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myLot reputation of 84/100. jambi462 (2130)   ranked 272 out of 8,812 in sex1 year ago

How would you feel if your boyfriend asked you your opinion on having a threesome with one of your close friends? If you were sexually attracted to women and thought that your friend was attractive would you do it? I want to ask my girlfriend this question but I'm scared that she will react negatively to it and I don't want to offend her because I love her very much. Please let me know what you think ladies.

 
 
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31. qinchenglim510156 (82)   ranked 5,436 out of 8,812 in sex   1 year ago

I dont think it is a good idea

 
32. nicolekali (20)   12 months ago

If my husband or former boyfriends had ever ask me to have a threesome with one of my friends, I might say yes to it and then ask him for the same thing with one of his friends and your girlfriend might do the same as well. This is like opening Pandora's box and you might not like what you're about to get. Some fantasies should stay where it belongs, in your imagination. If your girlfriend get down like that, she may like it and decide to leave you and take her friend or her friend might enjoy you and want some more. I personally feel that if both parties agree on this matter, they should do it with someone they're not close too.


myLot reputation of 84/100. jambi462 (2130)   ranked 272 out of 8,812 in sex  12 months ago

I think that a relationship is supposed to be open though and both partners should feel comfortable with sharing all of their sexual fantasies. Maybe I'm wrong but I don't see why I should hold back my partner from finding someone else that may be better then me. On the regards of that I'm confident that she won't find anybody better then me and I also wouldn't care if she found a guy that she wanted to have a threesome with because I want to please her no matter what. Thanks for your response.

 
33. whitefox08 (73)   ranked 8,522 out of 8,812 in sex   12 months ago

Hey,guy you get a idea that may most of guys have thought about that.In my opinion,if you really love you girlfriend you should not ask for this and if your girlfriend loves you,she would not agree with you and she may think that you are not really love her.But I also need the girls' thoughts.

 
34. myLot reputation of 93/100. JashleyB (1157)   12 months ago

If my boyfriend asked me anything like that I'd be very embarrassed and offended. But that is just me, I don't think things like that are right. But I know it just depends on who you date. A lot of girls get jealous these days. Over really dumb things too so it would be rare for them to be cool with stuff that I'd think.

 
35. myLot reputation of 80/100. jdyrj777 (2238)   ranked 3,962 out of 8,812 in sex   12 months ago

I would think my dog bf just really wants my friend. I would tell him go ahead but just leave me alone.

 
36. myLot reputation of 80/100. jdyrj777 (2238)   ranked 3,962 out of 8,812 in sex   12 months ago

I would think my dog boyfriend just really wants my friend. I would tell him go ahead and do what he wants but count me out of his life.

 
37. myLot reputation of 96/100. UtopianIdealist (954)   ranked 532 out of 8,812 in sex   11 months ago

This is something that could not only change your friendship, but also the relationship with your boyfriend as well. It could be a wonderful experience, but it could also have a lot of emotional issues along with it. If you and your boyfriend are certin on doing so, maybe a few nights of the three of you hanging out before you mention it to your friend could be in order. Then again, sometimes over planning or over thinking things can be worse. Maybe it is something that might happen on its own with some nice food, drink and entertainment for the three of you.

 
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