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myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 8 out of 362 in health 3 years ago

My daughter in law had a lump taken out of her breast as some of you know. The doctor found a lot of infection that he also took out. He sent the lump off to be tested and she has cancer. Since she is only 27 years old I feel so bad for her. They have 2 young children. I'm so glad that she does self exams. She caught this early. He doctor took her in early and took this all out.
I can't stress enough that ladies must learn to do self exams on their breast. They have done some more blood work and will decide if she needs chemo or other some other type of treatment for this cancer.
I on the other hand have several things going on and have been in the hospital. I had no one to be at home with my babies and had to make them let me come home they wrote me orders for my doctor to do testing out of the hospital. They did 4 ekg's while I was there and 3 blood work things for heart something I forget what they called it. My blood pressure went from being extremely high to extremely low and extremely low pulse rate. hey never told me what was up or for what reason anything was going on.
I have to do the tread mill thing. And other test. I have to have oxygen at home and other breathing treatments during the day. A nebulizer. They hit me with so much stuff to take in. I don't know if that was all of it or not. But as you can see that's why I have not been here. I was not well for days before I went to the hospitla just trying to handle it myself.
So forgive me everyone for not being here to answer everyones discussions or emails. I have been in bed for a week or longer. Which is where I am off to now.
Thank you all for your patience with me.
Prayers for my daughter in law would be greatly appreciated. also for me please...thank you all so much.
To make this a discussion...has anyone else been feeling not so chipper lately? has anyone been feeling really well lately? I like it when I feel well...lol

Thank you for all responses.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. psyche49f (2204)   ranked 87 out of 362 in health   3 years ago

That's a great challenge for you...here's praying that everything will return back to normal, and that you will be comforted through the support of family and friends. I know how it feels to be sick and have someone in the family who is sick. But after the storm will be a peaceful and calm life for you and your family...here's wishing and praying for the best for you...


myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 8 out of 362 in health  3 years ago

You are right and I worry more about the family than myself. Thank you so much for everything. You are so sweet.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. cher913 (21920)   ranked 45 out of 362 in health   3 years ago

i have had an abcess cut out of my side. it started a week and a half ago and i got it drained then and have been having to go back to the hospital every other day to get the packing changed. its not a big deal, more of a pain than anything.


myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 8 out of 362 in health  3 years ago

Oh my goodness that sounds so painful. I'm sorry to hear that this has happened to you. I hope it's well soon ans you will no longer have to deal with it.

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. agrim94 (1769)   3 years ago

I am really really sorry for what was diagnosed for your daughter in law and it is never easy on family when a disease of such a big magnitude is there and i hope she gets treated. It is nice she examined herself and found it early and she needs all ur support and everything and i wish her and you and all your family all the best.


myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 8 out of 362 in health  3 years ago

Thank you agrim for your continued support in everything that I tell you all about. I know I don't write much but you respond to everything I write about and I thank you.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. Grandmaof2 (4590)   ranked 2 out of 362 in health   3 years ago

I have been wondering and now I am sadly surprised to hear it's cancer, I am so sorry to hear of this. Knowing my tumor was so large and I was young as well I guess I either thought or had hope it would be like mine was, mine was not cancer.
You need to really take care of yourself as well. Seems when it starts it has no ending. I will continue to pray for you folks and Please take good care of yourself.


myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 8 out of 362 in health  3 years ago

I'm sorry to keep you wondering and waiting. I hate it but I just found out as she did too. She also didn't want to bother me as I was in the hospital myself. When I called her to tell her I was home she told me that when I was there she got her results. I guess when it rains it pours, lol. We will get through it with the help of each other and family and friends. Having you all to talk to and family helps me tremendously. I'm not able to be up for long periods of time right now. But when I'm able to get up I come to my computer to write to you all and my mama. It's been cold and snowing here since I got home from the hospital I hope it stops soon so I can get out and go to the doctor. I may have to go in the snow we will see. I have to go before the weekend. Thank you for thinking of us and your prayers.

