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myLot reputation of 95/100. DaddyOfTheRose (2823)   ranked 125 out of 6,501 in religion 4 years ago

While I would not give Mary status as a Goddess, she was certainly chosen by God for a very special role. In the church, Mary seemed to fill a need by some pagans whom the church assimilated to pray to a feminine personage. They were very careful not to call her a deity of any kind, as befits the mythology. In ancient mythology, the male deities often went about choosing women to beget mortal heroes by. You still hear about Hercules and not about his mother.

There are many claims made about the Virgin Mary, and she is given the same honor as any other mortal in the Church. She is called a Saint. However, in comparison with the other Saints, she is venerated with prayers more often than any, I think. In that way, I suppose, we could say that Mary stands above the other saints. Even Moses and the Archangel, Michael, are not addressed in prayers as commonly as the Virgin Mary.

The bible seems to cover a lot of material on adultery and unfaithfulness. The Virgin Mary seems to be the incarnation and epitome of purity and trustworthiness – a decided counterpoint. I believe there is something very iconic and powerful in that. A perfect woman. (This seems unrealistic, but we are talking about faith and a sainted woman.)

This puts Mary on a Pedestal. Although the bible does not talk about Mary traveling with Jesus and giving speeches or performing miracles, she is afforded a high honor in the Church. People pray to the Virgin Mary and attribute to her, after her death, with signs and miracles.

The theology which decrees Mary to be the blessed ever virgin seems to unite the two things most desired in a man when thinking about women. The Mother and the Virgin. Logically, it would seem that these two states cannot mutually exist. Yet, the mythology of Mary provides a single women who is able to be presented as the perfect mother and perfect bride.

If I ever get to heaven, I would be most delighted to have the actual truth of Mary revealed to me. I have intensely curious, how much of what the Church teaches about her is real and what was some sort of iconic wish-fulfillment.

Questions for you: What do you, personally, think about Mary? Not necessarily what your church says, but what do you feel is true in your heart. Do you find anything interesting .. or frustrating.. about how Mary is portrayed?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 19/100. islander7 (4834)   4 years ago

Most of wht god religion preaches is clearly a wish fulfillment. The bible is so full of fables it is a wonder so many people still have a literal view of the words and have not seen through to any basic truths contained in those pages.
I see "god" as the spirituality in asll things and not as any entity.
Religion is diversive and always will remain so.


myLot reputation of 95/100. DaddyOfTheRose (2823)   ranked 125 out of 6,501 in religion  4 years ago


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(Religion is diversive and always will remain so. )
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I would hope that religion can become a world unifying force eventually. I try to imagine a common denominator for the world. If religion is "good" then it should encourage people to live together in peace and harmony while promoting a balanced, healthy, and sustainable future for the world as a whole. I consider religion "bad" when it is divisive, argumentative, and sets man against his fellow man in the name of one unprovable bit of dogma or another.

Thank you for contributing to my discussion. I fear the basic unprovable and uncorrectable nature of religion lends itself to seeing what you want to see and rationalizing some basic wish-fulfillments as dogma hard and fast.

Happy MyLotting!


myLot reputation of 19/100. islander7 (4834)  4 years ago

I agree with you in your wish for a unified world, although i dont see how the constructs of religion will ever do the job. There are some basic truths common to all "good" religions and only these can have any real value. All the dogma and fable is then left behind. Peace.

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2. myLot reputation of 58/100. kerriannc (3239)   ranked 1,662 out of 6,501 in religion   4 years ago

In my opinion Mary is just another woman in the bible like Ruth and Noami. I don't believe in praying to Mary because the bible tell us who to pray for. It is funny that you brought up this topic today because I see where the catholic church has also canonised four person and it involved a lady by the name of Sister Alphonsa of India.

Even in the bible you can see that Jesus acknowledge her as a mother but he was more focus on the job at hand. I think that it is wrong to call her Holy Mary because the word of God did not tell us to pray to Mary but instead to pray to Jesus Christ so that he can intercede on our behalf. It is Jesus and him only that can save us because of our sin we cannot even go straight to God. We have to go through the son. This is my opinion.


myLot reputation of 95/100. DaddyOfTheRose (2823)   ranked 125 out of 6,501 in religion  4 years ago


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(In my opinion Mary is just another woman in the bible like Ruth and Noami. )
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I can see your point, there. However, there is one small part of the bible which people use to rationalize praying to Mary. This occurs at a wedding where Mary essentially asks Jesus to help. He winds up turning water into wine, his first miracle. In this, Jesus shows a certain respect for Mary that some people extrapolate from.

