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myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people1 year ago

My mother had very long hair in the pictures I've seen of her when she was younger and dating my father but ever since I can remember she has had short hair.

I also watch alot of Jon & Kate Plus 8 (TLC) and Kate had really long pretty hair and now she has short hair. Jon was even shown saying he would like her to have the same long hair that he 'met her with' because that was one of things he like most about her.

I do feel like even our hair can suit our mood and have been known to chop my hair off when I'm going through a hard time and fed up with men. Thankfully I went to a professional hair salon and got a halle berry cut and I like it alot


but.........


Men hated it!! (What did you do to your hair???)

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 85/100. momtrying2makeit (2362)   ranked 2,816 out of 35,431 in people   1 year ago

Right now I am trying to grow my hair out. After I had my girls I have mostly had short hair when they were little they always pulled on my hair. I think that after I get my hair as long as I can this time I will have it short from than on. It is hard to maintain nice hair when you have a life and kids. I am not say it cannot be done but you have to make it happen! I was thinking I notice a lot of women cut their hair when they get older too. Great discussion and happy mylotting to you. happy

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. singlemommy (976)   ranked 251 out of 35,431 in people   1 year ago

I think a lot of times women cut their hair off because they get tired of dealing with it. Especially when you are a mother, you have everyone else's hard to worry about that you really don't have time to worry about yours. Look at Kate, she has 8 children to worry about every day and you know her days are full as it is with all those children.

My hair was down to the middle of my back and over the summer I got hot and just decided to chop it all off. The outcome, well, I didn't like it and neither did the men around me either. I have one man who repeatedly tells me all the time, "Your hair isn't growing back fast enough". Your telling me, I can't wait for it to be long again, but then I know once it gets long again I will probably be wishing it was short again.


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

oh man, i know that feeling. Its like theres some power in long hair and I had a lot of time to think about this when I cut my hair off and ever since then I will not touch it. I do keep it up in a pony tail nearly all the time but thankfully have had my friends tell me that it looks better like that anyway.

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. vanilla_28 (131)   ranked 2,278 out of 35,431 in people   1 year ago

Some of my friends also kept their hair long only till marriage, and they wore a shorter haircut after marrying. One of the reasons was to look really at their best for this special occasion. Also they can keep this memory through photos and videos. Since it takes a lot of time and care to look after their long hair, I guess it's much easier to manage short hair.


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

Do you feel as if men treat you differently? I noticed this right away when I first cut my hair short--this was before I had kids.


myLot reputation of 95/100. vanilla_28 (131)   ranked 2,278 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

Well my boyfriend prefers me with long hair, and everytime I wear it short I guess that he's not that happy. But this time I'm trying to let it grow longer.

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. oraclemv (2498)   ranked 295 out of 35,431 in people   1 year ago

I will never cut my hair short, my husband likes it long and so do I. I did get it cut right before we got married but that's because I wanted it too look nice. The length didn't change, just got a little style and I did go back to my natural color because my husband liked that too.

Some men like short hair, my man doesn't.


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

If I counted all the times my bf told me I shouldnt of cut my hair I'd be counting to my toes

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5. myLot reputation of 87/100. oraclemv (2498)   ranked 295 out of 35,431 in people   1 year ago

I did not cut my hair short after I got married. My husband likes my hair long and so do I. I has grown very long and is down below the middle of my back. I get it cut twice a year because that's all I need. But it grows fast.

I did get my haircut before I got married but that was just because I wanted it done and styled to look nice, the length didn't go. My husband won't like the short hair, he likes it most when I wear it pulled up and he likes to take it down and play with my hair. He always plays with my hair and sometimes it's annoying because he pulls it hard on accident.


myLot reputation of 87/100. oraclemv (2498)   ranked 295 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

oops, sorry I didn't think the first one posted because I went backwards because I wanted to add more to it and I never hit the tag but it still posted.


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

that happens to me too, sometimes it post and sometimes it doesnt.

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6. lizmeek (25)   ranked 25,408 out of 35,431 in people   1 year ago

I've my hair short since high school, but senior year I let it grow out some for pictures. I got pregnant senior year and married a month before I graduated. I did have my short and after the delivery I actually let me hair grow out. My ex husband and I separated I cut my hair off because it was easier for me because I worked, went to school and a mother. I still have my hair short I have tried to let my hair grow out, but it doesn't look right on me.


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

you said senior year you let it grow out for pictures but now it doesnt look right long, why? I messed my hair up so much trying to do it all myself and now I know I just have to get it done professionally and it took many mess ups to drive that into my brain.


lizmeek (25)   ranked 25,408 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

some of my facial features have changed and of course weight can from my three children. I just love short hair. I think if I was to let it grow out that it would be up in a pony tail all of the time. My friends that have seen me with long and short hair tells me that I just look better with short hair.


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

yea, some people just look hot and can pull it off I say go with what works for you and makes you feel your best and comfortable with yourself


lizmeek (25)   ranked 25,408 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

I agree. I had several short hairstyles and I know some of them didn't look that good on me. I'm also the one who loves to try different thinks with my hair. My husband will tell you since we have been together my hair has changed several times. I'll cut it shorter or let it grow out and go back and forth. Then I'll dye it red or natural with highlights. Right now it's my natural hair color and red chunks in it and I love it.

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7. myLot reputation of 51/100. genta77 (184)   ranked 11,367 out of 35,431 in people   1 year ago

this question also came from my male coworker. My answer is because I am tired dealing with my hair, after giving birth and taking care my children, I have to deal with my messy hair, and I dont have much time to care for it.


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

i understand and its frustrating because maybe your man thinks your no longer 'taking care of yourself' and you have to show your up to your neck in caring for babies


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

I gave a 2 and 4 year old and they still will grab at my hair

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8. myLot reputation of 90/100. coxjamir (1177)   ranked 2,113 out of 35,431 in people   1 year ago

My mom did that. After a few years of marriage she chopped ALL her hair off. It used to be so long! I know if I were my dad I would have been P I S S E D off. I think that once you get married or are seriously dating someone, you shouldn't make any major appearance changes without seeing if they are ok with it. That might sound bad, but I met/am dating/married one person and I don't want to see someone else coming home! If my man were trying to make some major changes I would want him to clear it with me, just like I would clear it with him.


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

thats interesting, i never even though of it that way but you may have a good point. I guess I can see it from a mans standpoint looking at it that way--because yea, they do have to live with you and nobody likes suprises thrown at them

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. k1tten (2077)   ranked 2,405 out of 35,431 in people   1 year ago

Often women cut their hair when having children so the children won't grab it and it's just easier to handle, or so they say. That and sometimes they don't have the time to keep up with it.

Now, there is an actual history behind the cutting of hair though after marriage. Some religious sections believe a woman should cut her after marriage. That way no one else will think they were beautiful or would want them after they are married.

It's a male dominated idea so you may just have to do a little research on your own to prove that idea.


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

Well Im almost certain men are very visually oriented creatures--bullseye

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. patriciaqualls (4604)   ranked 1,513 out of 35,431 in people   1 year ago

Hello I cut my hair really short after I had my first daughter. And like 6 years ago. It was just so much easier to take care of. I am growing my hair out again and my mom is always telling me that I need a haircut. I like it long. I just recently got a divorce and I feel happy about myself now that my hair is finally growing. People do treat you better with long hair I don't know why that is. And men do look at me differently. Have a great day.


myLot reputation of 89/100. revellanotvanella (1946)   ranked 1,529 out of 35,431 in people  1 year ago

thank you so much for saying that, I was starting to think it was just in my head, phew

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