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myLot reputation of 95/100. vivianchen (1163)   ranked 175 out of 1,619 in been in love 3 years ago

Will you invite your ex-boyfriend/Girlfriend, Ex-wife/Husband to attend you wedding party? I start this dicussion because one of my good friends got invitaion from her ex-boyfriend, he invited she to attend his wedding party, although he and she became friends after they borke up, she still felt a little upset.
So i start thinking if i get married, will i invite my ex-bf? We are friends now, he even say that i must invite him if i ever get married, now i don't know if i should invite him, please share you opinions!

 

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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. gracie04 (4431)   3 years ago

I don't think it's a good idea so NO WAY! I mean, what for? past is past.. and what my future hubby will say if he finds out? i don't want that to happen, never! i won't sacrifice my happy relationship for the sake of inviting an ex!


myLot reputation of 95/100. vivianchen (1163)   ranked 175 out of 1,619 in been in love  3 years ago

i understand your feeling.

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. tonijane016 (921)   3 years ago

I think I will invite him to my wedding because we are really on good terms right now. Of course there's been a gap between us after the break-up, but we still managed to be friends. I think there would really be no problem at all if CLOSURE was really there.

As regards to your friend who had been invited to attend his ex's wedding and she felt upset, maybe she's just not comfortable with it. Anyway, an invitation is just an invitation. After all, it will not completely oblige you to attend.

If it'd be an ex-husband, I would certainly not. I just think that it's not right.


myLot reputation of 88/100. tonijane016 (921)  3 years ago

I would also consider my husband-to-be about it. If he's not comfortable with such idea, then I would not. I think I am senstive enough with regard to those matters.

happy posting!


myLot reputation of 95/100. vivianchen (1163)   ranked 175 out of 1,619 in been in love  3 years ago

Yes, you are right, she was upset because she was not comfortable about it. She still single, but he is getting married!


myLot reputation of 88/100. tonijane016 (921)  3 years ago

I wonder why she's still single. I hope it has nothing to do with her ex anymore. Has she not gone into other relationship after their breakup? Or was there no closure in their relationship that's why she feels bad about it?

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. soulist (2559)   ranked 313 out of 1,619 in been in love   3 years ago

If he and I are still friends I would. My best friend invited her ex to her wedding because they are still friends. There is one ex who I am very good friends with still but I know it would be painful for him to see me get married, but I would want him there. So I am not sure.


myLot reputation of 95/100. vivianchen (1163)   ranked 175 out of 1,619 in been in love  3 years ago

It's complicated feeling, i understand that. I am not sure if i will invite my EX for that.

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. prinzcy (2733)   3 years ago

I will invite him to my wedding, definitely (either I have good or bad intention, I'll still invite him!) If I'm the one being invited by my ex, I'll go too. I want to show him I don't care less. My brother did the same for her ex-fiancee. He invited her to his wedding but she didn't show up though.


myLot reputation of 95/100. vivianchen (1163)   ranked 175 out of 1,619 in been in love  3 years ago

I don't think i will ever attend the wedding of my Ex-BF, actually he did not invite me, i got to know he got married from one of my friends. I think that's good for both of us.

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5. I_am_me (73)   3 years ago

I may invite it depends who but if that other person is still crying for me he would be trouble on my wedding too.


myLot reputation of 95/100. vivianchen (1163)   ranked 175 out of 1,619 in been in love  3 years ago

You got some points there. If you don't want your wedding party lost contorl, don't invite the EX!

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6. messengerofcat (10)   3 years ago

Oh, No way, It is Not a good idea.


myLot reputation of 95/100. vivianchen (1163)   ranked 175 out of 1,619 in been in love  3 years ago

Hi Messengerofcat,
Why?

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7. myLot reputation of 94/100. joyce423 (1216)   3 years ago

I think it won't be appropraite like what do you want to prove to your ex if your going to invite him or her to your wedding unless you have very good friends and he actually introduced you to your husband or wife. WEll, that would be an exception but if not, I think better keep your invitations and give it to some other friends. :)


myLot reputation of 95/100. vivianchen (1163)   ranked 175 out of 1,619 in been in love  3 years ago

Hi Joyce423,
I think you understand your point. Most of the people will agree with you for that. I think even an EX, there is still something there, right?

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. mizstress (531)   ranked 1,168 out of 1,619 in been in love   3 years ago

for me, personally i wont invite my exboyfriend to my wedding. it is my act of respect to both my groom/husband and to my exboyfriend. i dont want to put them in situation where other guests will ask them what they feel about seeing each other on that day.. my exboyfriend may be offended by the fuzz and buzz hell hear from other guest if he is seen in the wedding. even though they are friends they may feel uneasy with each other that day because other people dont understand them.

happy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 95/100. vivianchen (1163)   ranked 175 out of 1,619 in been in love  3 years ago

Hello Mizstress,
You are a considerate girl, i thought of that, and i think me and my ex is good frined not, will be be offended? I have no idea. So thank you for lighting me up on that. Thank you and have a nice day!

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9. myLot reputation of 73/100. owntuilp (221)   ranked 1,458 out of 1,619 in been in love   3 years ago

it is so good post,but i never thought i can do like that ,what do you plan to do ,if you had get a inviated form your ex-bf or ex-hb?just asking,plz,dont mind ? see you soon.


myLot reputation of 95/100. vivianchen (1163)   ranked 175 out of 1,619 in been in love  3 years ago

If i got a wedding party invitation from my EX, i will accept it first, i will congratulated him, then i will see if i want to attend the party or not. Most probably, i will not go.

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10. myLot reputation of 77/100. chipatil (291)   ranked 520 out of 1,619 in been in love   3 years ago

YOU GOT REALLY A WEIRD QUESTION...
but my ans wud be YES...OF COURSE !!!
dont u think tht this scene wud be worth a million to see ur Ex-BF face (specially if it ws he wud broke wid u)?
you dont get such things so often...so i guess u must do it!
-chirag


myLot reputation of 95/100. vivianchen (1163)   ranked 175 out of 1,619 in been in love  3 years ago

Hi Chipatil,
Everyone have their own thinking on this question, so do you. If you think the invitation won't hurt you or your loved, then it's okay. For me, i think i am okay to see my ex in my wedding party, but i am not sure about my hubby will be happy or not, or my ex will be happy or not. Just have to be very care on such details, have to think deeper and deeper.

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