Are you one of them? Qualities That 5000 Women Dislike Most in Husbands

China
April 3, 2009 3:21am CST
1. Messy 2. Insensitive sexually 3.Dogmatic 4. Overworked 5.Sulking/ The "quiet treatment" 6. Macho attitudes, 7. Stubborn 8. Self-centered 9. Uncooperative 10.Dresses poorly Personally, i don't like self-centerred the most. What about you?
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• United States
16 Apr 09
#5! My hubby is a great guy, but when he is upset with me he gives me the silent treatment and I HATE IT! I'll just keep annoying him until he can't take it any more and yells and screams, because I HATE to be ignored more than anything else in the world. Thank GOD it doesn't happen often (because I'm so wonderful LOL).
• China
17 Apr 09
I hate silent treament too! It's like you don't know what the he*l he is thinking of, you don't know what have you done wrong, unless he talk, you will never know what is going on. Sometimes you will find out, there are just some small issues but because of the slient, the small problems because big issue. I think i sometimes do that to my boyfriends, when i was angry on him, i don't talk to him and i just ignore his existence. I realize that's not the right thing to do now.
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@iridium (431)
5 Apr 09
i'm pretty much all of those but then i'm female!
• China
7 Apr 09
haha,,,I never thought about that man should always carry those with them. Thanks for your post.
@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
With the top ten that you've written, there actually isn't any that I don't like in my fiance. Haha. Can I say it's the other way around??? He's not messy but a neat freak. I swear! and we're the exact same opposite! teehee! I guess the only thing that ticks me off sometimes would be his stubborness but it's not really a biggie.
• China
3 Apr 09
Sweet! You are a postive person, i like that.
@kedves (728)
17 Apr 09
1. Messy - NO 2. Insensitive sexually - NO 3.Dogmatic - NO 4. Overworked - Sometimes 5.Sulking/ The "quiet treatment" - Sometimes (i don't like to shout or scream) 6. Macho attitudes, - NO not in general but will puff out my chest to protect ones i love when needed. 7. Stubborn - Yes I can be sometimes 8. Self-centered - NO 9. Uncooperative - NO 10.Dresses poorly - Don't know thats for others to decide. I am sure there are worse traits women dislike than those :) how about honesty? Trust ? Faithfulness? Respect ? I'm sure they should rank in top if men do not have them.
• India
5 Apr 09
If any man dont have these qualities then he was not a man anymore and is you think you can love woman. These are qualities of man you have to love man not there qualities.
• China
7 Apr 09
ummmm, i guess you have some point there.
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
3 Apr 09
i don't like self-centered and Uncooperatvive the most,don't like sulking too.i needd more kindly communication from each other in life.
• China
3 Apr 09
Hi Cindy, i am with you!