would u marry someone with a stained past/flirt??
@walnutbrownie (745)
India
April 6, 2009 4:45am CST
would u marry someone who has a colourful past of having strings of affairs and uncountable one night stands and professes that he has left those habits but still has a lot of affinity towards women.Can u trust him? Do u think its worth the risk.Apart from his past and present flirtaous nature everything about him is cool and perfect.What is your say here.
Would u still go for him/?
3 responses
@grandpa_lash (5225)
• Australia
6 Apr 09
Oh how cute! "Stained". I feel suitably put in my place. Of course having a history of love affairs means I can't be trusted. Obviously I couldn't have enticed all those women into my bed without lying, and of course I probably cheated on them, and of course I can't be trusted to be telling the truth when I say I love you.
You go girl!
Lash
@walnutbrownie (745)
• India
6 Apr 09
hey grandpa..so tell me honestly can u be trusted and do u think u can mend ur ways?
Please an honest answer
@PinkyPosh (226)
• Canada
6 Apr 09
This is pretty difficult situation to face with.
Again it is with which depth I have moved with and at what stage I found out.
If I had made him as my partner and then came to know about him... Then I would definitely not leave him. Will try my best to change him. One good thing is u have told that he has left those habits.( a hope)
If I have not committed much and have come to know about him, I will try yo make sure If he could be changed and then decide after my hard efforts.
@walnutbrownie (745)
• India
6 Apr 09
This is a difficullt situation.He says he has changed but i dont know if its ok to trust him considering the amount of phoen calls he makes to differnt gals which has reduced over the weeks and one positive delveopment is he says..give me some time cos i cant change overnight but i am making an effort...pls comment
@venchaul (541)
• China
6 Apr 09
I think "what has gone has gone", so we can put the past aside and look forward to the future. However it depends on the man's attitude to the moment and the future! After all we married one who can company with us for life not several days or one year or something else.I will choose my match on the standard of honest,trusting, and capable.
