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myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life10 months ago

What are some of the things that you have dreamed about achieving in your lifetime? How many of them have you ever realized?

Recently, I have had one of my dreams come true! Ever since I was a kid, I wanted to host my own radio show - to be an on-air radio personality. I have always been interested in performing arts. I have worked in several different theaters, both professional and community. I have worked with several celebrities in various capacities - from security to follow spot operator to road crew.

One of my long-time dreams, though, has finally been realized in a way that I never expected.

I am now hosting an internet radio show every Tuesday night at 10 PM eastern time! Last Tuesday, March 3rd was my first official broadcast! I have a very eclectic musical taste, so I haven't settled upon a set format for the show. I will likely try out a variety of formats until I find one that I prefer. Hopefully, it will go well enough that I can move into a second time slot and actually run two different formats on a regular basis. I would love to have my myLot friends tune in to my show! You can hear the broadcast at http://www.ravenzradio.com. . While my show is family friendly, you need to be aware that not all of the other shows hosted on Ravenz Radio are suitable for all audiences.

So, what dreams do you have for your life?

"Sleeping without dreaming is peaceful. Living without dreaming is dreary."

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 75/100. sciantel (432)   ranked 4,610 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

When I was little I began to like to write stories. I was good at it. 13 years ago I started a Christian Ministry and published my books myself under my Ministry logo. I am a non-profit organization. But I love the Lord and He sees to it I have plunty of money so that is not the issue. Reaching the right people for Christ is. See my website at:
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myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

That is so awesome! Thank you for sharing your story (and stories!) with us. It is so encouraging to hear about people that have realized their dreams. We are all given gifts. Some of us never realize our potential while some do but are afraid to act on them. When we embrace our gifts and put them to positive use, we can do amazing things!

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. AnythngArt (1691)   ranked 2,283 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

Although I have many more dreams to conquer, I have achieved two of my dreams. The first was to live abroad. I did that and still have to pinch myself to this day to think what a stroke of serendipity that was. I lived and worked in London for two years, and I loved every minute of it.

The second dream was to see the Acropolis in Greece. It took me a lot longer to do this one. I had initially planned to go there on my honeymoon, but then ended up breaking up with my boyfriend, so we never went. I finally got there on my own 20 years later...and I couldn't help wondering if he ever made it? It was a spectacular experience...just to think of how something so old has managed to exist through time. I also loved Athens and would go visit Greece again in a heartbeat.

I feel like I have had a lucky life in some ways...these two things really made it worth living.
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myLot reputation of 99/100. AnythngArt (1691)   ranked 2,283 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Oh, and I completely forgot to say, "CONGRATS" to you on your radio show. That's awesome.
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myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Thanks for sharing that! I am not much of a world traveler, but one of the places that I would love to visit is Greece. That must have been a wonderful experience for you! I really love the rich literary history of Greece - Homer's The Iliad and The Odyssey are two of my favorites.

Great stuff! Congrats on two realized dreams!

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3. Imsocool (12)   10 months ago

That is great that you have your own radio show! I have alot of dreams and they are slowly coming alive. My biggest one is to be an actress, I know thats what most people want but I set goals and dreams and make them happen when its the right time. I have been trying to move to California for several years and never got the courage and support that I needed to get there so I never did it. Then one day I said to myself its time. I have a wonderful job transfer me it took several try's but they made my dream come true. I'm here now been thru a few ruff patch but I bet its that way for everyone. Was it hard to get your radio station on aboard?


myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

That is great that you are on track to realize your dream! I would love to get back to work in the theatre, but my disability makes it really difficult right now. I hope that I can reach a point, physically, that I can return to doing what I love. I know that there are performers that are disabled, but with theatre it is as much of a 'right place, right time' as it is an ability issue. I hope that you can achieve your goal!

