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myLot reputation of 92/100. daydreamer20 (768)   ranked 833 out of 35,119 in people1 year ago

Another topic raised by the radio DJs this morning. It's quite an interesting one. To be honest, I don't really mind to help carry the handbags of my female friends if it's for a short while, especially when they are too occupied with other things. But if it's for long, it's not that good since I have nothing to do with them. They're not my wife or girlfriend. LOL.

What do you think? If you're a guy, are you okay to carry handbags for your female friends/wife/girlfriend? Or if you're a girl, do you ask you guy friends to help you carry?

And at the same time, do you think guys who carry handbags for girls look weird or sissy?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 76/100. zalilame (592)   ranked 1,665 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

I don't really find boys carrying girl's handbag is a sissy but it shows that they care. But I don't want anyone to carry my handbag because I don't trust a boy easily.


myLot reputation of 92/100. daydreamer20 (768)   ranked 833 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

If he's your boyfriend or husband, it should be fine.:) Just don't pass it to the stranger.:D

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2. myLot reputation of 62/100. gauthami (110)   ranked 9,266 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

HI its ok to help to carry handbags of gurls..but only for some extent..i sometimes askes my hubby to carry my handbag..its nothing weird in that ..and sometimes he forgots to give me back..lol i dont know what other thinks..


myLot reputation of 92/100. daydreamer20 (768)   ranked 833 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

LOL. I doubt he will forget if the handbag is very large. Maybe he just doesn't want you to carry the burden since it's quite heavy.

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3. myLot reputation of 89/100. yyfrancine (404)   ranked 11,393 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

i never did that before, and i am sure i will not as my bf or my guy friends do that. actually my ex-bf asked to help me carrying my bag when i was busy doing some other thing, but i didn't let him do that, he was very angry, he said i didn't trust him, we knew each other for a short time. maybe it is really strange.


myLot reputation of 92/100. daydreamer20 (768)   ranked 833 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Hmm I think if the girl doesn't allow the guy to help, it's still okay. Maybe she really doesn't need his help, but if the guy starts to complain that the girl doesn't trust him, it's bit weird. I think the guy needs to respect the girl more.

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4. myLot reputation of 100/100. HiLia2008 (2197)   ranked 431 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

Hi, you're so nice to your GF. I don't think that a guy who carry handbags for his spouse look sissy, infact it shows that he was so confident and didn't have to worry about his masculinity reduce. My husband always help me out with my bag whenever I have to carry our babies thumbdown. Good luck daydreamer.


myLot reputation of 92/100. daydreamer20 (768)   ranked 833 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Most husbands will do that I think.:D

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. lulumartin (694)   ranked 750 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

Why would it be weird? For me, if the guy acts sissy, then no matter he carries the handbags for girls will always look sissy. I always think helping girls to carry their handbags is a gentle behaviour, it is sweet for me.:-)

My husband does this all the time for me since i'm pregnant. I appreciate that and he really makes me warm.:-)


myLot reputation of 92/100. daydreamer20 (768)   ranked 833 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Even my colleague who was pregnant, i helped her carry stuff because it's quite tiring for her to walk without carrying things. No harm to help.:D


myLot reputation of 95/100. lulumartin (694)   ranked 750 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

You are such a gentleman! I think you must be an easy going person:-)

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6. myLot reputation of 80/100. alyssa_c (245)   ranked 2,068 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

It's not sissy at all. I find it charming even. It shows that guys have a soft side, even if they seem all macho and stuff. Most of the time I just carry my own, but half the time the guys I'm walking with would offer to help me carry it. I decline but I'd make sure that the gesture is greatly appreciated. It's really cute, and a major plus on the guy .


myLot reputation of 92/100. daydreamer20 (768)   ranked 833 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

I know some guys who will not carry no matter what. Hahhaa. I don't really mind to help if the girls are busy with some stuff or are carrying many things. But if they ask me to carry for no reason, it does feel weird unless she's my girlfriend.


myLot reputation of 80/100. alyssa_c (245)   ranked 2,068 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

I've seen girls younger than me who use their cuteness to that advantage over guys. They make them carry everything even if they're not their boyfriends. Poor guys! LOL

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7. myLot reputation of 91/100. howardskip (2023)   ranked 2,722 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

Well, here in my place I could see plenty doing it, college, high school and even professionals who are together with their gf and wife... I also do it so it is not a big deal really, I mean, her bag doesn't weighs a ton.

see ayh!


myLot reputation of 92/100. daydreamer20 (768)   ranked 833 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Weight is another issue. If it's heavier, i think it's better if guys help to carry.:D

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8. myLot reputation of 89/100. Nhey16 (1706)   ranked 5,279 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

it's ok for my husband if i ask for his help to carry my bag, though it seldom happens... and i think a guy who would do that for his girl is a gentleman...


myLot reputation of 92/100. daydreamer20 (768)   ranked 833 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Most guys will offer help if the girls are carrying too much things at that time.:D


myLot reputation of 89/100. Nhey16 (1706)   ranked 5,279 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

well then, it's really nice to know that there are still a lot of gentlemen:)

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9. Linglingking (42)   ranked 26,585 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

I'm a girl, i never ask my male friends to help me carry my handbag, because i think a boy carrying a girl's handbag looks strange. Those guys who carry handbags for girls, i think, are maybe too kind, and would like to share her burden. Anyway, i don't like male friends to help me carrying my handbag even though they would like to.


myLot reputation of 92/100. daydreamer20 (768)   ranked 833 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

It does look strange but the guys are just trying to be gentleman. Maybe if its your husband, it won't be that strange?

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10. myLot reputation of 87/100. smartie0317 (1128)   ranked 7,476 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

If I'm with a guy, more of a boyfriend than guy friend, and he told me no, I would not go on another date with him. It shows me he's shallow ands cares too much about what others think.


myLot reputation of 92/100. daydreamer20 (768)   ranked 833 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Actually not much big deal unless the girl is actually very free, and just wants the guy to help carry the bag for no reason.


myLot reputation of 87/100. smartie0317 (1128)   ranked 7,476 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Oh, I agree. I wouldn't just any guy to cry my purse., even if it was really heavy. Well, if it's heavy it's my fault. LOL I'd just ask if I had a b/f or a date.

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