Husband leaving family behind

why dont you settle at the place where your hubby works?

that has become a common trend these days that one of the member of the family staying aways from the family for earning money, generally its like the men staying far from his wife and kids..where in the women becomes the sole strong member of the family and has to maintain relations with evryone in family and also at the sametime take care of kids. i dont find it true as in these cases we give more importance to money and not to our family.no body enjoys being alone. in older age we leave our parents and stay away from them..where in these arethe days they need us the most... one of my family member stays away from us but we miss that person the most.

i was away to another city for work. it was for 1.5 years. my parents were in home town. it was tough but there was no way. similarly my father used to be away most of the times in his working days.

I have no relatives that working in abroad but I am sure how your husband feels about it. I just left Philippines last April. This was the first time I left my family. It was hard to leave especially being away with my nephew and niece. I am very attach to them because I was the one took care of them since birth. But leaving Philippines is really a big change and help for them and me too. I may go back at my homeland after 2-3 years.