Valentines Day  

I'm finding it difficult to be married! I think that after all it is said and done, only get married if you really really really (3 times) know and not just think that you want to be with the person the rest of your life. If you are just wanting to be married for the "romance" I have found that once the ring is on the finger, romance goes out the window and I am left with picking up the socks, washing the dishes, and cooking the food. He shops for the food. sometimes. If I were able to go back in time, I wouldn't have gotten married at all.

Its difficult to be married, to be single or any other combo because its situation, choice and connection/chemistry. Its usually lonely at the top but also lonely to be lonely. Its never a winning moment it seems like when your alone but it should make your wanting a relationship and learning about flaws and breakups plus how to's and don'ts that more acute. i say that because if you learn the code or rules of the game then you know how to do it and compromise would be easy. i didn't even think too much about being alone this time around because i was watching all star weekened online. but when i saw this i had to say something because my situation calls for it.

Valentines Day was jsut another day for me, I had it off from work but I did not do much except stay at home and watch tv. but at the same time it has been depressing for me since I do not have that certain someone in my life yet. I am still looking.