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myLot reputation of 97/100. faln_angel1205 (1044)   ranked 1,041 out of 9,012 in parenting 4 years ago

Did you let them play handheld only, or ones connected to the tv, or on the PC? Did you only let them have educational ones when they started playing? My son received a Leapster last yr for Christmas, since then, my sister has given him a Gameboy Advance and a Playstation (the first one) that her kids had. I generally only let him play with Gameboy and Leapster, as the idea of him playing the more violent games he was given for playstation doesnt sit well with me. At least the games he has with the two handheld, are not as action packed or violent.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. rjbass (1014)   ranked 684 out of 9,012 in parenting   4 years ago

I have 3 children all under the age of nine with the youngest being three. We have a Wii, two DSs, and a Leapster. We let them play on the weekends with some exceptions during the week and they see it as a reward for completing chores or being on good behavior. Thankfully they are not into the violent games because I won't stand for them but rather into the singing games and the "pet" games where you have to take care of animals and grow them. Believe it or not, I think that the singing games help them with their reading and the pet games with responsibility :)


myLot reputation of 97/100. faln_angel1205 (1044)   ranked 1,041 out of 9,012 in parenting  4 years ago

I agree that both of those types of games definitely teach great values, those are the kind i try to stick with with my son. He just recently was given a racing one for leapster, i dont mind that one, at least its not violence.


myLot reputation of 98/100. rjbass (1014)   ranked 684 out of 9,012 in parenting  4 years ago

Racing Games are ok with me too. As a positive, they increase hand eye coordination :)


lisalove72 (15)   ranked 8,337 out of 9,012 in parenting  4 years ago

My son is a recluse, were video games responsible? I bought my son a Nintendo game system when he was eight at the suggestion of his school counselor. He was diagnosed with ADHD and had such terrible eye hand coordination that the teachers were having him type his homework when possible or do it on the computer at school because they could not read his handwriting. He was never interested in the educational games, so against my better judgement I allowed him to play the ones he liked on the Nintendo . His hand writing did improve as did his attention span during studies. He is now eighteen years old and somewhat withdrawn. I'm not sure if letting him play video games at an early age was responsible at all, but I will always wonder. I suggest you wiegh the pros an cons carefully and decide what is right for your child based on the circumstance. Would my son still be a introverted person who feels more secure reading in his room instead of being outgoing? I will never be sure.

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. latriciajones (796)   ranked 2,604 out of 9,012 in parenting   4 years ago

my son is 4 and he plays almost every game system you can think of from xbox to playstation, wii, nintendo ds, etc. of course i only get him games that are suitable for him. he tries to play his dads halo game when i am not lookin but i caught it right on time.

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3. mrslisaepoetry (65)   ranked 4,538 out of 9,012 in parenting   4 years ago

This never came up. My daughter played around with Nintendo when she was 2 but never got serious about it. She's known how to work the computer since she was 3 and accesses educational and non violent games that way. Last Christmas my sister n law bought her a Gameboy Advance. She's just now gotten interested in playing it and I limit the time its used. She's 9 now. The only game she likes is Shrek.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. sunshine4 (6293)   ranked 38 out of 9,012 in parenting   4 years ago

When my boys were probably 4, 6 and 8, they all got gameboys. They were a Godsend when we took long trips in the car. I never really had to limit them playing, they didn't spend hours and hours on them.
My daughter got a leapster when she was 4 and it was the best video game ever for kids:) I didn't care if she was on it all day, the games are educational. Now my boys are 20,17,15. They mostly play guitar hero and very rarely. They are too busy working and doing sports.


myLot reputation of 97/100. faln_angel1205 (1044)   ranked 1,041 out of 9,012 in parenting  4 years ago

Yes the handheld games are definitely needed for long trips..we make a 9 hr each way trip to the inlaws twice a yr, so that was one reason for letting my son have them in the first place. It helps that i dint have to pay for any of the video game stuff he has, they are all hand downs from my nieces and nephews. My son isnt in any sports yet.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. lilybug (16937)   ranked 30 out of 9,012 in parenting   4 years ago

My son had a Playstation bought for him when he was 2. He was way too young for it then. He did not really get into playing video games until he was around 6 years old. He has a PS2 right now.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. ersmommy1 (11456)   ranked 214 out of 9,012 in parenting   4 years ago

My daughter has a v-tech. Her uncle bought it for her for Christmas last year. She was 4. It plays educational video games.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. jfeets726 (602)   ranked 666 out of 9,012 in parenting   4 years ago

My daughter is 4 and has had the Vtech V.Smile game since she was about 3 ½ years old. She really likes to play and that I like her playing it because it is very educational. We bought a Wii this year and have started playing the bowling game as a family, but that is it. My daughter is young, so we limit the amount of video games she can play and they have to be educational in nature.

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8. donkey_on_edge (17)   4 years ago

I don't have my own kids, but I am an uncle and I let my nieces play every game they want, and we let them play since they were very young. (when they were two years old), now they are 4 and 8. We used to play Mortal Kombat with all the blood and gore displayed, and now they play Unreal Tournament... I think that with the right approach, and with the right education there is no need to be worried about what children play. There is no need to limit their playing time, the kids know by themselves when is enough. My nieces love to play at the children's playground and love long walks.
I play violent games frome early age, and never had problems with dividing right from bad and good from evil. Playing violent games doesn't make us violent, it's the bad parents and unhealthy family. So, don't focus on wrong things.
You can say I am wrong, but my older niece is good at school, has friends, loves animals and watches cartoons... Playing violent games didin't turn her into a bad kid. That can do only her parents and people around her.
Of course, I still didin't let them play Doom 3, nor I played it when they were around. And even that it wasn't "to protect them from violence", but simply because it would have scare them. Honestly, if they ask me one day to play it, I'd let them play.


myLot reputation of 97/100. faln_angel1205 (1044)   ranked 1,041 out of 9,012 in parenting  4 years ago

I do have to agree with you that parenting is the key part in what kids learn, and that if they do see violence and such on tv or games that its up to the parents to teach them that its not real, and that this isnt something we do in real life. However, in many cases (not all so plz dont anyone attack me for saying this..i am not saying this about allll parents esp since i am one) tv or video games are used to "sit" the younger kids, and the parents have no clue what the kids are seeing on these games or shows cuz they arent watching or playing them theirselves.

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