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myLot reputation of 99/100. savypat (13315)   ranked 73 out of 26,919 in people 4 years ago



4 Surefire Secrets of Happy People

So how can you join the ranks of the content? Earlier this year, scientists at the University of Edinburgh and the Queensland Institute of Medical Research in Australia reported that happiness has a strong genetic component, but they agreed that there are steps you can take to weed out the gloom and reap some satisfaction from you life. Here are just a few:

1. Live an examined life. Make an inventory of a typical day, rate each activity on a scale of one to 10, then devise a plan to eliminate everything that ranks below at least a four. Granted, there are certain duties you can't completely rule out (i.e., cleaning the cat's litter box), but you can improve the working conditions (say, by investing in a self-cleaning litter box).

2. Be who you want to be. Use that inventory to ensure that you're living the life you want to live. If every one of your daily activities rates a two or lower, you may want to consider a major overhaul of your life. A University of Wisconsin study found that women who were satisfactorily absorbed in their lives had fewer stress hormones and less markers for heart disease.

3. Engage in new activities. Once you've made room in your life for the things you've always wanted to try, seek them out. Enroll in a class at the local university, take up yoga, or do both. Numerous studies have shown that adults who constantly challenge their brains and remain physically active are less prone to dementia in their twilight years.

4. Fake it. If history has shown us anything, it's that we can delude ourselves into believing just about anything. The next time you're overcome with frustration, anger, or anxiety, try to force yourself to laugh—and keep at it until you feel your bad mood lift. A brisk 15-minute walk or listening to a favorite song on the radio can also serve as mood boosters, according to researchers at California State University.

How about these ideas, I'm going to try .

 

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1. myLot reputation of 84/100. gapeach2369 (168)   4 years ago

thats very interesting to read to much for me to try out or anything but thank you for the information

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. LaurenInLA (1812)   ranked 3,799 out of 26,919 in people   4 years ago

Thanks for the great article. One of the things that I do is to list the things that I'm grateful for each morning and that helps set the tone for the day. I like the idea of living an examined life. I'm going to try this exercise out for a couple of days. Thanks again

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. Kashigurl (1166)   4 years ago

That's wonderful advice Pat! I also try to do those things, not always perfect at it, but I do attempt it every day.
I do believe one of the best things I can suggest to those that are feeling depressed, is to get outside of yourself, and get involved with others in something that makes you feel good, or is of help to others....sometimes it helps to put things that were concerning us in perspective. Brings it to the REAL...so to speak.
I also would love to see people believing in their own power to change their world. That could change so many lives, including their own. Think Positive, don't criticize yourself all the time...be nicer to yourself and others....it's a short life. Please know this; Thoughts are things...be careful what you spend yout time thinking about, another good reason to stay positive... ninja

Have a Positive and Happy day! happy

Kashi


myLot reputation of 99/100. savypat (13315)   ranked 73 out of 26,919 in people  4 years ago

I think one of the most important things you just wrote is thoughts are things. We tend to not give enough important to the input to our thoughts by all the sources we are exposed to. TV, New Radio, Book, Ads, just people speaking to each other. This is why a place of total quite is so important.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Kashigurl (1166)  4 years ago

I wish that most people would honestly believe it was so....that indeed Thoughts ARE Things that we summon to ourselves, they are our own creations. I hope that this is something that people will indeed look into and move in a different direction. Thanks for that great discussion Pat.

Kash

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