Can you hate somebody who lie that love you ?can be hate a solution?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
May 2, 2009 11:59am CST
Hate make peoples feel good maybe for one moment. when say "i hate you"..and feel more free of tentions, but can somebody hate somebody else who don t answer to his feelings? I don t think so...maybe can t forgive him, but never hate. Do you really hate somebody in your life? who?
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5 responses
• India
2 May 09
It depends. Hate is not really a solution as you cannot hate someone whom you said you loved. Well, it;s just contrary ain't it? You might start disliking, but out right hate is not a solution and I think that hating should never be chosen as a solution. bourne
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
2 May 09
you know..love an gate mean that you care about somebody, and is just one step between love and hate, and in just a second all can change...but is very bad to say that you are indifferent, i prefear hate. this can be changed, indifference can t be changed
• India
2 May 09
Well if someone doesnt care about you, what's the point in caring about them be it hate or love? being indifferent would at least wont make you feel guilty, if not depressed. bourne
@anniefannie (1737)
• United States
2 May 09
No I don't hate anyone in my life.I don't like some people but that is not as same as hate to me.Sooner or later I always forgive that person that has done something to me in the past.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
2 May 09
you will forgive, because time is the best teacher, and to forget is a human quality...
• United States
3 May 09
Hi, Icesmile! I think hate is an expression of extreme anger, and that's not an emotion I recognize. I've been resentful occasionally, but I've never felt hatred toward anyone. I'm not very good at anger, either. I've been told that's a sign of depression, which is a major problem for me, but I just don't have those feelings. I may be weird, but I'm glad about it.
• United States
22 May 09
I'm also glad to be appreciated. It's mutual. Joanne
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
3 May 09
i hated a man a lot who cheated me before.but i am ok now i nearly forgot him now.hate is not very good feeling cause hate made me always remind what hurt me before.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
2 May 09
well, te there are a few people whom i just don't ever wish to meet again in life. they spoke ugly about me, spoilt some of my very good relations and thn pretended to be good to me... when i realised that they were at fault, it was too late to confront. i dont hate them but i don't wish to speak to them either. sometime in life, if they come to me for help i would certainly help them but i may not be very friendly with them. if this is hate then i hate them.. if this is just dislike then i dislike them.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
2 May 09
i understand your feeling, i have this feeling sometimes too