The radio station isn't mine, I just applied to be a DJ on an existing site. It tool about a month from application to approval for me to get up and live on the air. I saw an ad online looking for internet DJs, so I figured that I would apply.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. elitess (2666)   ranked 1,601 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

Hello Thor Grym. I have always wanted to visit other countries ever since i was a child, and last year (before i turned 21 years old) i visited Greece as a summer vacation with my girlfriend (passing through Bulgaria), so that was one of my long time dreams come true. This year we are going to London... so i am keeping the dream come true alive- it was not just a once in a lifetime accomplishment.


myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

That's great! I have recently realized the ease of travel with a little bit of planning. I don't have a huge desire to travel abroad, but it is nice to take a little vacation every once in a while. Thanks to some online rewards programs, I have been able to accumulate some 'frequent flier miles' without actually traveling. With these rewards programs, I saved up enough points to spend a night in New York City (or several nights in a less costly place!) without having to pay for a hotel room! Now that I am enrolled in these rewards programs, it makes traveling on a shoestring budget a whole lot easier and appealing!

One place that I would like to visit, though, is Greece. I don't really have a desire to go to France, but I would like to visit the Paris Opera House due to the book/movie/play 'The Phantom of the Opera.' Other than that, I am pretty content to visit places here in the United States.

I hope your trip to London is a great one!

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. sweetyethot (1066)   ranked 590 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

Congrats!How's that feeling?Realize a long_time dream for your life?Thats great!thumbupthumbupI hope I could one day stand on the stage to be in a drama or whatever.lol I love art!I wanna be in a show.


myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

It is definitely a great feeling to realize a dream!

I would suggest that you check in your area for community theatre groups. There is probably a lot more going on in your area than you are aware of. For instance, we have a couple of theatre groups within a 20 mile radius. A few years ago, a friend of mine called me out of the blue and asked me if I would like to be in a production of 1776. They were having a hard time finding enough guys to fill all of the roles. Of course I said YES! One of the girls that was in the play is now living and working in New York City.

My point is that community theatre might not be your ultimate goal when you say that you want to be on stage, but it can certainly be a stepping stone to the venue of your dreams.

Go for it!

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. hotsummer (2756)   ranked 17 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

i have not realized my dream. and sometimes i wonder if i have a dream in life. cause i had so much dreams before i had in my life but does not seem to hold importance to me now. as i get older i get to realized what things that matter in life. and think that i dream more to live a life that is live towards things that are essential in life.

but still i do dream to have a comfortable life but if in case i won't reach that dream i will not going to be bitter in life. but there are some few things that i wanted to have in life though it is a dream i really love to have soon but i don't think it will qualify for most people as a dream but for that is the most important dream for.


myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

I don't think that you are ever too old to have a dream for your life. Sure, as we age, those things might change. As to my radio show dream, it is really nothing terribly life-altering but it is something that I always wanted to do. If I had not achieved it, I would not have any regrets. I think that is the difference between a dream and a desire - the feeling of regret or lack thereof.

For instance, I love to follow football - American football, not what Americans call soccer. I went to a really small high school that didn't have an organized football team so other than playing football with my friends I never really had the opportunity to play. When I went to college, I had the chance to play for my college football team. I played for a while, but developed tendinitis in my shoulders so I was unable to continue with the sport. I had the desire to play football, I got the chance, it didn't work out. I have no regrets. I think, though, that if I sat here in my recliner watching football on TV and hadn't had the chance to play myself, I would always have regretted that. It was never my dream to play professional football as I never felt that was in my grasp in the first place.

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7. myLot reputation of 77/100. Strongheart (1079)   ranked 827 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

Congratulations! I too have recently realized a dream I had since I was a kid. I finally published my first book! Now that it is out there, I am working to make ready a couple others which were long written but needed editing and they too will soon be published! You can see the book on my profile here at mylot and there is a link to read the first chapter for free!

http://www.mylot.com/strongheart


myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

That's great! We have something in common. I also recently published my first book - and I used lulu.com as well! Writing a book has also been a dream of mine, though not as long held as doing a radio show. Also, my book was not what I originally had in mind when I first envisioned writing one.

I wish you well on book sales! Lulu.com is running a sales competition for the month of March. Perhaps you will win!

I checked your profile to see about your book. I would recommend changing the font color or the background color where you promote the book. The text is very hard to read and if I wasn't there for the purpose of looking into the book I probably would not have made the effort.

