathtub, waiting and waiting and waiting, until my bottom started to fall asleep from sitting on the tub for so long. Then I'd figure they weren't going to do anything, so I'd say, "Oh well, I don't think you have to go." When I'd start to get up and get them off the potty they'd scream - and that kind of thing would go on over and over again. Well, training was accomplished - and that training was that I was trained to finally realized not to bother when they were that young!:) It was the same for all three of them, as if they were clones of their siblings.:)

I ended up just saying to each of them, "Well, the potty is there if you ever want to use it." They never did. They were all children who really understood language well by two, so once they got past two I just kind of said, "Be thinking about getting rid of your diapers. We're going to have to do that soon." I let them "be thinking about it" for a while, and then started taking them out for short periods of time with undies on.

I was pretty much a matter of waiting until they were old enough to understand things and just kind of saying, "Here's what we'll be doing now."

I know a lot of it was my not having the patience to be sitting on the edge of the bathtub for indefinite periods of time, and I didn't mind them having diapers when they were two years old.

Anyway, here's how I ended up getting the task accomplished (and nobody ever had any accidents or any slip-ups once they finally were trained - so maybe it pays to let them be on the old side): http://hubpages.com/hub/T...


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

haha! They're just playing with the potty, I know. My daughter had that time too that she just wanted to sit on it. But I always tell her that the Potty is not a toy, "you don't play with it"... of course, being a child, she'll continue playing with it, but I insist that it's a no-no.

I think she gets the idea coz after waking up she goes directly to her potty chair, but at times forgets to remove her diaper first, or pees in front, beside it. haha! But yeah, I'm not that in a hurry. It's fun and challenging having a 17month old act like an adult.^^v but I don't want her to lose the patience. I make it fun for her to sit on it. If she doesn't (when she's cranky) I don't insist.^^v I know she'll get it soon.


myLot reputation of 91/100. LisaHW (1511)   ranked 1,942 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

LOL. I can't think of how often a toddler thinks it will be good to take the little bowl out of the potty and play with it. I actually bought a potty that was supposed to play music when moisture hit it.... It never happened. By the time they were ready to go they just used seat that sits on top of the grown-up seat.

Of course as the third birthday looms nearer than you're comfortable with, you start thinking about how maybe you'll just give up and say, "Hey - let me know if you ever want to wear big kid undies.":)


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

haha! my kiddo loves to open the the cover and put her toys inside the pot. hehe! I think that's cute. I mean, the first time I saw the potty chair, I had interesting thoughts too on how I can play with it, and what can I do with it if she's grown already. hey, i can use it as a trash can. hehe! baby found a better use, and kept her valuables there.

I also saw potties which have different toys with them. But I thought she might just want to go to the potty just to play and not eliminate. So the training losses its meaning. Thanks again, lisa! I read your blog. keep it up.

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5. nomi_shomi (15)   1 year ago

hi u r a big baby


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

Hi, nomi_shomi.. what do you mean?^^v

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6. mienkoos (58)   ranked 3,100 out of 14,957 in parenting   1 year ago

I don't have a child of my own, but I do know something about potty training, because I work with children as a childpsychologist. I know (and have experienced) that it's better not to start to early with potty training, and not to make it a big deal if it doesn't work. Children go through stages at different times and you should not feel you're child is late because you heard about another child allready doing something.
I noticed that a lot of parents who have problems with their child staying on the potty are surprised that their child is sitting on the potty if they see other children sitting on it. If a child is in a group then it's quite 'normal' for the child to do so. So I don't know if she's going to a daycare? If she does, you could have a chat with them to see if she can see other children going to the toilet there?
The thing is: emphasise the nice things about going to the toilet. Maybe play with a doll (the doll is going on the potty, yeah! And she's doing peeing! Good girl!!). Not being mad if there is no pee, and being extremely glad if there is a pee.


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

Yes, I do that. We carry her fave doll or a new toy if she's uncomfortable or not in the mood to sit on her potty chair. I think she's doing a great job now. yeah, I guess you got me there. I used to compare my kid with other babies. and maybe because of the things I hear from the oldies, her grandparents, for example... "she should do this, she should be like this, at her age she should be"... But I don't care much. I know what she's capable of doing and she'll do it at her own pace. Thanks, mienkoos!^^v


mienkoos (58)   ranked 3,100 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

Probably if you're relaxed about it and don't stress her and yourself to much, it won't be a struggle, but a natural thing. And it's very important to enjoy these steps she'll take on her own time. Because there will come a lot of more steps to take! And don't mind all the people having an opinion (I'm having one now too, I know, hihi!;) ). Trust the natural interest in learning your daughter has, she's going to be fine.


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

Yes, I know. Thanks again, mienkoos. I'm enjoying every step of the way.^^v

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7. myLot reputation of 86/100. jarael (213)   ranked 1,919 out of 14,957 in parenting   1 year ago

i dont think there is a set age, it depends on the child.

i disagree with that book a little cus at least if the child is older they can tell u they are needing the toilet. i know some 9 month old babies can talk but i still think its a little young to be potty training.

my youngest was 15 months when she started, i got her a potty chair to get used to it and the very first day i bought it home she was using it. but then speech wise she was very bright and could tell me when she needed to go when out etc so, all was done in about a week. and she was dry at night at 2 and a half. she used to drink loads but only wee a few times in the day, was like she was letting it all out at night.

my youngest showed no interest wat so ever, even at 2 if i sat her on the potty she would sit there for ages playing or reading a book, but then she would stand up and wee on the floor in front of it.

so i waited until she was 2 and a half still no interest.

i started panicking, not because i thought something was wrong with her, but because i had people nagging me saying ooh she should be dry by noow, mines was dry at such an age.

but at the end of the day no matter how old they r they will do it when they are ready. its not just about timing, they also have to be emotionally ready. they need to realise the signs that they need a wee and also timing how quickly they need to get to the potty.

this sometimes is a lot harder then managing to get them on the potty at the right time.

my youngest was 3 and a half when she was finanally dry in the day, one day she was wettin the next i decided to try again and that was it. then a week later she was dry at night too.

my eldest still had the odd accident up until the age of 4, but my youngest has only wet maybe twice in the day and has never wet the bed as yet.


