do you/would you tell your partner about another friend's secret?
By oyenkai
@oyenkai (4394)
Philippines
April 21, 2009 9:11pm CST
I was wondering if you think it's OK to tell your partner about your friend's secret. I think there's a certain conflict of interest because (1) you have to keep your friend's secret because it isn't yours to tell; and then (2) aren't you supposed to tell your partner everything (most especially if you're married) because you're supposed to be united in everything?
3 responses
@daliaj (5674)
• India
22 Apr 09
I won't tell all the secrets of my friends to my husband. I might tell some of them. I don't think it is a big issue because I know that my husband is not going to tell that to anyone. I won't tell any other person my friend's secret.
@happy2009 (330)
• China
22 Apr 09
I never did so .
Though we are unite in everything we have ,but this can't be in that extension,we have our own friends ,and also we should not betray every friend we owned.
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@spalladino (17891)
• United States
22 Apr 09
No, I never betray a confidence so there are things that my husband still doesn't know about. My word is very important to me and, if I promise something, I will do it...keeping a secret from everyone included. Just because you're married or in a relationship with someone does not mean that you have to tell them everything that you know. If you don't feel that you can keep a friend's secret from your partner than at least tell your friend that before she confides in you.
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