A great save!  

I assume that she would do the same for me if the tables were reversed. I would have to walk her through it, which would take longer than doing it myself but she would do the same for me. She's a great chick and a lot of bad things happen in her life from time to time. Like the day before her mom passed she had had one of her tires replaced on her boyfriends truck and then came over to see me. On the way home the tire she had replaced came off of the truck and sent her sliding down the median and into oncoming traffic during rush hour. She wasn't hurt or anything but a few years ago she went off the road in Big Bear and broke her back, so the next day after this accident her back and neck were tweaked but how her bf can construe that as her fault I don't know. She is my friend and I would do just about anything for her, just because that is what friends do, right?

Yes, I do believe that that is what friends do -- care for one another.

I have always said that friends are the family that you get to choose and that you like.

It worked out, that was the important thing. They liked the music and it helped with the memorial service. As the appropriate music will do. I took it as her endorsement when after the memorial was through she went in and added her pic to her new profile and left the entire 20 song list intact with no chantges. She's been listening to it since and she says that it gives her some comfort. I think she is more comforted by the fact that someone cares and would go out of their way for her sick or not. Regardless comforting is what she needs and as I am sick I am unable to render it in person.

Not at all! I wan't seeking absolution. I called her and told her that I wouldn't be able to attend because I was sick. Anyone could hear that I wasn't well, and she came over to get the cd that wasn't working so she knew that I was in fact sick and not avaoiding the service. I just wish that the flu could have held off for a day or two so that I could have attended and offered moral support in person. Her mom was a really cool person. She had been taking care of her for the entire 5 years I have known her and so I have gotten to know her mom a little from visiting her home and stuff. When it is the loss of a parent though you can often need all the support that you can get. And the JA that is her boyfriend was not being supportive at all. She had the support of 5 of her six children though so everything turned out fine.

Okay, then at least I saw the whole picture.