Would you go for an old man with money or a young man without money?  

Oh wow...this is interresting. Looking back at my life, I've never had it easy like my sister does. Her man is very good looking and wealthy. As I'm struggling to get my children clothed, she goes out and sends money my way without batting an eyelash.

To answer your question...since both men love me the same, I'd definately go for the older one. Yes, he's older and could quite possibly be my father's age, at least he'll have the financial line already secured. There's nothing romantic about struggling to pay your bills.

*Pleiades

Hello marylots! To be very honest I would probably choose the older man with money than a young man without money. I don't really care about the age of the person as long as I love him and as long as he can give me good life and security. I got married to a man older than me and I love him so much. When we are together we can't feel our big age difference. Sometimes I even felt I am older than him.

JEepers mine is old and doesn't have money so I don't know what that makes me. LOL I don't think I thought about it too much. Sure I wish he was younger and had more money, but then I wish I was younger and had more money too.

I think if I had to pick one it would be a young man so that we have more years together. I think that I need to make my own money if I can enjoy using it.

Before, I have a boyfriend who has same age with me. But as we go along the relationship, I feel that he is not that mature enough to handle some problems. Sometimes, I am the one who is handling the problem by myself.I don't even find him that responsible in doing some task.Because of that, I feel so unhappy and not satisfied with the relationship. I broke up with him and realized that if I will love again, I must think wisely.After two years, I met this man who is older than me.Honestly, he looks more mature than his real age and we can be said as "father and daughter" although he is not that old to be my father. I can say that I love him more than my young boyfriend. He is also richer than my young bf so I can say that I am more secured on him rather than on my ex. Aside from that, he is more experienced. He knows a lot of things. Unlike having a relationship with the young one, having a relationship with my bf today is quite peaceful.While I find myself in a relationship that always falls into quarrels before, it is not like that now.Whenever problem comes, my bf can handle it wisely and solve it immediately. He is more calm and we not quarrel on one issue for days.I can say that I prefer old man with money rather than young without money but of course there must always be the presence of love.

for me, if I don't love the person who has a lot of money, I won't marry him. because money is only a part of our life. for the marriage, love places in the important position. if you have the love, I think you can have a happy marriage. and you can overcome all the difficulties.

Women get left in life by themselves enough without bringing it on themselves. I would never marry a man lots older than me. My husband and I are a year apart and I like that. We have lots more in common than an older man and I would have had. I married a man without any money, in the Air Force and you drew hardly anything back then. I had a job. But then, our apartment rent was only $50 a month. Those were the days!! We will never see times like that again.

I would take the older guy anytime.

Each night when i go to sleep i die and the next morning when i wake up i am reborn when mahatma gandhi spoke those famous words he was inviting us all to live our lives to the full for after all of we don;t user the precious life we can then we nay as wekk be dead - what the defference would it make? it can take some people a good long time to learn the sense in those words,

If my age is between 18-25, for sure I chose the younger one, until now I am still struggling (if that comes )whether if I gonna marry someone who can be my father and grandfather, with lots of money.....knowing that I am 33 years old..., I am really not sure marylots... it depends maybe if I'd fall in love to an older man, its just that money can't buy true happiness....well, let's see... who knows?

i would like to go without money with young one because if i go with old man then his can end also but if i prefer young man that he can earn money in his life because he is not suffering with his life and young man can life better and can b doing stuggle also so i would prefer young one