Is More really Better?

@Pose123 (21635)
Canada
January 3, 2009 9:12pm CST
We live in an age when we are constantly being bombarded with the idea that more is better, but is it really? Does more bring a better quality of life? Perhaps some people would rather live in a mansion, own big cars and pretend to be happy , even if they are not. What is your choice quantity or quality?
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19 responses
@titansaha (188)
• India
4 Jan 09
quality is precious and i always go by it.quality is everlasting happiness where as quantity is like the dew drops,..one moment it is there looking brilliant and the next moment it is gone..... to me quantity can never bring better quality in life ,it can give us only momentary comforts.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi titansaha, Thanks for responding and we agree. Blessings.
@Grandmaof2 (7578)
• Canada
4 Jan 09
This is the way I have always been and I'll never change now at my age I'm sure. I don't care how much or how little I have as long as it's working and I have my family. I have never had new furniture except for nmy lift chair, but I'm happier with my old junk because it's paid for and I have no fear of loosing it.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi Grandmaof2, Ah yes - contentment, there is nothing better. Thanks for this. Blessings.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
4 Jan 09
More is certainly not always better. And I swear if they put one MORE fast food restaurant close to me, I will be done for. It seems too, that the more you have, the more you have to worry about losing. If your home is empty, you do not care much about people running in and out and leaving the door open. But then, when you have a lot, that same person can become a crank, just because they are now so worried about what they may lose.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi Rozie, Great response, thank you. Blessings.
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
4 Jan 09
The good thing about having more is that you are able to give to others ,and giving feels a lot better than receiving. Is wonderful to live debt free and is terrific to be able to travel in First Class instead of economy. In others words, there is nothing wrong with money ,but the love of money that creates so much unhappiness and when we become too greedy.
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
6 Jan 09
Yes, when we become too greedy ,and we spent money that we don't have just to impress others. In America, so many people are in debt because of this behavior. People want to spend more than what they earn.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi Mirita, Thank you for commenting and I agree there is nothing wrong with having money and living debt free is wonderful. I was thinking more of those who are going further and further into debt as they were trying to get more and bigger things. Blessings.
• Brazil
23 Jan 09
That´s a difficult choice because we have to consider that money does help to have better quality of life. You can eat better, work better, live better. This is my own experience because I had my full of money time and my out of money time. And it has no comparison. To wake up in the morning get a full bus to the job, work like crazy and get a little salary from being able to take care only of my studies, sleep better and have more time for fun and rest. I think that a balance between quality and quantity must be the way to happyness.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
23 Jan 09
Hi deborahkat, Thank you for responding. I agree it can be a difficult choice sometimes, but there should be a time when we can say,'enough'. Your idea of a balance is a good one. Blessings.
@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
4 Jan 09
I firmly believe that the more stuff you own, the more stuff owns you! More things=more maintenance.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Thanks rocketj1, Good respond. Blessings.
@xbrendax (2662)
• United States
5 Jan 09
For me, more is better! I have $2.18 in my pocket but I would like to have MORE!
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi xbrendax, Thanks, I agree in some cases we need more, I hope youu get more money - and soon. Blessings
@uath13 (8192)
• United States
4 Jan 09
I figure with less there's less I have to clean & repair...Who needs all that junk?
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi uath, Thanks for responding. Blessings.
