This Guy Definitely Can't Handle Rejection!!!

This is the main reason why I don't always welcome friendliness. I mean, it's obvious, when a guy is very friendly with you, he must want something, unless he treats everyone else the same way he treats me.

It actually is also the fault of the girl, perhaps she has done something to let the guy assume that she likes him as well. Anyone would feel in their gut that someone is making a move, and she should have avoided that beforehand.

As for the guy, it's the dumbest thing to do when you're rejected because it only means that you have no more chances whatsoever in the future of wooing her. You see, if you really like someone, even if they reject you (politely) it may be because they're eyeing someone else or isn't still sure about something, perhaps over time she would feel something for you, but for now, it's still a no. When he did that (calling names and being mean) he just diminished any future with them. Plus it shows bad character.

I did actually experience some sort of this before. There was a guy who wanted to court me, I told him instantly (before he even started being too friendly) that I only see him as a friend. Even so, he pursued, I never received any gifts, nor did I ever let him feel that there's a future with us. I repeatedly rejected him politely, but soon he became mean and even told me that I like him but I just want to challenge him! I was really angry at that point and told him that he's not my type! I know I hurt him that way, but he just couldn't get it. He still went on and on for a while, until I got a boyfriend. That time, he even told me to my face that he'd only leave me alone if he saw me married or pregnant! So weird, eventually I think he was afraid of my boyfriend(or perhaps he was threatened by my boyfriend) that's why he kept his distance.

There really are times when men too should understand that a NO means NO.

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I have to say that, that is pretty dumb I don't know why a guy would be mean to a girl just because she turn him down. And yes your right he's not going to get the girl by making her life miserable, he should just move on and find another girl. I think if he keeps acting like this he wont be able to get another girl because girls talk and they tell each other every thing so you think that girl will tell all her girl friends that, that guy is crazy and he can't take being reject. Then when he try's to ask one of them out they will turn him down also then he'll be mad about that to. I think he should just get over it so what she turn you down if he acts right he'll find another one and be happy.

yes your are right, there is nothing to worry if the girl turned him down we as you said there are many girls he could see for instead of wasting time behind that girl

Some guys cant take rejection. I was polite to this one guy who was asking questions about my church so I gave him my # cause he wanted to come and said he wanted it in case he got lost. Then I made up every excuse I could think of to get away from him. He has been calling me twice a day for the past 3 weeks! and he knows I have a boyfriend. It's getting hard. Some guys just dont get a clue.