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 How would you feel if your boyfriend asked you your opinion on having a threesome with one of your close friends? If you were sexually attracted to women and thought that your friend was attractive would you do it? I want to ask my girlfriend this question but I'm scared that she will react negatively to it and I don't want to offend her because I love her very much. Please let me know what you think ladies.
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21.  Little_Stormy (1839) | 1 year ago |  well, I would probably snap his neck... no! seriously.. I wouldn't probably do that.. I would snap the sucker's neck.
If I were you, I would seriously question what I thought love was.. I can't imagine sharing someone that I loved... with anyone..
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 jambi462 (2157) | 1 year ago | I didn't ask for you to judge on what I think love is. I know what love is because I live it on a daily basis with my girlfriend. I asked for an opinion and not a violent response. I know that I'm a guy and that makes me a pig I guess. But don't question me knowing what love is because I know what it is. I think that you are just a selfish person that doesn't take your partners desires into thought but whatever. | |
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 silverjam (641) | 1 year ago |  I don't think you know what really loves means at all. It seems you are equating love for lust. Just the thought og having a 3some is such a horrible thing if you are morally upright.
Well you are asking for opinions here so that's ours. And that we thinbk you don't really kbnow waht love is.
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| Little_Stormy (1839) | 1 year ago | YOU asked for opinions... and now you hate the opinions! lol!
selfish? perhaps! but when it comes to someone that you actually love you actually treasure that person.. you don't want to share them with anyone... love (real love) is more than living with someone on a daily basis..
Think of something that you honestly treasure .... then multiply that feeling by a billion.. trust me.. you wouldn't share it with anyone!
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22.  A_Shabina (704) | 1 year ago |  If u take my advice, then never even think of asking her..U no Y? my fiance once asked me the same thing s he got attracted to my best friend n i stopped talking to him for a month & even delete my frnd's number from his cell.then, he apologize to me n said that i will not even think abt it in the future...
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23.  ronaldinu (7780) | 1 year ago |  I do think that sexuality was meant to be shared between a couple. Asking another third party to be involved is an invitation for trouble. How would you feel if your girlfriend ask one of your friends to join your for a threesome?
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| jambi462 (2157) | 1 year ago | I would do it because I'm a good partner and I'm not going to hold her back from anything that she wants to do. I know it's a touchy subject and in the end I know that it's probably never going to happen. Sexuality has a lot of definitions and I think that it's something that should be explored and not something that should be treated as a relic. I don't want anyone to get hurt especially my girlfriend. | |
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| jambi462 (2157) | 1 year ago | Thank you for your response because it's actually from an open mind. I would do a threesome with another man with her if she asked me too. I wouldn't even hesitate because I don't believe in double standards. We are both very open people and I know that our love is undying. I like that your all for experimenting and I hope that you and your girlfriend have all positive experiences in the future. Thanks for your response. | |
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| 25. savypat (7650) | 1 year ago |  My husband asked me this once and only once, But I was glad he trusted me enough to ask me. Some people arrange the situation to try to force you to do something you don't want to do, that's not good for the relationship. So I'd say just ask, if you don't like the answer don't push it.
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| 26. liguansheng (66) | 1 year ago | You must go to and her boldly communicate,slowly understands opposite party,only then like this only then may achieve the body and the thought unites,only will then tel everybody obtain joyfully. | |
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27.  LadyWinter (183) | 1 year ago |  My two cents...take it or leave it.
A sexual fantasy is just that a fantasy. Not all fantasies should or could be fulfilled. What are you hoping to get out of this? besides an orgasm? Its not going to help you grow closer as a couple, its not going to help you to know each other better...I dont see the benefit frankly.
I have several sets of friends who have had threesomes and have yet to see a positive outcome from it...several couples have broken up afterward because the woman felt hurt by it, because the woman left the man,(sometimes for the other man) or because of later reprecussions from it. Too often the woman does this to please the man and the relationship suffers because of it.
Has your girlfriend ever brought up a threesome? IF so then I would say talk to her about it....IF not tread carefully and good luck.
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| LadyWinter (183) | 1 year ago | Also, if your really intent on having a threesome, maybe you should be single until you have all your fantasys fulfilled and can commit to a relationship...just a thought. | |
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| 28. codemonkey (79) | 1 year ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| jambi462 (2157) | 1 year ago | Lol
Thanks for this response it actually says what it means. I've just responded to a bunch of them because I'll get more money for it you know. Your opinion is great and I do think that the asking thing is the best way to go about it. And yeah me choosing the girl is probably suicide. Thanks for your response. | |
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| codemonkey (79) | 1 year ago | You're very welcome. Keep us posted! Merry Christmas! | |
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| 29. xomgitskamax (794) | 1 year ago |  There is no way i would do it. My boyfriend is mine. I dont want anyone else having him or having me. We are just for each other. Most girls would not be into this.
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| 30. silverjam (641) | 1 year ago | That is such a horrible thing for a man to ask from a woman/gf. I'll be very doubting for him if he even asked that; I'll be questioning his faithfullness and his mental state. I am not into it because I feel and I know its not an act of love but lusts. | |
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