@bdugas (3577)
• United States
5 Jan 09
i my self would rather have less but it be of a better quality, and paid for than to be up to my eyeballs as I heard a man say. Yes it seems anymore nothing is enough for some they have to have it all. Then when the crash comes they find out that they are going back to being a little person like the rest of us. Must be a horrible fall to not live in that mansion any more. More is better if it is health care or something that beniftis the family not something that shows how much of a big shot in town you are. Most of these people are living way beyond their means, and go to bed every night praying for a miracle to dig them out, sorry I will take what I got that is paid for and know that no one is going to knock on my door tomorrow and take it from me.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi bdugas, Thanks for responding, there are of course cases where more is better, you mention health care and of course your right, and we should all have more compassion, but I think you get the drift of what I was talking about. I would certainly agree with your comments. Blessings.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
9 Jan 09
Hi Pose123! I do wish for a quality kind of life of course. My family and I are very close. However, we don't have "quantity" or "more". I guess, we need balance. Quality we have but we just get by and when I mean we just get by, I have to really cut down on so many things that are essential just to support my father who lives several miles from me. I am not asking for more if I have more. I am only asking for good opportunities wherein I can support my father who is old and sick. I don't want to go into details. I just want to have a balance in quality and quantiy. Take care and have a nice day! lovelots..faith210
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
9 Jan 09
Hi faith, Thank you for this and I know you are not one who just want more for themselves. Blessings.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
5 Jan 09
Undoubtedly Pose dear its quality of life that matters to me and never quantity........I feel each person should draw a line when it comes to achieving material things that will keep him or her happy,and learn to find happiness/or be contended with what he has..... Its true every person has need for some material things to keep him happy and contended,and he is always striving to achieve these things.But he must learn to be happy with what ever he gets and if a person gets blinded with unending craving for material things then it will ultimately lead to his dowm fall.......and he will end ups a loser in life....
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi Rose, I feel that is a great response. Blessings.
@dozhou (326)
• United States
4 Jan 09
It is according to the context. To the poor guys, they need more money, food, space for their family. They have no choice. To the rich, quality is more important than quantity. For me, I do not think I have the ability to control the quality of my life, I choose quantity.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi dozhou, Thank you for commenting, We all need enough, I was thinking more of those who are always trying to get more and more and going further and further into debt everyday. Blessings.
@Khayam (346)
• Romania
5 Jan 09
As someone once said, "the paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness. We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom". Probably when we analyse this quantity vs. quality process we should think that the fact that "life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away".
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi khayam, I loved that response, thank you. It is certainly true. Blessings.
• India
5 Jan 09
just lead a simple life on earth the more and more will not help U in life it is the master of all problems in life.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi yursonlyurs, Thank you for commenting. Blessings.
• Canada
4 Jan 09
I will choose quality over quantity any day of the week. It is not "more" that I am interested in, when that "more" is of very poor quality. Why would i want an anundant amount of something that is of no use to me, when I can have a lesser amount of that which is special and important to me?
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Thanks danishcanadian, I agree with you. Blessings.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
4 Jan 09
I prefer simple life. If I Had the opportunity to live my own life the way I wanted, I would like to live in a no man;s land, in a farm or even a field with only one room, surrounded with animals. If I had to give up teaching I would like to be a farmer. I would like to be closer to nature. (c) ronaldinu 2009 - the more people I meet-the more I love my dog
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi ronaldinu, I can see you don't believe that more is necessarily better and I agree. Thanks for this. Blessings.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
4 Jan 09
Hello Pose. It is hard to say whether it is better to have something more or whatsoever. I think that it all depends on how you deal with it when you have already got more. If it is used properly, it is better and vice versa.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi williamjisir, Thanks for that comment - you're thinking. Blessings.
@DonnaLawson (4032)
• United States
4 Jan 09
More is sometimes more trouble, more aggrevation, more expense, and more of a pain in the behind than anything.. I would opt for quality instead of quantity.. I would love to have a perfectly restored older house instead of a mansion.. There is a local businessman who lives in our neighborhood and his house is so huge, that he wouldn't be able to find someone if they even broke in on him.. His house is just too big.. Half of it is always dark, so he can't use all of it all of the time, it just seems too much for me, and I darned sure wouldn't want to have to clean it.. I go for the quality not the quantity..
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Hi DonnaLawson, Thank you for commenting. Blessings.
@srijshm (1165)
• India
4 Jan 09
I remember learning in economics "the law of diminishing value" which means that anything we have too much will loose its value. I totally agree with you, in real life, less is more. Less work: means more fun. less gadgets means more time with family & friends. less money(but adequate money) means that you do not feel insecure about loosing it. Less you eat, the healthier you are. Only in case the rule does not apply - more myLot friends the merrier.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Good thoughts srijshm, Thanks for this. Blessings.