What to do or how concerned are you when thing go bad in your relationship?

I think you should try to anticipate trouble however it comes and try to head it off at the pass because you can probably stop a small situation from becoming enormous and out of control. It is important to try to stop situations from escalating whenever possible.

i'm currently avoiding my inlaws place, my bro inlaw is down from up north and it's easier for me to stay away. nothing against him or his family it's, my partner that is a pain int he butt when he's around. different attuide and i'm trying not to have a fight about it. i got in trouble from my partner cause i didn't give my bro inlaw the good horse riding saddle that used to be his earlier this week. i'm trying to injore it all. also my partner was whinging at me cause i've not been over there much, i've basically dumped my son with them. whats' the use in casing a fight, over where and who he goes with every day. my son's now being a little pain in the butt and it's not my fault, i'm the first one on the firing list if anything goes wrong.
currently i want my partner out of my life, there's other contributing factors to why i want that, not just this issue.
my partner also has a habit of bringing up the past, and is nasty about it. so of course that upsets me and he expects me to suck up to him over it.
so i guess their all wondering why i've vacted their place and not been around.

So far, things have not gone bad in my relationship. But as far as those who face this problem, I would say it is quite natural for such a thing to happen and whenver it happens, both the partners will have to discuss about the affair and come to a compromise.

Resist first for any type of problem, if any way come try to solve with discussion, but never leave in relationship behind your way, these activities lost relatioship values, If you move further, then suppose what will happen if in the same situation some one leave you behind and move further, all depends on how much your relatioship matter to you. dont avoid anything try to fight and solve as soon as poosible, dont make your life a travel bag.

Well I fix it immediately, like talking it out and seating on it discussing and explaining, and reasoning out, just to settle it once and for all. I just can't concentrate or focusing on anything not settling any problems. But I let her cool down first, before we talk. That is how important she is to me, that much I love her. Well relationship works when you both want it workout. I just don't want to complicate matters between her and me. Have a nice day to you!