How do you deal with children who keep asking why?  |
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Have you ever dealt with children who love to ask why? So much so it really leaves you with no answers and you get irritated.
Like for example: "Why is the sky blue?" "Because of the light reflecting on the earth which give the sky a natural blue hue" "Why does the light reflect on earth?" "Because the sun shines on it" "Why is does the sun shine?" "Because the sun is a bright start that like a fire in the sky" "Why is the sun like a fire?" "Because of the gases that it is made up of" "Why is there gases in the sun?" "Because there are gases..." "Why?" "Because that is the way the sun is" "Why?" "I don't know already" "Why?" "I never studied it before" "Why?" "Arggghhhh~~~!"
The never ending barrage of whys can really drive you nuts some times. And when you look at them, they some times do it just to irk you cos they ran out of questions to ask. So asking why seems to be the only way to keep you offering more information to them. Whether they understand them or not is another matter altogether.
So, parents out there, how do you deal with an inquisitive child that refuses to stop asking why?
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ahgong (3741) | 9 months ago | Yeah, they can be a handful sometimes. But they are a joy to be with. Especially when they are in a good mood and are inquisitive. Problems comes when they go into the why-why-why mode. What do you do when you run out of answers to their whys?
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2. JenInTN (3441) | 9 months ago | I just answer them. It's how they learn. Not only learn what they are asking but the reactions to the ones they question. They learn patience and tolerance by your reactions to them.It's a stage most children go through at a certain age and they are registering everything. I like talking to kids..they are funny and cute. I appreciate their innocence.
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3. 34momma (4777) | 9 months ago | LOL LOL! as a mother of three i so so so understand this whole stage in a childs life. all of my children did the whole why why why thing. my 4 year old little girl is there now. and everything is why why why!! what i do is just try and be as honest as I can. I give her answers that a 4 year old can understand. I don't give answers to shut her up. and if she keeps asking why i will continue to answer her until i really just don't know....
yeah it can be a bit much sometimes, but i rather her ask me questions the questions then trying to figure things out on her own or ask other children. because trust me if you don't answer them, that is what they do. they will feel like they can't come to you. i am so blessed that my two older boys always come to me. no matter what the subject is. they know i am going to be honest with them and not judge nor lie
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ahgong (3741) | 9 months ago | I too try to answer as many of those questions as I can. It is when I ran out of answers, that is where I got stuck at getting out of the why-why-why session.
So how do you get out of these why-why-why sessions at the point where you ran out of answers?
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34momma (4777) | 9 months ago | by just being totally honest and saying i really don't know honey, but if i find out i will be sure to give you the answer. nice and simple and right to the point, and most of all honest
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4. zandi458 (5701) | 9 months ago | Kids are naturally inquisitive and as a parent it is our duty to satisfy their curiosities. It is only when a child doesn't ask and keeps to himself all the time that we become worried. A curious child shows his intelligence and alertness. It is time where parents need to focus on what kind of things they normally ask as this will determine his interest and career in life. When my son was about 5 years old he normally ask questions more to science and nature like 'why does the moon follows us everywhere we go? Can we inject a dead person and bring him back to life? Why is 1 + 1 equals to two? These are some of the questions that brought me to think that he is more to science and from there I encouraged his interest and bought more books related to his interest. I was not wrong. He pursued his interest and career in science related field as he is now a geo-phycist. While another son who when he was a little boy always counting coins and putting them in piggy banks. He is now a banker. We as parents have to nurture their curiosities and give encouragement where we can. We are their best teacher in life.
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5. janisvg18 (104) | 9 months ago | i've experienced that form a friend's daughter. at first it's cute and funny. then as i spent more time with her, she asked more question... it got more irritating. i really want to shut her up... but i can't! i'm a guest! i was making this fake smile... hahaha! i think i have no patience in that area. hihihi
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| 6. wenwenwang (89) | 9 months ago | I have no patience to answer so much why to children. When I was a child, I would like to look for answer by myself but not ask parents or teachers.
I will be crazy if children ask me so much questions. I think I never try a job regarding children.
Fortunately, my boyfriend have a lot of patience and he would take the burden to answer our baby's ten thousands of why questions, I think. Wow!
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8. bodysmurf (232) | 9 months ago | Just remember that we were kids once also and curious. Be grateful that this children's minds have developed NORMALLY that they are not autistic or retarded or slow in any way. Make a game out of it and find your own inner child and explore the wonders of life through the eyes of these children. It's not that serious, babe.
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9. chookie1971 (1436) | 9 months ago | That is so annoying. I didn't get that from one of my kids but I did get it from the second kid.
She is still annoying but at least it is not the why questions so much. Even though she still asks them. These are the questions that constantly annoy me and she is 9. What's for dinner? what time is it? can I have a look? can I go to the shop with you? Can I come? Can I have icecream? can I have lollies? can I have a soft drink? Can I this and that.
The what questions and the can I questions. And she asks so many questions all day. I don't know who to deal with it any other way except for don't ask questions that does not concern you.
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