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myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language12 months ago

Are you a slangy kind of a person or more formal? Are you really comfortable using the latest and greatest expression, whatever it may be, or do you wait and see if it becomes mainstream first? Anything in your upbringing or nature that might explain this?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 59/100. MonkOVision (936)   ranked 77 out of 469 in language   12 months ago

I am more likely to use jargon than slang, and I mostly do this according to what situation I find myself in. I do use some slang, but it is probably dated.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

I'm kind of formal myself. It took me a long time to warm up to things like lol and rofl. And I'm still uncomfortable with things in the language that have changed since I was a kid such as "my bad" or "acting out" (instead of acting up).

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (13863)   ranked 334 out of 469 in language   12 months ago

Personally I think the English language is abused enough and torn apart, I hate these new words coming about like kewl and wicked which means great not evil as it should be designated to mean. I avoid slang and I guess I am more of the old school, it does make me cringe when slang is used although that is not as bad as when swear words become every day use. Why do some people feel the need the put swear words in every sentence? Call me old fashioned but it makes me cringe when people drop their 'h's like 'avent you got none, or another word that makes me cringe is 'ain't' A lot of it is down to attitude don't you think?


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

Some things strike my fancy. Like I use 'kewl' but not wicked in it's new connotation. Too many swear words make me uncomfortable too. And 'enry 'iggins would agree with you on that last one, but it's not something you see here in the US!


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (13863)   ranked 334 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

'urrah for that indeed! There is 'ope then


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

lol

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3. myLot reputation of 75/100. LilPixelle (618)   ranked 390 out of 469 in language   12 months ago

I enjoy using big words and using them properly, I think It might be because I enjoy confusing people:) Apparently I had a great Grandfather who could do this as well, but he had an extra ability to go with it, one that I hope to someday achieve for myself. He had the ability, to downplay his speaking ability, and speak on the same level as people who didn't quite have the vocabulary he did, and he was also able to speak on his higher level for people who understood it.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

no 'eschew obfuscation' eh?

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (3061)   ranked 27 out of 469 in language   12 months ago

Oh, this one is tricky to answer. I think that I had a very fromal upbringing - rigid actually with regard to manners, behaviour and especially table manners. We were not allowed to speak slang and our speech was always corrected. My mother insited that we speak with a classless accent. We were not allowed to use the language of our region or use the local dialect of our region. and this is really odd when you think that my mother spoke with an Irsh accent all of her life!

Even today, I am the politst person I know. I am not rigid around friends but I can still get a bit stiff when I see children with awful table manners. I just hate this.

I suppose it was my upbringing really. My mother wanted us to have a better life than she had and therefore this is why she was so insistant on good manners and speech. On reflection, I can understand it.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

My mother was very correct also. She was from the South and deliberately lost the accent and was also very well educated. At the same time, she could just let lose with a barrage of bad grammar in some kind of a funny accent if she wanted to get a laugh!


myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (3061)   ranked 27 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

My mother only had a standard education - she did not go to college or anything as her parents had emigrated from Ireland to the U.K. because of the fighting in Ireland at that time. she also lost much of her hearing in her teens due to complications from measles. She was fiercely ambitious for her children as she did not want us to be trapped in marriage with no means of escape if we were unhappy. she wanted us to be able to earn enough money to be independent of a man/husband. She was born in 1912 so definitely a lady before her time.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

Sounds kind of like the great-aunt who raised my mom...

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. RobsWife10706 (1022)   ranked 385 out of 469 in language   12 months ago

Actually I have never given this much thought. I talk the way I talk. I don't try to use words that people are currently using or anything like that. Of course sometimes I will use a word that I've heard someone else use without even thinking. Then again there is the fact that I am originally from Brooklyn....using slng words is almost a 2nd part of our nature LOL.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

I talk the way I talk too but I notice it when somebody else uses a lot of expressions that I'm not familiar with or am uncomfortable with.

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6. myLot reputation of 67/100. LoudnProud (6260)   ranked 341 out of 469 in language   12 months ago

I diny get it Dawn? w00t


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

lol I laughed when I saw you responded even before I saw your response...


myLot reputation of 67/100. LoudnProud (6260)   ranked 341 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

Haha well really i dont get what ya mean..whats that fancy word you used? w00t


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

no comprende senorita

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (15196)   ranked 11 out of 469 in language   12 months ago

I'm a kindda old fashioned gal when it comes to language, don't know how or why I picked up so many old terms, but I have.

For example, what is the past tense for the word "drag"?


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

Where I come from 'dragged' but I hear 'drug' all the time...


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (15196)   ranked 11 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

"Drug" is the old way to do past tense, now "dragged" is considered proper, but sounds so WRONG to me.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

naw, drug is slang, isn't it?


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (15196)   ranked 11 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

Not according to the Oxford English Dictionary, its an archaic form of the past tense.

I may be a lousy at spelling and at grammer, but that's history and that's my bag.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

Very interesting - did not know that. Of course the Oxford English Dictionary has no standing here in the good old U S of A. lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (15196)   ranked 11 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

Actually, it does.... http://www.oed.com/

As
they say for themselves, its the definitive record of the English Language. You want to know word origins, you will find the complete origin in the OED.

(Learned that in my "History of the English Language" course in college.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

For word origins, sure, but not for current American usage.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (15196)   ranked 11 out of 469 in language  12 months ago

None the less, while they say that it is an old term, here in the states anyway it is still in usage and has been. I think we have it in use because of the fact that the word was still in common usage when the States were settled.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

It's very much in usage! But I thought it was just slang, had no idea that it was an archaic form.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (15196)   ranked 11 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

I had an actual word "fight" over this word, I wanted to stick to my prefered usage and my "editor" wanted to use "dragged." I had to go to the dictonary and PROVE it was a form of the past tense before she accepted it, and then only grudgingly*itching it wasn't in normal usage.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

Almost caused a knock down drag out? lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (15196)   ranked 11 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

Good thing there were a LOT of miles between us!


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

Guess so ( did I mention that I like puns?)...


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (15196)   ranked 11 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

No, but I have a fondness for them myself, and my friend, Maggiepie, loves them!

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. jesssp (1223)   ranked 387 out of 469 in language   11 months ago

I use some of it, most of the time it's on purpose to make fun of something rather than it just being part of my vocabulary. But I find if I use something like that too much then it can worm it's way into my daily conversations. There are some that I absolutely hate though, like a lot of the slang rappers use. And I can't bring myself to use bad grammar, no matter how mainstream it gets!


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

Me either, except occasionally to make a point...

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. Sissygrl (5752)   ranked 331 out of 469 in language   11 months ago

I tend to stick with what i know.. unless i make up the word.. I dont get much information on waht's mainstream.. lol unless you count "that's hot" which i do not say often.. unless i'm touching the pot after its been on the stove boiling..


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

I have a daughter who is almost a teenager, so I suspect I'll be getting a whole course on what's mainstream real soon!


myLot reputation of 96/100. Sissygrl (5752)   ranked 331 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

oh dear. lol good luck with that!! I'm sure it will be very confusing and annoying!


myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9574)   ranked 6 out of 469 in language  11 months ago

and even more so when the twins get to be that age (heaven help me lol)...

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