i need a driver!

@bombshell (11256)
Germany
November 22, 2008 10:52am CST
last sunday i barrowed a driver who is renting my single apartment.since he is almost 6 yrs here,we considered him as a part of my family so i did not ashame to ask him a favor to visit hubby in theraphy.so now i have invitation this coming weekend and still no driver. is it ok if i ask him again to drive me to a birthday party for my daughter´s friend?
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10 responses
@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
22 Nov 08
well it depends... dont be afraid to ask him about it... its just that his duty to help others to lend a driving job. and besides... yahhh know pinoy driver motto right?... "basta driver sweet lover"....
@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
22 Nov 08
well ehehehe just joking... is he a deutsch? if he was then it is really hard to make a favor.... and about what i said....... well sorry for that... i just kinda daydreamer kind of guy so i just think of sitting on the lemon tree...
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
its ok carinio you can talk to me under the tree even good in lemon tree hahaha.its ok no probs with me i accept your jokes no worries.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
hoyyyyyyyy amew! hahahaha! i am not like that.also the language is difficult i dont speak a lot of deutsch so from now on since some of myloters advice me to ask again a favor i will practice how to say it.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
22 Nov 08
Well, I would start by saying, "if you say no, that's fine, but if you don't have any other plans...."
@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
22 Nov 08
well, that's more German than I know!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
hehehe thats very nice of you ElicBxn.well i dont speak a lot of deutsch but i guess i will use you the short cut words like! i brauch helfe und i kan nicht fahren" means i need help and i dont know how to drive just like what i did last sunday and he undesrtand me..
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
really?hehehe thank you.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
23 Nov 08
I wouldnt think so if hubby dont mind!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
23 Nov 08
I would ask him dont hurt and if you feel that it is an inpose tke some off his rent Say $5
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Nov 08
my hubby said it to me that i can ask him to drive me down.but since i did last week i have doubt to ask again a favor on my little girl friend birthday.he even said to me just in case if he will die i keep the car and i can ask him to drive me for grocery.
@ellie333 (21016)
22 Nov 08
Hi Bomshell, I see no problem with you asking him again but I would offer to cover his fuel costs for doing so and also give him the opportunity to say no without feeling obliged as you are his landlady as such. I hope he says yes and your daughter enjoys her birthday party. Huggles. Ellie :D
@ellie333 (21016)
22 Nov 08
Hi Bombshell, I haven't been able to spend as much time on here lately but I am good thanks. I am sure your tenant will be accomodating as he also knows it will only be for whilst your husband is in therapy. So yes go ahead and ask. Huggles. Ellie :D
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
sounds good that you are good ellie and yes i will ask him a favor again.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
hi Ellie thank you and how are you?long time no see.well i forgeot to mention that we have a car but i can´t use it since hubby is in therephy. ok i will try again to ask a favor.
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@bhanusb (5709)
• India
23 Nov 08
If the gentleman is like your family member you can agin ask him to drive.But you should not continue this.The man's behavior may be changed.Next time he may refuse your request.So you should engage a professional driver.Then your relationship with the will be mentained.Thank you.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Nov 08
thank you.i will try to learn a driving next year(hopefully)
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
23 Nov 08
Please invite me.I shall enjoy your driving.
@redhotpogo (4398)
• United States
22 Nov 08
Yeah sure. Just expect him to want something in return.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
yeah i gave him bier and smoked fish from my brother inlaw take note fresh smoked fish.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
yes he is fine and happy to it.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
22 Nov 08
I would politely ask him again. I'm sure he will understand that you are in desperate need of someone to take you places.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
thank you etephcjh.i will practice again my german language how to say it since i speak only a bit in german.
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
22 Nov 08
[i]Hi bombshell, I guess there is no problem about that since you've been friends for that long and I am sure he is interested also to meet new friends, there is no harm is asking dear! Try![/i]
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
thank you che.
@littleowl (7157)
22 Nov 08
Hi bombshell if you know him that well and he is like family I'm sure he won't mind you asking him again and another time as long as it isn't on a regular basis..littleowl
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Nov 08
thanks littleowl.yeah weekend he has no work so since its saturday i mean 29 this saturday i guess he is fine and he can take also his little girl there since its a kid birthday.
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
24 Nov 08
why not? u r friends. he is like a member of ur family. u would do the same for him if he needed ur help for some reason. i think go for it.