Reading to your children

United States
February 19, 2009 4:50pm CST
Reading is essentially the most important give a parent can give their children. It is a skill that they will use for the rest of their lives, and a skill that almost all other skills branch from. It can be overwhelming though for a parent to know where to begin, how early to begin, and what to select. To begin, I suggest you start reading to them before they are born, but if you did not, just start today. Take at least 15 minutes out of your schedule each day to read to your child. Yes, you do want your child to read to you, but your job as reader does not stop the moment they learn to read. They still need to hear correct reading skills, and this they can learn from you, the parent. I also suggest keeping one main bookshelf for their books but also investing in a canvas based organizer. You'll find them at most local stores. They have three canvas slots at the top and underneath are storage bins. Move about three to five stories out to the slots each week and spend your week reading and re-reading those stories. If you have never bought a book for your child before you can start with the well known Newberry Award winner books or Caldecott award books. You'll find that most of the sales people in the children's section are very knowledgable, as well as your local librarian. They can help you choose books that are appropriate for your child's development, as well as interest level. And do not be afraid of comics or graphic novels. These are very legitimate pieces of literature and can engage almost any reader. I started reading to all of my children the moment I found out I was pregnant with them, and that continued after they were born. I make books my gifts, or at least one of them, and we make frequent visits to the bookstore and library. I'd like to see this discussion focus on the teaching of reading as well as literature recommendations and welcome all thoughts on the subject. Hopefully, the result will be something that people searching in this area will be able to use with their children. Namaste-Anora
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@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
20 Feb 09
I always wished my parents read more for me when I was younger and due to that, I never really read much until a few years ago. But the thing about my mom is that she is a puppeteer and she's told stories in that sense and way. I've reread a lot of children's books now and I find them more helpful to me more than ever.
• United States
20 Feb 09
Oh, what a wonderful childhood memory. Did she do her puppeteering as a career or was it more of a hobby? I think that there are multiple ways to tell a story but I also do feel there is value in learning to read the written word as well. Of course, this is from my own culture. I realize that there are cultures that are still oral, but I don't think we'd find many of them here on Mylot. Thank you again for sharing. Namaste-Anora
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@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
20 Feb 09
My mom still does it and I help her out sometimes... I plan to take over one day, and she does it as a hobby. I think it's important to learn through written words too, especially nowadays.
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• United States
20 Feb 09
That is fascinating. I wish you much luck with that. Many blessings-Anora
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@neha2k94u (406)
• India
20 Feb 09
Well It would have been great if mother read me some stories... She used to tell me scary stories...That made me afraid about all that things like Ghosts,monsters... I think that stories should be good only...
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• United States
20 Feb 09
Oh? What sorts of stories do you recall? I recall being in third grade and reading Dracula, Alfred Hitchcock tales, and Edgar Alan Poe. I still adore Poe to this day. Thanks for sharing. Anora
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@zweeb82 (5652)
• Malaysia
20 Feb 09
My mum started to cultivate the habit of reading in me when I was 3. I could still remember to 1st book she taught me how to read was The 3 Billy Goats Gruff? Then after that it was Rapunzel, then I can't remember already? HaahahaDo agree with you that reading is indeed a very important skill
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@zweeb82 (5652)
• Malaysia
20 Feb 09
Yeah, I loved the 3 Billy Goats Gruff, especially when the troll was sent flying, hahaStil love those old Ladybird books with the water colour painting - classic!~ Yeah, I can understand about the Little Match Girl as it had kind of a sad ending. You must have given your dad a hard time back then? Haha
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• United States
20 Feb 09
A little bit lol. He would read me histories as well, which I recall really enjoying.
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• United States
20 Feb 09
I love reading the Three Billy Goats Gruff. My kids giggle when I do the voices in different tones and mannerisms lol. And I have so much fun reading it. My favorite fairy tale growing up was Beauty and the Beast, but I do remember the first time my father read to me The Little Matchgirl and I cried for hours afterward, talk about giving him a complex!
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@deejean06 (1952)
• United States
20 Feb 09
We read to my son every day before bed. Since he's only 8 months we have a limited attention span but we can get two board books in before sleep. My parents suggested flash cards so we also got alphabet cards for him and try to do those each day. I sing to him each morning while we're driving to work also. We know it's important but don't know how much he can handle right now. As he gets older, we have a whole bookshelf dedicated to his reading enjoyment!
• United States
20 Feb 09
That is awesome!!! We started teach our oldest son sign, as his father has a hearing loss, when he was 9 months and he's done very well. He's now 2 1/2. Ours does not have a long attention span either. We read a great many Beranstain bears books, and Arthur, and Curious George. Thank you for responding. Anora
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