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myLot reputation of 90/100. hershiez (350)   ranked 3,903 out of 23,111 in relationships10 months ago

Hello there mylotters!^_^

Does apologizing always mean you are wrong and the other is right? Well, for me, it's not! Because me and my boyfriend always argue some stupid things before. During those times, I always say sorry to him. But, it doesn't mean it was always my fault. I just value our relationship so much than my personal ego. Still have one question..Why is it so hard for some guys to say sorry?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. cortypants (325)   ranked 687 out of 23,111 in relationships   10 months ago

I will apologize for hurting someone, or for something I did, but I think saying you are sorry and admitting you were wrong are two different things. I can say I am sorry I yelled without being sorry for what I yelled about. LOL. I think the reason some people have trouble admitting they are sorry is exactly what you said: ego. Some people feel that if they aren't right 100% of the time, they aren't as powerful or maybe aren't as good as someone else. It's almost as though admitting you are sorry is giving someone else power over you? Which I don't think is the case, but everyone is different, that's what makes the world go around!<3

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. maezee (4139)   ranked 2,208 out of 23,111 in relationships   10 months ago

Sometimes I apologize just to signify that that argument is over, and I don't want to have to deal with it anymore.

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3. myLot reputation of 89/100. Margajoe (2140)   ranked 772 out of 23,111 in relationships   10 months ago

Sounds to me like you are putting yourself down.
If that is your picture, wow, your are beautiful!
He knows it.

Sure you love him. But, don't let him boss you around.
Don't say sorry when you don't need too.

Why it is so hard for "most" guys to say they are sorry?
That is easy, that think that is not manly. w00t
Men think men are suppose to always be right.

I have noticed through the years, the women who are disrespectful to there man, are the ones who get the most respect.
I have not figured this out yet. lol! But look around you, I am sure you will notice what I mean.
Seems the nicer you are, the worse they (men) get.
I myself am trying to understand this. lol

I don't think we women or men will ever totally understand each other.
That is just the way it is.

Take care.

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. crimsonladybug (1897)   ranked 3,867 out of 23,111 in relationships   10 months ago

I prefer that people show me they are sorry rather than tell me. Anyone can say "sorry" and not mean it. It takes considerably more effort to show someone you are sorry if you don't really mean it.... if you are just pacifying them.

And sometimes "I'm sorry," when you really have done something wrong, is the hardest thing in the world to admit so by showing it you don't ever have to actually say the words.

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