Will you care to take care an old maid sister?

Philippines
October 9, 2008 10:36pm CST
My eldest sister is now on her 40's. But she is still vibrant and full of joy. But it always crossed my mind, since she is not married yet, that if she decides not to marry for the rest of her life, I will be the one to take care of her. Will you? Not only an old maid sister but a brother as well?
2 responses
@Wizzywig (7847)
10 Oct 08
Why do you think you will have to take care of her? There are plenty of independent, self-sufficient older women in the world. Maybe your 'old maid' sister will end up being the one who cares for you?? None of us know what lies ahead...
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• Philippines
11 Nov 08
You got a point. She might be the one who will take care of me later on. Who knows indeed!
• India
21 Oct 08
I do understand your problem and it’s the same with all our near and dear ones. Very recently I have shifted to stay closer to my parents who are in their 60’s. though energetic and independent, a time will come when I will have to take care of them and like you, I am sceptical. Frankly speaking, our parents took care of us in childhood but there’s a gulf of difference between caring for an infant and caring for an aged person. For people like us, I think the best option can be to hire some help. I don’t know if you are married but I am and with my personal family and job, I doubt how much time I can be with them physically, no matter how much I want to be. Maybe I can visit them regularly and take care of banks and doctors and medicines, but I don’t think 24hr involvement would be possible by me.
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• Philippines
11 Nov 08
I agree with you. But we should think of them as part of us that needs to be love and taken care of. No matter how hard it is sometimes.