While I understand that we should just pray directly to Jesus (God), I think there is some role for people in offering prayers to Mary as well. A person, for whatever reason good or ill, might be intimidated by the masculine deity we see in the Christian Religion. Imagine, for example, a woman who has been consistently abused by her father and other men in her life. She might not be able to turn her prayers to any masculine personage without self-recrimination and fear that God (Masculine) would not care about her petty plight. However, with Mary standing in with a Materialistic aura, such a woman might be able to bring herself to ask Mary to intercede on her behalf.

In this way, Mary might seem as a catalyst for prayer for some people.

Thank yo for sharing your opinions and happy MyLotting.


myLot reputation of 58/100. kerriannc (3239)   ranked 1,662 out of 6,501 in religion  4 years ago

Yes there was a situation at the wedding and Mary asked Jesus for Help. This simple means that Mary is just an ordinary woman. When one is praying or have the simplest understanding of God and Jesus his son you don't look at male or female. Remember
God says that he makes us in his own image. He also say that (at least the words of the bible) says and I quote "God is a Spirit and they that worship him worship him in spirit and in truth" end of quote. When one is praying you don't want to picture if he is a man, woman or animal because the bible say that he is a spirit. All we need to do is has respect and be humble in his presence.

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3. Wunderland (63)   ranked 3,497 out of 6,501 in religion   4 years ago

Well, although I am not particularly religious, I think it is just as proper to say prayers to Mary as to ask for the intercession of any other saint. I can see why she would be respected and 'venerated' as without her Jesus would not have come to earth. If I recall, she also ascended into heaven without dying like the rest of us, which would mean she has a certain special status which is unlike that of other saints.

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4. myLot reputation of 83/100. EvanHunter (2233)   ranked 115 out of 6,501 in religion   4 years ago


Well not all Christians are catholic. There in lies a big difference between being catholic and protestant. People and items can be idolatry if you worship them before revering God. Yes Jesus did turn water into wine for his mother but he was also keeping with a commandment by doing this "honor thy mother and father". Also if being a virgin mother is perfect woman science could create a lot of those with in vitro fertilization so why is it so hard to believe that a supreme being couldn't do what scientist can do today?


myLot reputation of 95/100. DaddyOfTheRose (2823)   ranked 125 out of 6,501 in religion  4 years ago

All points of view are valuable. Not everyone needs to be Catholic and if someone was asking me for advice, I would advice them to avoid religions which require such strict control over what you believe as that. Not many people ask me for advice, however, and I respect that. :)

The Virgin Mary, by those who believe in praying to her, is unlikely to be considered venerated before God. She is, after all, only important because God chose her.

The theological issues about the First Sign of Jesus often seem to expressly attempt to separate Jesus from Mary. That is, to make sure the reader/listener doesn't think that Mary had any authority over Jesus. This is covered in discussions about what Jesus meant when he called Mary "Woman." Not to tell anyone what they should believe, just making you aware of a sharply held point of view by some.

Science doesn't create virgin mothers, but I guess it could. There was a show on TV where a doctor used a syringe to impregnate a woman without breaking the Hymen. There is a little difference between the immaculate conception, being chosen by God to give birth to his son, and a doctor with a syringe. The point however is taken.

Some people would still see the immaculate conception as something altogether different and for them the virginity and purity of Mary may still be very persuasive to them. I would imagine the injection of sperm into a woman and the invasion of her body in the process would not be seen as qualifying as purity for at least a significant portion of people. For them, if not for you, it would be an entirely different thing.

(I would like to take the time here to thank you for responding. My discussions tend to be a bit more introspective and get fewer responses. I appreciate all contributions.)

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5. Wunderland (63)   ranked 3,497 out of 6,501 in religion   4 years ago

Occasionally, you like to think about serious subjects, don't you?

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