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myLot reputation of 83/100. jambi462 (1610)   ranked 258 out of 8,276 in sex7 months ago

How would you feel if your boyfriend asked you your opinion on having a threesome with one of your close friends? If you were sexually attracted to women and thought that your friend was attractive would you do it? I want to ask my girlfriend this question but I'm scared that she will react negatively to it and I don't want to offend her because I love her very much. Please let me know what you think ladies.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. wunovakind2 (342)   ranked 4,363 out of 8,276 in sex   7 months ago

There's a very high chance I would react negatively, just because of the jealousy factor that comes into it. I couldn't stand the thought of him with another girl - but your girlfriend might be a little more adventurous? It might break the trust and security between me and the boyfriend who asked. Then again, its good to have communication between each other. Maybe you could ask more indirect questions first to get an idea of how she would respond perhaps.


myLot reputation of 83/100. jambi462 (1610)   ranked 258 out of 8,276 in sex  7 months ago

Thanks for your opinion I value it highly because you are a woman and you would know. On the asking around or questions that perhaps suggest that what kind of questions do you think that I should ask? I understand the trust breaking thing and that's definitely not what I want to happen because I love my girlfriend to death. She is my world and I don't want to do anything to hurt her. I'm still kind of on the fence about the subject.


myLot reputation of 98/100. ahgong (3529)   ranked 152 out of 8,276 in sex  6 months ago

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2. myLot reputation of 47/100. scarletrose_2000 (150)   ranked 2,902 out of 8,276 in sex   7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 83/100. jambi462 (1610)   ranked 258 out of 8,276 in sex  7 months ago

Thank you for your opinion like I said I am on the fence about this subject and I only want to do it for the experience. I don't think that we would have any issues with getting to connected with someone else because we both love each other so much. I'm still not sure if I'll say anything about it because I don't want to take the chance of losing her like you said. She is a very important woman and I don't want to lose her because of my sexual desires.

 
3. myLot reputation of 98/100. wayz12 (1070)   ranked 2,383 out of 8,276 in sex   7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 83/100. jambi462 (1610)   ranked 258 out of 8,276 in sex  7 months ago

I'm glad to hear that you would do something like this for your husband just to please his desires and I hope that he in turn will help you fulfill your desires that you have. I am more of a man that will do anything for my woman and I'm cautious to suggest anything that I want from my woman because of her feelings. We are a very good couple and I know that we trust each other to the fullest possible extent. I think that it would be a good sexual experience for both of us but I don't know her opinion on it. She knows that I love her to death but I've seen her with another woman before so I'm not sure if she'll be okay with it or not. Thank you so much for sharing your opinion.

 
4. myLot reputation of 86/100. mlh8087 (241)   ranked 6,636 out of 8,276 in sex   7 months ago

If my husband were asking me for a threesome I would have to tell him go have one by himself and I'll see him in another lifetime. I'd be packed and moved in the blink of an eye. He'd be left with all the bills and he'll never see me again.
Your boyfriend is being disrespectful asking something like that from you. If this is how he is now what is he going to be like when you make your relationship more permanent?


myLot reputation of 83/100. jambi462 (1610)   ranked 258 out of 8,276 in sex  7 months ago

I'm actually the boyfriend in this situation and I don't mean to have a threesome strictly for my enjoyment or maybe I do. But I would do the same for my girlfriend, anything that she would want to do sexually I would do it for her in a heartbeat. I love to please her first and I just want to know if she wanted to explore more sexually. I guess that makes me a bad boyfriend in your book though hunh?

 
5. myLot reputation of 73/100. CremeAndSugar (449)   7 months ago

Well, we don't know your girlfriend so don't take our advice, lol. Personally I never got into that and I'd be royally p1ssed and hurt. If you KNOW your ladyfriend is bisexual it's one thing, but if not, if I were you I'd leave it in my fantasy and forget about it kiddo.

 
6. myLot reputation of 90/100. TessWhite (2036)   ranked 2,350 out of 8,276 in sex   7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 83/100. jambi462 (1610)   ranked 258 out of 8,276 in sex  7 months ago

It's not like I would want to make this a routine thing, I'm talking trying for the first time. I guess it's just because I'm a guy and I think that all my fantasies will come true. It's hard for us men I guess to have sexual fantasies because I guess that that's all they'll ever be. I would love to fully explore sexually and I don't see why women aren't the same way.

 
7. myLot reputation of 95/100. CatsandDogs (4483)   ranked 1,022 out of 8,276 in sex   7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 83/100. jambi462 (1610)   ranked 258 out of 8,276 in sex  7 months ago

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8. myLot reputation of 79/100. LatinaLoveBug (163)   ranked 373 out of 8,276 in sex   7 months ago

Well, for me, it wouldn't happen, sorry. I don't like sharing my man.


myLot reputation of 83/100. jambi462 (1610)   ranked 258 out of 8,276 in sex  7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 34/100. LadyWinter (183)   ranked 1,695 out of 8,276 in sex  7 months ago

You say dont knock it until you try it.....I dont drink drano because I know its not good for me...I dont need to try it first to know that.

 
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myLot reputation of 83/100. jambi462 (1610)   ranked 258 out of 8,276 in sex  7 months ago

Thanks for your opinion and thank you for respecting my question and not shoving it right back in my face and treating me like a perverted man. Like I said if it will risk my relationship then I'm not going to do it because I love her very much. Like I said I want to explore sexually and not just get into another woman's pants. I want to be able to fully explore my sexual desires and I wanted women's opinions because they would know what it was all about and how my girlfriend would most likely react. Thanks for your response.

 
10. myLot reputation of 93/100. doulaworks (273)   ranked 89 out of 8,276 in sex   7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 83/100. jambi462 (1610)   ranked 258 out of 8,276 in sex  7 months ago

If I was on a personal level with the guy that she wanted to do it with yes. I wouldn't hold my girlfriend back if she wanted to do anything sexually that required me expanding my boundaries a little bit. I don't believe in double standards and I think that if a man wants a threesome with two women then he should also be willing to go for a threesome with two men. Either way it's a new experience that I haven't had and hopefully it would help me grow sexually and benefit me in some way.


myLot reputation of 34/100. LadyWinter (183)   ranked 1,695 out of 8,276 in sex  7 months ago

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