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myLot reputation of 94/100. andak2007 (1647)   ranked 165 out of 23,102 in relationships1 year ago

Well i want to say sorry to someone and i want to make it this Christmas...she is my oficemate or let us say my boss..i was her assistant at work and i kind of resigned and did not have a formal talk with her...she had been very good at me and very understanding to all my shortcomings...i know i have hurt her for leaving her without telling her so and i have been meaning to say sorry to her through a letter or a card. I want to send her a Christmas card full of sorry words and at the same time i want to thank her for her goodness...is this a good idea?or not?

And what about you?How do you say sorry to someone or to your love ones?sad

 
 
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tags:  sorry, relationships, saying sorry, appology, accept
 
1. myLot reputation of 98/100. Humbug25 (4101)   ranked 214 out of 23,102 in relationships   1 year ago

Hi andak2007

I am sorry to hear that you feel this way, it really is sad. What were your reasons for not telling her? Did you just not get the opportunity? I would definately send her a Christmas cards with a letter of appology in it but what I would do is write it in the actual card itself because I think that would ruin the card and she might not feel that she can then display it if you get what I mean. Good luck and I hope she accepts your appology


myLot reputation of 94/100. andak2007 (1647)   ranked 165 out of 23,102 in relationships  1 year ago

yes in a way i was not able to tell her but right before that i was telling her that i have been meaning to quit my job and just be a mother for my kids...i know she will accept my apology because we talked already in YM but i want to let her know how sorry i am and then i want to thank her also.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Humbug25 (4101)   ranked 214 out of 23,102 in relationships  1 year ago

Oh I see but I still yes go ahead then she will be reasured you are genuine about your appology even if she know's how sorry you are. It will also remind her of what a nice person you are.

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. nilugo (272)   ranked 22,675 out of 23,102 in relationships   1 year ago

It is a very good idea to send a card to your boss saying sorry. A christmas card would be a good idea. You can also just keep in touch with her by calling her and telling to her in person.

I usually talk to the person first when I mean to say sorry for something that I have done intentionally or unintentionally to hurt someone. I am not happy until the bad air clears between us. Also I try to give a small gift - like chocolates or something to that person when I go to talk to her/him.


myLot reputation of 94/100. andak2007 (1647)   ranked 165 out of 23,102 in relationships  1 year ago

i already did that...and a card is just a gesture and a way to say thank you and merry christmas too.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. anonymili (2895)   ranked 164 out of 23,102 in relationships   1 year ago

I think it's a lovely idea to send a Christmas card saying thank you to her for being such a good boss to you whilst you were there and apologising for leaving the way you did. Put some positive comments in there like you'd like to stay in contact with her if she wants to and you felt she supported you very well as your boss and she was an inspiration to you. Make her feel good about her management style whilst also saying you're sorry - but don't dwell too much on the apology. Good luck:)


myLot reputation of 94/100. andak2007 (1647)   ranked 165 out of 23,102 in relationships  1 year ago

that is very true and thank you for some pointers...i have been meaning to do it.

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. cryw0lf (740)   ranked 597 out of 23,102 in relationships   1 year ago

When i say sorry to my loved ones - i just say it plainly. Like words cant describe how sorry i am, i am SO sorry. Something like that.

But then... you're saying how we say it to loved ones, so i dont spose you fancy this little lady do you?;D

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5. myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5718)   ranked 820 out of 23,102 in relationships   1 year ago

Actions speaks louder than words. This applies to me as it is difficult for me to say sorry. I will do anything to please the person I have wronged. Like treating her for a dinner or buying small gifts. In your case, this is the best opportunity as the christmas season is coming. Send her a card and maybe a christmas hamper. I think she will be happy and forget what had happened. She might even be missing you on seeing the gifts. It make her think that you did not forget her afterall. Little things like this will erase all the bad bloods between you and your lady boss, if there is any. But it is the thought that counts.

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. teshavill (239)   ranked 6,974 out of 23,102 in relationships   1 year ago

Hi!Of course it is a good idea to say sorry or sending her a card full of sorry words,that will be your way of making peace with her.For whatever reasons why you left,as you've mentioned she was so good and understanding so she will definitely understand it if you're going to explain what had happened.When I say sorry,I mean it.So it has to be personal for him/her to see my facial expressions,my sincerity in saying so.There are times I hug the person if he/she is a family member and a closed friend.


maddy1325 (3)  1 year ago

usually i dont hurt anybody since i breakup with my girlfrnd..
but dats was not my fault..
so, the best way to say sorry is to tell the truth wht you feel for him,,
n i do that but she didn't understand..
my luck..

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7. myLot reputation of 59/100. Indrajit_25 (554)   ranked 6,474 out of 23,102 in relationships   1 year ago

I never say Sorry to anybody, If I have hurt anybody, that is his problem. I have not done so deliberately.


myLot reputation of 94/100. andak2007 (1647)   ranked 165 out of 23,102 in relationships  1 year ago

we are only humans bound to make mistakes so if we have hurt others then we should apologize.

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8. adeeb747 (88)   1 year ago

I will say I am sorry with my feelings maybe a kiss with it

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9. myLot reputation of 53/100. keir3000 (129)   1 year ago

It is easy for me to say sorry on text messages, letters, emails, phone calls. You can easily talk and you can say whatever you want to say.

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10. saracath (18)   ranked 17,193 out of 23,102 in relationships   1 year ago

I would send a personal note in a Christmas card. Don't dwell on the I am sorry part, but rather on how much you appreciated her as a boss. You can then say that you were really sorry to leave without warning. It sounds as if she is a good person and will accept your apology and appreciate the kind words about your working relationship.


myLot reputation of 94/100. andak2007 (1647)   ranked 165 out of 23,102 in relationships  1 year ago

that is what i am really counting...that she will accept my apology and that to let her know how much i appreciated her kindness..i am not that bad as a person and im really hoping she will understand.

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