The book looks great, though! Congrats!


myLot reputation of 77/100. Strongheart (1079)   ranked 827 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Your observations are much appreciated. I'm not too concerned about the contest as I am waiting for my ISBN numbers but yeah it would be great! LOL I made a small adjustment to the display as you reccomended, removed the bold from the text and made it white instead of off white. I hadn't noticed it hard to read but if someone else does and says so, how many simply didn't bother?

Lulu was my way of getting around the old catch 22 - publishers want you to have an agent and agents want to work with published authors. Once I have my ISBN's and am listed in bookstore lists I intend to begin a serious marketing campaign. For now, I am basking in the feeling of accomplishment as I'm sure you are!


myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Oops...now you have white text on a white background. I need to highlight the text to read it at all.


myLot reputation of 77/100. Strongheart (1079)   ranked 827 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

I think you have just helped me to realize something! On my puter and all I log into with Internet Explorer, the page is a black background with white text, blue read more button and orange Lulu logo.

Are you using firefox or another browser?

This could be why you are seeing this as white and I need to find a format which will be seen by all browsers!

The black background of my profile is really necessary to the way it intended to be viewed! I hate to think folks haven't been seeing it like the picture I added!

 

myLot reputation of 77/100. Strongheart (1079)   ranked 827 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

I ran a topic to get more input and found that firefox displays white on some folks computers. So I changed the text to bright blue so it will show up for everyone! Thanks for your input on this!

Now I wonder though, since it shows up black on some folks browsers that are using firefox, but white on others, what is the problem with firefox that it is not translating the html correctly for some.

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8. myLot reputation of 79/100. catilda (659)   ranked 6,043 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

Hey I must first say congratulations for your achievement. I hope that this is the start of a wonderful career for you if you really want. Well My dream was to be an executive. I have been living this dream for a long time now. The first time I had that dream was oneday when my dad brought home a book from a yard he use to work at. He told me stories of how the girl who the book belongs to was now attending the Local Unversity. He was so proud, the way he spoke of her and the beam in his eyes i could not forget. So then and there I knew what it takes to put that beam into my dad's eyes. And of course I did.


myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

It is certainly a wonderful thing to be able to make your parents proud of you! Congrats on that! I love the story that you provided for the source of your dream.

I am not sure that the radio thing will be more than a hobby, though if I could make a career out of it, that would be a great thing.

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9. myLot reputation of 73/100. CremeAndSugar (449)   ranked 6,256 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

Oh yes. I have two happy healthy, accomplished, well adjusted and compassionate grown children. That's the dream of any parent and it's been attained. Anything else is just icing on the cake.


myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Agreed! Though my children are not yet grown up (12 and 9), it is certainly a dream for them to grow healthy and well-adjusted. Congrats on your accomplishment. It seems that it is getting harder to attain the 'well-adjusted' portion of that dream for many parents.

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10. myLot reputation of 90/100. kiran8 (1140)   ranked 347 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

Hi thorgrym, It is great that you were able to fulfill one of your dreams, i am sure the others too would be fulfilled in time..Congratulations..
My dreams are simple and down to earth, so some of them do get fulfilled. I probably need to dream big once in a while, just to make it a little more exciting. rolleyes


myLot reputation of 94/100. beachstarz (894)   ranked 3,585 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

I just wanted to say Congrats to you!! I'm very excited for you man!
I don't seem to have dreams anymore, well not big ones anyway .
Maybe it's because I'm very content with my life as it is .
I have little goals, like getting a project done. Getting my garden looking nice, finishng an art project . No long term, or big goals, just little things .


myLot reputation of 92/100. thorgrym (307)   ranked 1,564 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

kiran,
Dreaming can certainly add to your life. Dreaming too big, though, can be frustrating if you never achieve those goals. I don't think that any dream is too small, though.

beachstarz,
As said above, I don't think that there is any dream too small. We need to take joy in all the 'little' things that we accomplish everyday and tend to take for granted! I wrote an article about just appreciating the sunset every day. Nothing wrong with contentment as long as we don't let it slip into complacency.

Thanks for the responses!


myLot reputation of 90/100. kiran8 (1140)   ranked 347 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Well said and very true. I feel that most of the times happiness comes from small things...and nothing is unimportant, but one has to have motivation, some goal and work towards achieving it happy

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