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 How would you feel if your boyfriend asked you your opinion on having a threesome with one of your close friends? If you were sexually attracted to women and thought that your friend was attractive would you do it? I want to ask my girlfriend this question but I'm scared that she will react negatively to it and I don't want to offend her because I love her very much. Please let me know what you think ladies.
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11.  underdogtoo (8736) | 1 year ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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12.  Sheepie (2561) | 1 year ago |  Do you think your girlfriend is sexually attracted to her friend? If you have heard her say she is, I think you should try. But this really is a touchy subject. It's not something you need to do, so at least it's not a deal breaker for you if she declines. I think you should try to be open with her, so maybe if you feel comfortable, bring up the subject carefully. Start with threesomes in general, mention how you saw it in a movie, or a friend of yours is doing it. Carefully watch her reaction. Don't even think about mentioning the particular friend you have in mind until she seems to agree. Even if you do get her to agree, then you're going to have to get the friend into it. Most men never do this, it's a really huge accomplishment. So it's really up to you.
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 jambi462 (2168) | 1 year ago | Thank you very much I'm glad that women are actually being open with me and telling me their opinion it's going to effect my final decision in the end most likely. I'm still trying to decide how to go about this but I'm sure I'll figure it out sometime. I'm looking to have some fun and I know that my girlfriend is attracted to women in some way because I've seen her with a girl before and I thought it was beautiful and not in a sleazy way. They are best friends so I don't really know yet. Thanks for your response. | |
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| 13. lotdj11 (67) | 1 year ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| jambi462 (2168) | 1 year ago | This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content. | |
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| 14. ron0540 (22) | 1 year ago |  Are you really serious. The reason that you hesitate is not because you are afraid you will offend her, it is because you know that it is a stupid request. How about if she ask you to bring over your big stud male friend. You know, the one that is hung like a horse and all the girls have herd the stories. Do you think that would offend YOU, or maybe just make you a little uneasy, maybe. You say you love this woman?? Then treat her like you love her. If you want a threesome, stick a couple of $50's in your pocket, and find some hookers.
But, you know, its not my business, so do what you like, of course. The question just tripped me out. Here it is Christmas eve and you want to be the only one that gets any presents.
Good Luck my man, good luck.
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| jambi462 (2168) | 1 year ago | First off I would let her bring over a man because I'm not a closed minded person that is afraid to try new things. I can't say that I wouldn't like being with another man and my woman because I personally have never tried it. Life gets boring when you continue to do the same old thing and I think that mixing it up is the only way that life is going to stay interesting. On the subject of another guy being hung like a horse I'm not too worried about it because I'm confident in myself to please my woman more then anyone else. Also if she did find someone that could please her better then me then I wouldn't want to hold her back from what she could be feeling. I know that she's the one and that's the only reason I would even consider this. | |
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| ron0540 (22) | 1 year ago | Best of luck to you my man. I would be the last one to stop you from expanding your horizons. I may have spoken a little out of turn on this one. Having been raised in the 60's and beyond, can't say I was always confined to the straight and narrow. So, with that, My Apologies. I missed the mark on this one.
Merry Christmas..... | |
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| 15. aihaoqi (14) | 1 year ago | I think you must tell her why you invite her close friends.If is me,i will always think why you invite her and not other girl.If you have no other mind,no need to worry about it. | |
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| 16. my_january (484) | 1 year ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| jambi462 (2168) | 1 year ago | I respect your opinion as a woman and I need women's opinions because they are the ones that would probably know how she will react. I know it's a touchy subject and I know that it is just a sexual fantasy of mine. I want to be able to pursue all of me and my girlfriends fantasies and things that we want to try in life. I'm open to anything that she wants to do and I want or relationship to be open so that way we will never have any problems. In the end I will always love her with all my heart. | |
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| 17. chantalgiardina (1760) | 1 year ago |  i couldnt do a 3some..im too jeaous and i just could nto watch my fiance with another woman.. i mean after the fact i would always wonder if he had feelings for her or if they were doing somethign behing my back. i just couldnt do it but i mean if you are open to the idea, approach your friend softly with the idea, kinda make a joke about it at first see what her feelings ar eon it. dont ask her until you know what her feelings on 3 some are.
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| jambi462 (2168) | 1 year ago | Thanks for your opinion as well and when I'm talking a threesome I'm talking only for the sexual experience to see what it's like. It's most men's dreams as we all know and I as a man am just trying to benefit myself I guess. If I were to do it I would make sure that my girlfriend knew that I love her to death and I hope that she will always know that. No matter what I do I never want to hurt her. | |
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| 18. tammytwo (2798) | 1 year ago |  I would initially be a little jealous. But you are the only one that will know how it would make you feel. Just make some casual comments in front of your friend to see how she reacts. If she really acts uncomfortable at even the mention of such a thing then you probably won't want to approach her about it.
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| 19. lisafultz (1) | 1 year ago | I have actually talked to my boyfriend about this. We do not want to have a threesome because we are scared there is going to be jealousy. I like that he wants me and only me. I would react negatively if you wanted to have a threesome with me and my best friend! She might think that she does not please you in bed or something. I would not ask if I were you, but if you really want to, be really careful by talking about the subject in general first.
good luck! | |
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| jambi462 (2168) | 1 year ago | Thank you very much for your response I like that you and your boyfriend are able to openly talk about a subject like this. I think that being that open is key for the best relationship that you will ever have. My girlfriend does please me in bed but I guess I'm just a guy that is always hungry for more. In all its entirety my girlfriend comes first and I won't go against her opinion. Thanks for your response and I wish you longevity with your relationship. | |
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| 20. hisxshorty (88) | 1 year ago |  you should still just ask your friend & see what she thinks about it. if she doesn't like the idea, just respect her decision and dont keep stressing or forcing her.
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| jambi462 (2168) | 1 year ago | That would basically be my plan I don't want to force or stress anything I just want to explore my sexual desires. To be honest I love my girlfriend more then my own life and don't want to do anything to jeopardize our relationship. Most people have told me that I should see what she thinks about it so maybe I will. Thanks for your response. | |
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