Chat on Cam or with real person you meet? works best?
By neelianoscet
@neelianoscet (9615)
Philippines
April 27, 2009 8:27am CST
Do you have any ideas which flirting strategy works well on you, flirting on cam or chatting directly with the person you like? I believe that I can make my best move on flirting on cam with the first time encounters with the person I like. I can think clearly and express my thoughts. Especially,if you're shy and cannot think faster which words to say. But, if you really want to know the person attitudes and his personality. I think it's better to talk to him personally, which could develop into intimate friendship. Could you please give me your ideas which strategy works best on you?
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
haha...really my dear? hehe
with me, i can say that its more easy on cam for its not real...haha, there's not much pressure and you can still hide some feelings when you are on cam...
personal chatting is much better for me coz you will feel the sincerity of the person, but the problem with me is that, i always ended up speechless when i am talking to the person that i like...hehe and i even have problem in approaching him coz i'm a shy type you know...hehe


@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
haha...shy but dangerous? hmmmm
actually i already hear someone saying that to me...hehe but its not actually that way...he just told me that my 'killer smile is dangerous!' haha ahem!
i don't know if he mean that or he's just joking...haha
nah, im not active in recitation, hehe actually i hate recitations! huh! i don't raise my hand during those times, i just wait for my prof to call me..and luckily, i always have the right answer...hehe (hangin!)
they say that i am talkative coz they always see me chatting with my seat mates even during class...haha and when we are on break, i am still talking...
split personality, coz we have 2 different personalities that we use, according to situation...haha
a, you know, that's one thing that i learn from my husband...to know how to start a conversation even to someone that i just know...he wants me to be always approachable & friendly...
professional writer in the making? haha i wish! you're better than me in writing...
i don't know if he mean that or he's just joking...haha
nah, im not active in recitation, hehe actually i hate recitations! huh! i don't raise my hand during those times, i just wait for my prof to call me..and luckily, i always have the right answer...hehe (hangin!)
they say that i am talkative coz they always see me chatting with my seat mates even during class...haha and when we are on break, i am still talking...
split personality, coz we have 2 different personalities that we use, according to situation...haha
a, you know, that's one thing that i learn from my husband...to know how to start a conversation even to someone that i just know...he wants me to be always approachable & friendly...
professional writer in the making? haha i wish! you're better than me in writing...@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
shy but dangerous inside and outside..lol..
smiles is always a welcome sights...I see you are a bedimpled lady...
yeah,me too and it would really drives me nuts sometimes when a new mates makes fun of me..
somehow, we are similar as i am also active only during recitation and every curricular activities, but usually feel toungue tied or torpe..when I met a new person and have to adjust my behavior too..
yeah,having split personality never means one is going to be crazy it the other ways around..one acts like talkative or silent depending on the situation and your moods too..
yeah, I notice too you are a professional writer on the making..lol
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smiles is always a welcome sights...I see you are a bedimpled lady...
yeah,me too and it would really drives me nuts sometimes when a new mates makes fun of me..
somehow, we are similar as i am also active only during recitation and every curricular activities, but usually feel toungue tied or torpe..when I met a new person and have to adjust my behavior too..
yeah,having split personality never means one is going to be crazy it the other ways around..one acts like talkative or silent depending on the situation and your moods too..
yeah, I notice too you are a professional writer on the making..lol
!@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
yeah, me too is shy but very playful inside my mind...if they only know my mind travels most of the times..
smiles send a lot of messages and different interpretation too..
me recite most of the times as I am good in memorization like having a photographic mind..
my only weaknesses is math subject and I am really dumb on it..
but, hopefully I manage to pass BusinessAdmin..hahaha..using calculator as my best buddy..
me too talkative too when I am in the mood..but most of the times i exhibit quietness like a saintly girl but inside have wild imagination, too..ssshhh
yup, your husband is right and every things we do must know to get along with other people whatever places you go..
hey you're no. your already reach the no. 1 leader board ranking..really sweat it out..huh..
me too struggling to be..hehehe...sometimes i run out of ideas and have ideas too but it could not be allow here as it is naughty and mylot would really censor it...
me too talkative too when I am in the mood..but most of the times i exhibit quietness like a saintly girl but inside have wild imagination, too..ssshhh
yup, your husband is right and every things we do must know to get along with other people whatever places you go..
hey you're no. your already reach the no. 1 leader board ranking..really sweat it out..huh..
me too struggling to be..hehehe...sometimes i run out of ideas and have ideas too but it could not be allow here as it is naughty and mylot would really censor it...

@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
4 Oct 09
well it depends on the situation,some people find chatting very interesting and since you can also see the person on cam,you can see his expressions,gestures,and a like..there are many couple that are successful too online dating because if they both really mean to be.the relationship works too.on the other hand in the reality i much prefer the person to see in person,i do appreciate his existence and i will get him to know him by conversation and i also can observe his gestures etc..

@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
4 Oct 09
I am quite the opposite of you as i really find it hard to meet a real friend online and I am very disappointed with the way some people introduce themselves to me. They even do not say a word or greeting and they just show their real self and many is stalking me that is why I like to retain my privacy as most are perverts. I do not find chatting on cam as exciting except for a few friends and family. i get really mad and annoying with a lot of people who join i networking sites is exhibitionist and a great pretender.
Most likely to remain anonymous as I mostly get a stalker which i really hate. I often end up closing my cam and the first time I am excited but finally stop chatting on cam unless I know this person for a long time. I am not a believer in online dating and i prefer the old fashion way the real meeting and conversation as it is really hard to trust to anyone..

@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
Yup, me too I most prefer a face to face conversation as i could learn more the behavior of the person and his facial reactions rather than doing all the stuffs in cam. I think too doing conversation in cam do not excites me as i only imagine watching a movies rather than actual conversation.




