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will you go out with a person who like you but you donot like? email this discussion to a friend?

yushulanfang (38)   ranked 13,482 out of 23,392 in relationships12 months ago

yesterday one of my high school classmates invest me to go out playing with him but i refused cause i donot like him and i know he want to make a relationship of love with me so i dont want to give him a wrong impression that i like him too if i go out with him. so that is the question if you know clearly he or she who could not be your boyfriend or girlfriend forever will you still go out with him??

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (18010)   ranked 425 out of 23,392 in relationships   12 months ago

absolutley not...If I'm not interested in someone I'm not going to date them..there would be no point in it and it would be unfair to them.


yushulanfang (38)   ranked 13,482 out of 23,392 in relationships  12 months ago

yeah i agree with you.i refused him that moment but i really donot know how to explain to him why i cannot go out with him with the precondition he know i am so dull at present and have nothing to do.

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2. myLot reputation of 54/100. Jlyn22 (196)   ranked 10,684 out of 23,392 in relationships   12 months ago

Thats sort of how things started with my fiance and I. I had no interest in him at all when we first met but he was nice so we became friends. He took me out all the time trying to get me to like him but it just wasnt working. Then one day I realized I should give him a chance cause he was a nice guy and actually cared about me and wasnt like the other guys Ive dated in the past. So I gave him a chance and we've been together for over a year now and are getting married in June.

As for you, do you like him in a friendship way or do you not like him at all? If you have a friendship with him I would go to be nice but if he makes a move or says something just be straight up with him and let him know you just want to be friends and thats it.


yushulanfang (38)   ranked 13,482 out of 23,392 in relationships  12 months ago

yeah you are right,but i donot like him at all and just make a common friendship with him.though he invite me to go out without any intention he said i still cannot believe him and also i donot want to mislead him.

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. phyrethyme (730)   ranked 4,745 out of 23,392 in relationships   12 months ago

If I know that the person and I have something in common, I might try. If I'm not in a relationship, I might give the person who likes me a chance. No harm done anyway. It really depends for me. There are some guys I turned down because I feel it in my gut that it's a bad idea. There are other guys I don't like more than a friend but I have tried to spend time with them a bit. I make sure I don't send mix signals.


yushulanfang (38)   ranked 13,482 out of 23,392 in relationships  12 months ago

excuse me, what is meaning of "there are other guys i dont like more than a friend". does that mean you dont like them to be your friends?


myLot reputation of 95/100. phyrethyme (730)   ranked 4,745 out of 23,392 in relationships  12 months ago

I'm sorry. What I mean is that there is a difference between liking someone only as a friend and liking someone more than a friend- like, "boyfriend material". happy

For example, there's this guy I hang out with but my relationship with him is only until friendship. I like him but it's like, not enough to make him my boyfriend. "Just friends". happy

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4. myLot reputation of 83/100. egdcltd (1021)   ranked 5,623 out of 23,392 in relationships   12 months ago

No. If you don't like them, there's no point. You more tan likely wouldn't enjoy it, so why put yourself through that.

If you like them as a friend, even if you don't want it to go further, then probably yes. After all, your relationship may develop further.


yushulanfang (38)   ranked 13,482 out of 23,392 in relationships  12 months ago

i do be scared to fall in a misapprehension to him and also dislike to handle the wrong relationship with person who falls in love with me but i dont like at all.


myLot reputation of 83/100. egdcltd (1021)   ranked 5,623 out of 23,392 in relationships  12 months ago

Steer clear then. If you go out with them, you're doing it for their benefit, not yours.

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