Why in most cases the First Love goes away from life?

hi friends i think the first love is came to an end because there is no experience of gatting the situation and not well knowledge about love that is why i think that the first love is came to an end early Prince Sad

Hello, Subha12! There are many things that could ruin a relationship. People are delicated, and anything wrong would mess it up. On the first love, you are still unexperienced. You don't know how to act. People end up doing something that hurt their lovers and break the relationship. It wouldn't stay long, since they don't know how to act nor anything. The long lasting relationships only come after a certain time, in most cases. After you have experience and you already know how to act: then you can get into a serious relationship and mantain it. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

It is because many of them are just an infactuation and not a true love..People would be so young to differentiate the crush from that of true love..

[i]Hi subha, maybe because we always have it in our early stage of life and being young and change is the only constant thing in this world..LOL! So, most of first love will not last because of so many reasons....like in my case, I thought I was really in love and can't live without the person but have to continue my study and we were in different places and school and things have changed! LOL! But, truly we can't forget the experience and the first time we admire a person! LOL![/i]

Probably since it's first love. So people don't know how to cherish it. If they are mad with each other or there is any misunderstandings, they will just leave it alone and don't want to give in. This is why the first love usually fails. I love China

well the first love is often referred to as "puppy love"..In most cases this is not true love ,but a passing fancy felt,when the person is not yet mature enought to understand love in all its dimensions.What they feel is just passing fancy,and not true love at all.....That;s why it does not stay for long.

People don't forget heir first true love. But you have to remember not everyone picks the right person to be that true love. Some people are just plain bad at picking partners. Why do you think back in the olden days marriages were arranged? Just joking. But if the marriage would go bad being pre arranged. You sure didn't have to take the blame.

If you are talking about the first love, I think people just grow out of it. I don't think all people remember their first love, because for most it is just a crush. What you are talking about might be the first true love(although I personally don't believe in a second or more true love). Yes, this might happen when people see that they might not be compatible with their love, and are afraid to bring more sorrow to their loved ones instead of happiness. They realise both their lives will not be happy, so all they can do is just let go and try to move on with their lives. Of course, it's not so easy to forget them but they do atleast try .

most probably most of us experienced our 'first love' when we are both very young.. and since it being 'first love', we do not the experience to handle our own feelings, let alone be able to understand our partner's... so i guess this lack of experience, lack of capability to understand, tolerate and accept each others differences, weaknesses, shortcomings, unable to fulfill each others wishes of what/how they want us to be.. would draw us apart... but.. there are cases where the first love do last till marriage.. the marriage still lasts.. mine is one example... my husband was my first boyfriend.. and i was his girlfriend.. we dated for 4 years before we got married, and been married for 16 years now...

Looooovvvee.. is a many splendored thing... My heart is pounding... I think its because of too much passion. Too much of everything corrupts anybody and anybody. Balance jumps out of the window and dyyrahhhh... Lovers hurt each other. Its sad but it happens. Guidelines for lovers: BALANCE.. BALANCE...BALANCE....

the fear factor to challenge the parents is first cause of break i believe in and the young age love can get separated easily as they dont know the pain of breakage and in young age they enjoyed the life with love and less responsiblities and less pains so they feel it as a golden time and could not able to forget also

I really don't believe at first love or love at first or love per se. I am not agnostic but my belief on being with some one is different, yes we have this emotion called love but to me it really does not last that long, maybe the reason why people usually does not end with the first person they have a relationship with is because they are new to it, since it is the first time you enter a relationship, chances are you have no real idea on how to maintain the relationship thus it easily ends. There is always the first time as they say, it is just like cooking, sometimes your first meal is a disaster but then as you devote more time learning how to do it, you eventually master it. Relationship is like that too, you really have to devote time and patience to prevent it from having a disaster end.