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5. myLot reputation of 73/100. mcelhenney (391)   ranked 217 out of 362 in health   3 years ago

I am sorry that you are not feeling good.I hope you have been to your doctor.I pray for you often. I pray for your daughter-in law also. As you know I never feel chipper anymore.I don't think I can remember what it feels like to feel well anymore.(LOL). Look in your shoppers guide or whatever it is called where you live.You might find an oxygen concentrator for sale in it. Sometimes they have one for sale in mine.There was one in it not long ago but someone beat me to it.If you could find one I have the tubing and the nose piece I could send you some and tell you what setting to put it on. Take care,I hope you will be feeling better real soon.


myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 8 out of 362 in health  3 years ago

Thank you so much for the advice and the offer for the hose and the advice. This is all new to me and I am rather lost about it all. Thank you so much. I'm sorry that you don't have any good days. I do know what you mean though it's been that way for me a long time now. I just haven't told my family as I didn't think they would understand and they cant do anything so why worry them? right... You take care as much as you can and we will talk here as much as we can and in email too as much as we can. It's so hard when we are not able to do anything or go anywhere. That's why our computers are so important for us. I love you and many blessings to you.

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. patriciaqualls (4590)   3 years ago

I am so sorry to hear about you and your daughter in law. You are both in my prayers.
I hope that you both will get well soon. I know it isn't fun being sick.
Try to stay positive through all of this I know it's easier said than done.
But your health is very important. Stay strong for your family.
May God bless you all.


myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 8 out of 362 in health  3 years ago

Thank you my dear. I am always trying to be strong for everyone. I never want them to know just how badly I feel or how much I hurt. I smile when I hurt so much. I figure it helps me to feel better no matter what. And it makes them feel better because they don't have to suffer with me. Thank you .

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7. myLot reputation of 74/100. Dorrdavy (168)   ranked 304 out of 362 in health   3 years ago

i am so sorry to here that, i will be praying.
all the best ok.


myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 8 out of 362 in health  3 years ago

Thank you so much more prayers can always help at anytime. I appreciate them.

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8. myLot reputation of 62/100. AngryKittyMSV (1913)   3 years ago

My problems pale in comparison to what you and your family have to deal with right now. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you are feeling better soon and I hope your daughter-in-law gets exactly the right treatment and makes a quick and full recovery. God Bless.


myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 8 out of 362 in health  3 years ago

DEAR PROBLEMS ARE PROBLEMS NO MATTER THE SIZE. i HOPE YOU GET THEM FIXED WHATEVER THEY ARE. i WILL PRAY FOR YOU Sorry for the caps. I will pray for you and your family. Take care you are in my thoughts and my prayers. God bless you dear.

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9. myLot reputation of 62/100. Anora_Eldorath (3661)   3 years ago

Moon-

I'm afraid I've been on for only a bit of time myself, and am sorry to hear about your hospital stay. I hope htat things begin to improve for you and that they can treat whatever is going on. My prayers for your daughter-in-law as she recovers as well. It is a difficult thing to go through at any age. And yes, those early self-exams are something every woman should be doing.

I do not wish to take from your thread, but suffice to say I did a two day hospital stay myself last week (just to answer your thread question lol), and have not ben myself since then. I'm getting better with the medications, but there are days I just get so frustrated with it. My recent martial arts workout was curtailed because the dizzy spells kept interfering, though I did most of it done. My hopes are that it will disappear in 4 weeks as promised by doctors.

Namaste-Anora


myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 8 out of 362 in health  3 years ago

I'm so sorry to hear that you are having dizzy spells I know how those are as I have them myself. I hope the doctors are right and they go away. If they don't then go back to them and tell them. Don't put it off, go back and tell them they didn't go away as they said they would. Put it back on them to check you out and find out what is wrong. They should not slough this off. If they don't help you then find a doctor that will, you may need a neurologist or an eye nose and throat doctor or internist. I'd go in that order. I wish you good luck in finding the cause of your problem. They should have let you know what was causing your dizziness instead of saying it will go away in a few weeks or so. hey shouldn't shurk their duties.
You need to know what is causing your dizziness while it is happening. They need to get to the root of the problem to know if it needs to be treated.
Best of luck to you.

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (12221)   ranked 229 out of 362 in health   3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (4017)   ranked 8 out of 362 in health  3 years ago

Oh, pye I'm so sorry to hear about your problems. I hope you never have this problem or another one there again. She had massive infection but the doctor said he made sure that he cut it all out and put her on antibiotics in IV and pills when leaving the hospital too. Please do me a favor and make sure they don't boot me from "our place" from not going in there. I sure appreciate it if you'd do this for me. I don't think tatty will boot me but someone else might, lol. Thank you so much pye..you take care my dear friend.

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