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myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7134)   ranked 95 out of 6,442 in making money 4 years ago

They say that, "The one who has the gold, makes the rules." I know for a fact that this is true. I am in a situation right now where I am being blown away by how the owner of my building is using her money to manipulate her employees and everyone else around her. She has so much money, that she is literally above the law. There have been people in my building who have died and come dangerously close to dying and she has almost gotten away with it.
But thanks to me and my big mouth, I pray that she will not get away with it and this will never happen to anyone in this board and care again. I had to contact the Department Of Mental Health Headquarters and now there is a hearing coming up. To tell you the truth, if I had known that this woman had this much power, I would have been intimidated, but thank God for courage and a caring heart.
A few months ago, I was almost out of this place, I found a nice place to move, but when I asked the people if I could move in, they said no. I felt so bad, because this is the same place that I go for therapy and case management, so I knew that they know me well. I found out yesterday, that the lady who owns this place, owns the land on which that place is located. All of a sudden, things stated making sense to me.
This is why they keep the administrator here. He is a complete and total moron, but I believe that he is related to the owner, so he does not actually need brain cells to work her. An example of how dumb he is: "One day I asked him why he likes to argue with me so much, to which he replied, I want to see how far you are going to go." If I refuse to argue with him, he assumes that I am falling for his B.S. and then becomes even more arrogant.
The most frightening thing about her power is that she got her employees to lie on me and go along with the lies the administrator had told on me. When more than one person says that you have done something, that you know you have not done, it can really mess with your mind. And all of this in retaliation for attempting to speak up for myself.
So now, I am moving out at the end of the month. But when I started to realize everything that was going on last night, I wanted to move right then and there. It was so overwhelming for me. To add insult to injury, her family claims to be Christian and the Bible says that Christians can not sue each other. This ordeal has been going on since last June, I hope that the end of this month will finally be the end of it.
So do you know of anyone or are you someone who allows a person with money to control you? I have a niece who is 20 and dating a 45 year old married man, because he has money and this guy totally controls her. It is so very sad to me. This guy is so ugly, we call them beauty and the beast.


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1. myLot reputation of 87/100. andy1page (397)   4 years ago

If you know the english magicain Paul Daniels then you would recall the remark made during a chat show back in the 1990's . The interviewers guest was Debbie MaGee the wife of Mr Daniels - Debbie was blond , good looking & 15 years younger than Mr Daniels - The interviewers first question was ' What first atrracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels ?' - Enough said


myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7134)   ranked 95 out of 6,442 in making money  4 years ago

Haha, that is funny, yet so sad at the same time. Makes me think of Anna Nicole Smith.


myLot reputation of 67/100. anniepa (11663)   ranked 863 out of 6,442 in making money  4 years ago

Now, Rozie, you know Anna Nicole Smith was MADLY IN LOVE with that old geezer! YUCK...lol!
Annie

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. tammytwo (3289)   ranked 43 out of 6,442 in making money   4 years ago

I think society has gone too far in letting such people control everything. Just because someone has a lot of money does not mean they are any better than you or I. They put their pants on one leg at a time just the same as we do. If we take a stand such as you have and show society we won't allow it we can stop such behavior. Good for you to stand up for yourself and others.


myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7134)   ranked 95 out of 6,442 in making money  4 years ago

Thank you so much. Being in the middle of such a situation makes me feel as if I am in the Twilight Zone. I do not like this kind of thing one bit.

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. teapotmommommerced (5730)   ranked 207 out of 6,442 in making money   4 years ago

Rozie, I am sorry this is happening to you. It seems they have labeled you and they are bigger and have more money than you so you are batting your head against the wall.
You may be able to fight them better if you are not under their roof. I hope you have a place to go so you will be safe.
Now the Bible says not to sue each other but I think it means not to sue for monetary gains but is you sue her so you get get changes then I think that is OK.


myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7134)   ranked 95 out of 6,442 in making money  4 years ago

I just want to get out of here and get on with my life at this point. I do not like the way money makes people behave. It is very unsettling for me, like they are above the law and can get away with anything. But I know that they can never be above God and I am waiting for him to prove himself to me in this situation.


myLot reputation of 99/100. teapotmommommerced (5730)   ranked 207 out of 6,442 in making money  4 years ago

Good luck my friend. I hope you will be happy in your new home. Keep us posted.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. Polly1 (9354)   ranked 1,229 out of 6,442 in making money   4 years ago

Oh Rozie, I am so sorry for you. I hope your next place is perfect for you, you deserve to find a nice place to live. Keep the faith girl, you know things will work out for the best. What comes around goes round, I would hate to be in some of their shoes when they get theirs. I don't understand when grown people act like that. Keep us posted on what is going on with you. Take care and watch your back.


myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7134)   ranked 95 out of 6,442 in making money  4 years ago

I have been longing for my own apartment for years, but so far, it has not been God's will for me. I know that God had a plan in my coming here and I know that as long as I am still here, there are things that need to be accomplished. But I am completely worn out with this entire situation. The good thing is that now I know it will be over real soon. Thank you for the heads up about watching my back, I have been thinking about that myself. If God did not have my back, I probably would not be sitting here typing right now, no joke.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. faith210 (8505)   4 years ago