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

Thanks, jarael.. I think so too. I mean, of course children grow at their own pace. And like your kids, they're never the same. At the end of the book is the Chapter titled: Just when you think you've got it.. everything changes.. And so as the quote: Babies don't come in with instruction manuals.

Every kid is different so we can't expect that if I did this to my first born, or to my nephew, that's how it should be with this one. I don't want to be ungrateful and thought as unrespectful to the elders, but comparing people especially kids is crap.

Maybe my stinginess gets the better of me. Hubby always complains that her diapers depletes rapidly. haha! maybe that causes me the panic. thanks again, dearie!


myLot reputation of 86/100. jarael (213)   ranked 1,919 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

hiya, just posting to say thank you for the best response reward and this was a good discussion.


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

No problem.. thanks also for your time sharing your experiences. good luck being a mommy! cheers!^^v

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8. myLot reputation of 56/100. chaska (158)   ranked 3,809 out of 14,957 in parenting   1 year ago

It all depends on the child. The child usually gives you signs that they are ready to learn. My kids both seemed to start giving me signs at about 15 months or so. They would sometimes take their diaper off when it was wet or they would tell me they were wet. they mastered it after they were 2 but currently my 3 year old still wears a pull up to bed at night she has some bedwetting still.


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

Hi, chaska! Wow, that's great! At least that saves you a lot of time and money. Like they say, don't sweat it. They will soon learn. Bedwetting at 3 I think is normal. I'm just excited to see her sleep without diapers. Maybe because what I hear from other people, adults mostly, especially since disposable diapers weren't that popular during their times. And yeah, I don't want to get used to diapers, may they be disposable or the washable ones. When we are in the living room, I let her on her panties only. But still she does pee on it. Sometimes when she feels the urge, she tells me she wants to go.^^v

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9. myLot reputation of 48/100. arko006 (979)   ranked 10,294 out of 14,957 in parenting   1 year ago

Well my friend,I am not a parent yet.But in the next few month,I am going to be a father.I found a good article about baby potty training,hope this will help you,like it helped me to be prepare for the future. happyWhile your child is not yet 2 years old, keep in mind that age isn't as important as readiness. It sounds to me like your child is showing several of the signs of potty training readiness (he's following instructions, watching what you do with interest and doesn't want to wear diapers.)

One of the most important factors in potty training success has to do with desire. If your child wants to do it and initiates the process, then definitely go with the flow, so to speak.

Another factor in your favor is peer pressure. If you start potty training and he sees other children in his child care setting going to the bathroom (and he continues to want to watch Mom and Dad), he will likely learn faster and want to copy what everyone else is doing. Just make sure your child care provider knows that you are starting the process so that everyone is on the same page.

Since your child is younger and is probably still working on those motor skills, dress him in clothing that is easy to manipulate like loose-fitting sweatpants, shirts that don't hang very low (so they won't get in the way when he tries to urinate), and avoid anything with snaps, buttons and zippers.

If he's hating the thought of wearing diapers, putting him in disposable training pants probably would hinder your success, so I'd advise using cotton training pants or underwear.

Don't be afraid to start and then back off in a week or two if he's just not getting it. This happens, and it's perfectly normal. Take a break, but try to keep his interest up by reading books about potty training and continuing to talk about it and share your own bathroom time with him. It's better to relax and take things slowly than to push him. You'll know if you're pushing him because potty training will start feeling more like a power struggle (a big potty training no-no) than a learning process. That's your signal to slow down and let him take the lead.

It sounds to me like you're ready to get started, though. I wish the best of luck to you. thumbup


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

Thank you, arko. And congratulations for being a dad! Whew! Wow yeah, you have to be ready too. Good thing you're already equipped with this clippings/articles so when the baby is there, you won't panic. Haha! I remember the very first time the baby pooped. We were in the hospital, and my father was the only one with me that time. I was like, "what should I do?" and started panicking. (I'm like that all the time) anyway, the second time around, I know what to do. My dad was like, "You should've seen the look on your face when your baby pooped." lol! haha! memories. It's really funny to document it. or blog it. Good luck, new daddy!

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. belk89 (1039)   ranked 3,104 out of 14,957 in parenting   1 year ago



My baby is not born yet but i might try doing the same training when the baby reach 1 year old. I am afraid that if i did that when the baby is still 8 months i might hurt the baby. Glad that you posted this discussion it gives me an idea on at what age my baby should be train to poop and pee in a potty.


myLot reputation of 95/100. babyfuzz (335)   ranked 671 out of 14,957 in parenting  1 year ago

Hey, belk! Good luck being a mommy. Yeah, I think I had one topic like this before, but not much commented. This is a very perfect timing for me too. Have you read all their comments here? Very interesting, aren't they? Don't worry, we got your back. We'll share everything we know. Just don't forget that babies are different. We can't expect them to be angels now and forever. They change so fast. Like they say, Just when you think you've got it... everything changes..^^v

Congratulations!^^v

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