Would you?
@trisha_nava82 (1379)
United States
December 14, 2008 1:10am CST
Would you ever allow your significant other to go to a club without you. My husband and I were talking about this the other day and we can never understand how anyone who is in a relationship go dancing at a club and they have someone with them sitting at home. Thats crazy, my husband and I stated that we would ask each other if we wanted to go and if we said no then we just wouldn't go or we'd just go. I don't know I just think that there is too much temptation at the club and if you're in a relationship then you should bring them along.
What would you do.
4 responses
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
14 Dec 08
Temptation is in the eye of the beholder. In my opinion, if you're truly happy in your relationship, then there is no temptation and it's just good fun. If you do find yourself being tempted, I think you need too look at yourself and your relationship, not blame the environment.
I would definitely go to a club with just my friends. My husband doesn't like to go anywhere. Why should I be shackled to the house because we have different likes?
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@trisha_nava82 (1379)
• United States
15 Dec 08
Why would your friends ask you to go to a club though knowing that you have someone and you know what goes on in the club there are lots of other places to go out with friends.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
17 Dec 08
Um, because it's polite and it's not like a nightclub is just a degenerate opium den. "What goes on there" is drinking, dancing, hanging out, having fun. You can get hit on anywhere you go. Should married people just sit home for the rest of their life and never meet anew person as long as they live "in guess they're tempted"? I'm sorry, that's just silly.
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@MysticTomatoes (1053)
• United States
17 Dec 08
It does not bother me. If he wants to go to a strip club with friends, that's fine. I know that he comes home to me. It's not cheating. He can't even touch the dancers without one of the bouncers bouncing him right out of the club and into a hospital ED with plenty of injuries. If you are that untrusting of your husband or SO you have problems.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
18 Dec 08
I think she meant just a simple night club, not a strip club.
But I agree with you anyway lol.
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@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
15 Dec 08
Hello trisha_nava82! I would probably not allow my hubby go to a club alone. I also tested him if he would go without me and so far he passed the test. I tried to tell him that he can go without me because I am not really fond going to the bars but he said he wouldn't want to go there if I'm not there. He would probably not enjoy there.
@trisha_nava82 (1379)
• United States
15 Dec 08
My husband has said the same thing. He wouldn't have very much fun. He doesn't like bars too much so we never go. I want to go to a club with him but we never find the time to go. But we never go alone without the other. Alot of people think that that is restraining them, but its out of respect I think to the other.
@iamcucu (194)
• China
14 Dec 08
I totally agree.I and my girlfriend have discussed the issue before.I told my girlfriend I would never went to nightclub alone.If for some reason I have to.I would call up some friends or bring her alone.My girlfriend also told me that she wouldn't went nightclubs alone too.