Hi Rozie daer! I am sure that things will work out for the best for you. People who abuse their fellowmen and who used their money to control people will soon realize they are leading a lonely and sad life. They will soon realize their mistakes and will learn that without their wealth, they are nothing really. The buy people to lie for them and be their friends, such a pitiful life! I know someone (a wealthy man in my grandmother's neighborhood) who have killed someone and got away with it because he paid the investigators to do a cover up for his crime. I was not a witness to this wealthy man's crime but a witness to his crime has confided to me. The witness has hidden because he was threatened that he will be killed once he talks. I pray that the victim will have justice and that the witness will soon take courage to stand up for what is right and good!
Take care and have a nice day!
lovelots..faith210


myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7134)   ranked 95 out of 6,442 in making money  4 years ago

Standing up for what you believe is right, is one of the hardest things to do in this life. I get very confused when even my family tells me to mind my own business, so that nothing bad will happen to me. But I believe that if I am trusting God, then I have no choice, but to do the right thing. Not only that, I feel that God is calling me to do the right thing in these situations.
I feel a strong passion to do the right thing, but others encourage me to bridle that passion and just pray that what is happening bad to others, will not happen to me. I don't know if all situations are the same, I feel that some times God will nudge me to speak up about certain things and other times, I won't even be deeply affected by what is going on. I know that God will bring me through this soon enough. I hope that your friend does the right thing eventually.


myLot reputation of 99/100. faith210 (8505)  4 years ago

Hi dearest friend! That is very true! Doing what is right is one of the hardest thing to do. I know that God will see you through always my dear friend. Hold on to what is right and I know that you will never go wrong. God takes care of His children.
lovelots..faith210


myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7134)   ranked 95 out of 6,442 in making money  4 years ago

Thank you so much for those encouraging words.


myLot reputation of 99/100. faith210 (8505)  4 years ago

You're always welcome. Take care my dear friend.happy

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6. myLot reputation of 67/100. anniepa (11663)   ranked 863 out of 6,442 in making money   4 years ago

I'm very glad for you that you're finally going to get out of there, Hon, and I'm so sorry you've had to deal with a monster like this! She is NOT a Christian, I can tell you that with certainty without ever meeting her. I also believe she'll get "hers" in the end. Sometimes we think the rich and powerful will get away with their bull$hit forever but one way or another what goes around comes around and Karma can be a real b1tch. I've never had the misfortune of having to deal with someone like this myself unless a horrid boss who controlled my purse-strings so to speak counts.
Annie


myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7134)   ranked 95 out of 6,442 in making money  4 years ago

Yes, those bosses from Hell do count. My friend and I were just talking about how just because a person goes to church, that does not make them a Christian. After all, the Bible says that even the devil goes to church. Another friend was telling me how God took take all that money away in a split second. That is why I am glad that my mother taught us to trust in God and not uncertain riches. Thank you for the encouragement, it really means a lot in times like this.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. HeavenUnaware (988)   ranked 4,883 out of 6,442 in making money   4 years ago

I've had two bosses who have thought that because they had more money than their employees, that meant they could walk on them and treat them like dirt. They might have gotten away with it with other people but I didn't stick around long enough to find out. My very first real boss was a man who was all about money and he treated the rest of us like we were "nothings". Our opinions and feelings did not matter. He talked down to us and constantly tried to make us feel unworthy - like we should be kissing his feet that we worked for him. When I warned him that I was going to quit, he didn't believe me - but when I put the letter of resignation on his desk, he didn't say a word until my last day when he came in and begged ME to stay. It felt so good to tell him "no" for once. To tell him that I had found a better place to work. A place where everyone is treated with respect regardless of how much money they had. We were valued for being great employees and that is what all bosses should do. My sister also worked there at the time and she continued to work for that man for almost 20 years - he sold the business to a former associate who my sister now works for and to be honest, this new guy is basically the same way. I do not know how she does it.

Rozie.. I'm glad you are leaving that place. Did you find a new place to go already? I think you will be better off away from these people. I will keep you in my prayers, you are a very special person and I believe God has great things in store for you this year :)


myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7134)   ranked 95 out of 6,442 in making money  4 years ago

Thank you so much for the words of encouragement. I am trusting God for a better place to live. Even though, I know that he put me here for such a time as this. Depending on a lot of personal factors, some people, like your sister, have no problems dealing with complete jerks. You and I are just not one of those people. I have seen way too much in my 39 years to just walk away unscathed. I have to speak up.

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8. myLot reputation of 94/100. maddysmommy (10969)   ranked 1,029 out of 6,442 in making money   4 years ago

Wow so much going on, no wonder it's stressful living where you are now. I do hope you find another place Rozie. We will be when Matt gets back from his trip overseas. It's time to find something cheaper and make 2009 a better year for us, healthwise, financially and relationship wise. Matt is on the health wagon and determined to get his health in check. Praise the Lord!

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