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sapphire_b (90)8 months ago

I read one posting here asking if crying is a sign of weakness in a person. Correct me if I am wrong, but it said there that crying is good and it actually helps us, especially women, to release stress that most men can't that leads to other diseases like heart attack. That is why according to survey, in a couple, it is almost always that the husband dies first than his wife.

I asked my brother in law then last night if they were taught not to cry because they are men or they just can't really cry or can keep themselves from crying because of ego or pride. He said no, that it is natural that men are not used to crying. However, watching television drama seeing a man crying made me wonder how that such actor can really make themselves cry that hard. Do you really think that crying is a weakness especially for men? Do you mind if the man cry?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3388)   ranked 52 out of 35,223 in people   8 months ago

I don't view it as a weakness. I have seen my dad cry over my mother when they were younger. He loves her so much that any thought of her not loving him made him sad. I know he cried at times when his mother passed away. I have seen my husband cry over things that really touch him. I don't see him cry often but he has in the past.

I think a man who cries all the time, as well as a woman, means something else though. Too much of anything isn't good. thumbdown

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. maezee (4350)   ranked 1,005 out of 35,223 in people   8 months ago

No, I don't mind it if a man cries. You're right, it helps ease tension, stress, and is good for us emotionally to not keep everything bottled up. I think for a man (or woman) to occasionally cry is a GOOD thing - it shows that we're in touch with our emotions and aren't cold-hearted.

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3. myLot reputation of 78/100. fwangaa (2424)   ranked 957 out of 35,223 in people   8 months ago


i don't mind, i am also want to cry someday. and i like cry that will let me less press.i don't let the press in my heart. and i aso see many men cry when they met on good things. so i don't reject cry. many many men must cry for their heart more kind and more friendly to other. cry is from our inner, that's right when you found you must cry. so let us to study the important of cry, and cry everyday. and try our best to cry loudly.

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